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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.
would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights. |
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"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.
would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights. "
What club on a Monday? |
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"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.
would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights. "
Which club? There is a difference between a club promoting a safer sex environment and individuals being reckless. All clubs I have been to have promoted safer sex. Your post could potentially damage a business so I hope you can back up your allegations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would not choose to go to an irresponsible club no, however I have been to quite alot and seen nothing but safe sex promoted so skeptic of the truth in this |
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"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.
would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights.
Which club? There is a difference between a club promoting a safer sex environment and individuals being reckless. All clubs I have been to have promoted safer sex. Your post could potentially damage a business so I hope you can back up your allegations."
Agreed - as far as I am aware, all clubs promote safe sex & I’ve never heard of a bareback event at a club! In fact a lot of clubs even provide testing facilities too!
Townhouse not only have condoms available in every room, but also partner with Sahir House who come along to 2 or 3 different events a year to provide confidential testing & support.
No club can enforce safe sex - it’s ultimately personal choice, and couples will also play without protection -but I’ve never heard of a club openly promoting unsafe sex  |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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I have seen bareback in clubs - not for me. However do I blame the clubs no. Every club I have been to up and down the country promotes safe sex.
For me it’s just part of the scene put a condom on and make sure you have them with you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never known of a club to promote or even suggest Bareback, however every club I’ve been too I’ve seen bareback with strangers other couples. I think most promoters will guide towards safe sex, even quite a few offer condoms, but will never stop consensual BB.
Each to their own, some people love it some people hate it, some people get off on the risk, some it turns them off immediately.
Who is anyone else to judge though, if you don’t like don’t do it, practice safe sex and stay away from the ones that do practice BB. I love it and get tested regularly, but I’m always open about it. |
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"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.
would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights. "
It wouldn’t put us going to clubs in general; we just wouldn’t attend those particular nights.
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I'm 17 years in the scene I've only seen clubs and parties advocating safe sex.
I've seen married people use protection with their spouse at parties on the grounds that someone else might have sex with one of them later.
I've also seen bareback sex at clubs, as far as i could tell consensual. It's not necessarily against club rules. If all parties consent it is their business. |
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Bareback happens in clubs all the time but it's usually between couples
We ALWAYS use protection with others but together it's not needed.
It's extremely hard for a club to enforce safe sex because you don't
always know who is a couple and who isnt. All they can do is promote safety. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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My personal view is each person is responsible for their own sexual health and choices, the club provides a venue but they are not expected to police people's preferences.
I personally only use protection but I feel it's up to the individual not the club.
It's my responsibility so I make that clear and behave accordingly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.
would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights. "
If that’s what people want... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.
would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights.
Which club? There is a difference between a club promoting a safer sex environment and individuals being reckless. All clubs I have been to have promoted safer sex. Your post could potentially damage a business so I hope you can back up your allegations.
Agreed - as far as I am aware, all clubs promote safe sex & I’ve never heard of a bareback event at a club! In fact a lot of clubs even provide testing facilities too!
Townhouse not only have condoms available in every room, but also partner with Sahir House who come along to 2 or 3 different events a year to provide confidential testing & support.
No club can enforce safe sex - it’s ultimately personal choice, and couples will also play without protection -but I’ve never heard of a club openly promoting unsafe sex "
Hear hear!! I agree! |
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It would completely put me off.
Ultimately what goes on between consenting adults is up to them.
But I wouldn’t attend a club that promotes bareback - I would be wary of those attending such events and whether they would presume they can bareback everyone there and the worry of condoms being removed.
For my own peace of mind I’d much rather simply give it a miss and stick to visiting those clubs that promote safe sex. |
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Interesting seeing how some people seem more relaxed about taking risks with the HIV & STD viruses than they do with COVID-19.
I wonder if this so far un-named Monday Night Club would insist on face masks whilst barebacking? |
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Sure the point of different club nights is to cater for different preferences and bring people with those preferences together? I don't think its a wise practice but we are all adults. We hope people who do this are at least regularly checked but we know this is not always the case or fool proof. It would not be for us. We are strictly for the use of condoms with other people. So we would no doubt avoid these nights and possibly people we knew attended them. And possibly the club as a whole if it had a reputation for a high number of members bare backing. Because when it comes to oral we don't go as far as taking precautions. We know oral is far lower risk but not 100% risk free. So naturally the thought of a place with a high risk of STI's amongst its attendees would be most off putting and make oral a lot more of a risky prospect as apose to oral with people who don't bare back. |
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"My personal view is each person is responsible for their own sexual health and choices, the club provides a venue but they are not expected to police people's preferences.
I personally only use protection but I feel it's up to the individual not the club.
It's my responsibility so I make that clear and behave accordingly."
Same for us |
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By *VK2018Man
over a year ago
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It won't surprise me if any club decides to set aside bb day If people can openly arrange Bb gangbang on this site and site admin don't take it down. I have been to few clubs and never seen any promoting bb yet people play bb. What people do with themselves is up to them. |
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By *VK2018Man
over a year ago
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"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.
would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights. "
Is this a secret opinion pole to know if bb would attract patronage? Might be you are planning on hosting bb night..   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, yes it would put me off. I would refrain frk. Going that particular night, but wouldn't have a great view of the clubs management if they were promoting it.
Id rather not go on a night where there are poeple who don't respect their own health. |
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I grew up in the 80s so a big no for me personally but if others make that choice well then we are all adults. I have on a few occasions been offered and it just ended any hope of any play. In this life only YOU can protect YOURSELF |
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