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Will Dogging bridge the gap for many?
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Apologies if mentioned elsewhere but this is a topic I've been mulling over this weekend and would be interested to hear others thoughts. Years ago, there was a fairly thriving underground dogging scene until media coverage and the surge in swinger club popularity thinned things out.
With club opening likely to be some time away, I wonder if many couples who would normally go clubbing would revert to some form of dogging in the interim. By the way, when I say dogging I don't mean like the porn-site version of it where it's basically an outdoors greedy-girl session, but more like the old style exhibitionist/voyeur thing, with contact ranging from none, to lots with varying shades in between.
After all....
- It's not reliant on clubs opening
- It can provide a social avenue missing with the clubs and allows networks to be maintained
- It's easy to maintain a degree of social distancing, be that in distance or via a barrier (car window!)
Not saying that any resurgence will be maintained for long, as I'd expect when clubs to open many people will go back to there, but I do wonder if we will start seeing a massive spike in interest in this, as lockdown continues to ease but indoor venues remain closed.
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Hopefully it will make a comeback it died off as couples probably preferred clubs but it still goes on up our way it’s not as busy as it used to be but still get couples out what I have noticed is there’s plenty of couples getting out during the lockdown and taking pics outdoors so fingers crossed it picks up  |
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Interest is already spiking.
But people new to dogging should look up the etiquette because it’s not “a fuck in a car park”. Dogging is watching couples have sex and if you’re extremely lucky they will ask you to get involved.
It involves waiting around for hours, sometimes to never see a couple.
People would honestly have better luck if they want “action” waiting. |
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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago
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Following with interest, never done it, always liked security of the clubs, but maybe in a few more weeks, months with some other like minded trusted pals may be inclined to dabble in outdoor fun, we just have to see  |
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dogging as always been active up here with various well known spots,the only problem nowdays is councils are fitting cameras which for some not all scares people off and the influx of boy racers parking up smoking what ever and spoiling it,i have noticed an increase weather its due to clubs shut or money problems but certainly alive and thriving |
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"Interest is already spiking.
But people new to dogging should look up the etiquette because it’s not “a fuck in a car park”. Dogging is watching couples have sex and if you’re extremely lucky they will ask you to get involved.
It involves waiting around for hours, sometimes to never see a couple.
People would honestly have better luck if they want “action” waiting. "
Yes, thats why alluded to the porn form of dogging vs the original style.
I used to be on the scene a bit in Notts years ago (and was involved.in running a forum about it too) and one guy I spoke to recalled his time 20-odd years prior (and this was years ago to start with) where dogging to him was wearing camouflage gear, grease painting the face and shimmying up a tree to see if he can stay still to observe a couple playing.
By the time I got involved it wasn't like that, but there was certainly a 'community' and most of the action there was chat and socialising. Most shows' were watched at a respectful distance unless invited nearer or to have some involvement and it was the rare exception when there was a 'taking all cummers' type situation. It did happen, but so very very seldomly.
We are not in the scene at all, but may go for a recce within thin the next few weeks to keep our finger on the pulse and see how things have changed.
Biggest ball ache, always used to be people leaving headlights on and the ridiculous string of cars tailing couples closely as they move from car park to car park. I always used to find staying in one place, and getting a rep for not being one of the 'chasing pack' actually got me more action than constantly moving!
Be fun to have a little drive around though, and will be interesting to see if it gets busier and busier over coming weeks/months or not |
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By *eglieanCouple
over a year ago
Torbay |
That's going to be interesting, especially if your partner didn't know,,, when the N.H.S. ping a mail over to you for quantine. And then start going through your records informing them.
Surly people can see a blow job, or a fuck is mega dangerous, you can catch covid from touching an infected person ,, from breath droplets. The more people stop looking for loopholes,,including Mr Cummings,,the quicker we will get back to normal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally its a no from us. Always preferred clubs (female here) just like the security and safety i feel in a club. If it means waiting a while i don't mind. |
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Whilst some of us will go to known spots, it's probably a great time for us to be looking for private spots that aren't known for it. These can then be enjoyed in our own ways, our rules, without the boy racers and others causing inconvenience.
We could get them going whilst waiting for the adult cinemas and clubs to reopen. Full 2m physical distancing is still feasible |
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"Hi just throwing this out there I've a few acres very very secluded in the Cotswold I was wandering if it was of interest to start some kind of secure dogging area thoughts please"
Kind of defeats the whole object of dogging. That just becomes a club in cars.
Part of the excitement of dogging is the unknown and the unpredictability of it. Asking doggers to go to location X and their needs will be met is like asking an Angler to go to an Aquatics Supplier because he'll be guaranteed to get a fish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally its a no from us. Always preferred clubs (female here) just like the security and safety i feel in a club. If it means waiting a while i don't mind. "
This is us x |
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"Personally its a no from us. Always preferred clubs (female here) just like the security and safety i feel in a club. If it means waiting a while i don't mind. "
Same here. We also prefer the comfort and facilities offered by clubs. |
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Will see a lot of interest..could be a way of getting over the excitement frustration..voyeyr and watching while maintaining distance ..very interesting ..or even in private gardens ..would see how it goes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lets hope it dont attract to many as that was the reason it died a death last time ... boy racers...police .... newspapers ...footballers ...mps.....sexual litter .... not repecting non doggers... |
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We enjoy the outdoors, especially when it's pre arranged meet with a likeminded couple, that way we meet, go for a walk in the woods, find a nice private spot and enjoy each other's company!
Then came Covid, still possible, respecting social distancing, from a watching them watching us and taking pics perspective, not to mention having a chat and getting to know each other, for when the fun can really start! But sadly for the time being we all need to be careful! |
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"Hi just throwing this out there I've a few acres very very secluded in the Cotswold I was wandering if it was of interest to start some kind of secure dogging area thoughts please"
I’ve often thought of that as a business idea, pay to enter a field/car park completely legal no risk of upsetting anyone as only Dogger’s would use it |
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"Whilst some of us will go to known spots, it's probably a great time for us to be looking for private spots that aren't known for it. These can then be enjoyed in our own ways, our rules, without the boy racers and others causing inconvenience.
We could get them going whilst waiting for the adult cinemas and clubs to reopen. Full 2m physical distancing is still feasible "
How do people know where to go with out advertising on places like here tho |
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We like playing outdoors rather than dogging but I think both will be on the increase soon judging by couples we speak too...
We know some discreet places for any one in Sussex when Boris says it's ok lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We like playing outdoors rather than dogging but I think both will be on the increase soon judging by couples we speak too...
We know some discreet places for any one in Sussex when Boris says it's ok lol"
What's boris got to do with it, as he got an invite lol |
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"We like playing outdoors rather than dogging but I think both will be on the increase soon judging by couples we speak too...
We know some discreet places for any one in Sussex when Boris says it's ok lolWhat's boris got to do with it, as he got an invite lol "
To follow government advice 
Boris possibly may not say a return to dogging is allowed ha but when he announces outdoor sports are back its then game on !!
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By (user no longer on site)
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My only concern would be if dogging took off again in a big way wouldn't the police be there all the time. Because if I remember it is against the law to have sex with someone outside your house hold.. |
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