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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about a BDSM room for those of us who like it?"
I like that idea, I dabble it that scene as well, but there are a few dedicated sites for that, like naturist sites. It would be nice if there was a 'catch all' site lol |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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As much as I love BDSM, I wouldn't use a chatroom specifically for it. I find I have to self edit so much on the forums or rooms here. Some people can't get their head around basic Ds and when some of the fetishes are discussed in the forums, posters are ridiculed or called names. If I am on cam, I have to be careful what I do. I wouldn't do my normal bdsm play on cam in a room. It just doesn't feel the place for it. I'd feel much more comfortable talking about most bdsm on different sites and keep the milder/crossover stuff for here so I don't know how useful it would be for us fetishists on here.
You only have to look at some fetish forum threads to see the response from some of the swingers that don't approve. Imagine constantly having to explain or justify yourself in a room with people saying.... 'Well I think it's wrong.' It just wouldn't feel a comfortable space for me.
On a plus side.... For those crossover swingers that want to ask questions about basic fet without exposing themselves to some of the extreme fet on certain websites, it could be useful.
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"As much as I love BDSM, I wouldn't use a chatroom specifically for it. I find I have to self edit so much on the forums or rooms here. Some people can't get their head around basic Ds and when some of the fetishes are discussed in the forums, posters are ridiculed or called names. If I am on cam, I have to be careful what I do. I wouldn't do my normal bdsm play on cam in a room. It just doesn't feel the place for it. I'd feel much more comfortable talking about most bdsm on different sites and keep the milder/crossover stuff for here so I don't know how useful it would be for us fetishists on here.
You only have to look at some fetish forum threads to see the response from some of the swingers that don't approve. Imagine constantly having to explain or justify yourself in a room with people saying.... 'Well I think it's wrong.' It just wouldn't feel a comfortable space for me.
On a plus side.... For those crossover swingers that want to ask questions about basic fet without exposing themselves to some of the extreme fet on certain websites, it could be useful.
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