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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All seems a bit unhygienic to me .. "
Just remember
Hands, Face, Space and you will be fine 
They are far from what you would imagine (Well with the exception of one club that we will never return to). |
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh. "
The Attic pre Covid was £25 for a single Male, take your own drinks. In a Lap dancing club it's £20 for a private dance, so not bad value. We would spend more than that on drinks alone in a vanilla Nightclub. |
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"Can't wait to meet nice people, sauna, hot tub, fun
What are your favourite things to do in the swingers club? "
The main thing I'm looking forward to is an overnight stay at Chams with a very sexy visitor to my room |
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh. "
Good to see that policy works. Nowt worse than going in a club being the only female in thier and be followed around constantly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The whole club vibe is ace, dancong, flirting, chatting, slowly feeling the whole place on fire with sexual chemistry..then the fact you can play, if the opportunity comes up.. Love it.. Cant wait to get back involved. |
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"Can't wait to meet nice people, sauna, hot tub, fun
What are your favourite things to do in the swingers club?
The main thing I'm looking forward to is an overnight stay at Chams with a very sexy visitor to my room"
Might make it more than one night |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
The Attic pre Covid was £25 for a single Male, take your own drinks. In a Lap dancing club it's £20 for a private dance, so not bad value. We would spend more than that on drinks alone in a vanilla Nightclub."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
I know what you mean  "
We go as a 'trio' and not a couple sometimes, gets round the crazy price to bring a friend along with us! |
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
I know what you mean
We go as a 'trio' and not a couple sometimes, gets round the crazy price to bring a friend along with us! "
Smart think, but not all clubs give a discount. |
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
I know what you mean
We go as a 'trio' and not a couple sometimes, gets round the crazy price to bring a friend along with us!
Smart think, but not all clubs give a discount."
....and not all clubs rip off guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dancing, flirting and walking around in heels and underwear feeling generally fantastic. So missed the whole booking a hotel, choosing of outfits and shoes and getting excited at the thought of what’s to come  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arousals which I went to has been shut sadly, so not sure if I will be going to a club again at all unfortunately
I guess that means i cant get jealous of some of the girls amazing pole dancing skills atleast haha! |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"All seems a bit unhygienic to me .. "
They are very often cleaned a lot more often than other businesses, but they are not for everybody so if you don't think the clubs scene will suit you, there is absolutely no pressure to attend. |
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"Dancing, flirting and walking around in heels and underwear feeling generally fantastic. So missed the whole booking a hotel, choosing of outfits and shoes and getting excited at the thought of what’s to come "
The dressing up was a huge part of the fun for me, too |
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can't believe blokes are still banging on about club prices , Jesus , for £25 ~£50 you get to use the great facilities like hot tubs ~ pools etc , spend time around some gorgeous naked women and if their chilled out ,polite and engage in some conversation might get to have some fun , but these fella's are usually the ones who after 20 mins are moaning that they haven't had any action and are calling the place shit , they should stick to going to a Witherspoons and having a wank when they get home |
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Although we didn't go often, we've really missed being able to go to clubs. Nothing getter than getting dressed up sexily in an outfit far too risqué for your standard night out, being around like minded people and of course, the fun!
Apart from one club we attended years ago that was a bit grotty we've always found clubs clean! Until you've been and experienced something for yourself, don't knock it! Just hoping most clubs are able to come through this and get back on their feet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I use clubs like a pub/bar/nightclub, the differences being I can wear what I want and if I "get lucky" there are safe places to have fun in rather than taking a stranger home.
They are fantastic for socialising as people are often more willing to talk than in a pub too |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"can't believe blokes are still banging on about club prices , Jesus , for £25 ~£50 you get to use the great facilities like hot tubs ~ pools etc , spend time around some gorgeous naked women and if their chilled out ,polite and engage in some conversation might get to have some fun , but these fella's are usually the ones who after 20 mins are moaning that they haven't had any action and are calling the place shit , they should stick to going to a Witherspoons and having a wank when they get home "
. I mostly go on a Friday night to OP4F as a gold member I pay a entrance fee of £50 it’s bring your own alcohol as they don’t have a license but do serve soft drinks which is fine for me as I don’t drink. I always go with the attitude no expectations no disappointments and if I get to meet a single lady or a couple and I get to have some adult fun well then it’s a bonus.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can't believe blokes are still banging on about club prices , Jesus , for £25 ~£50 you get to use the great facilities like hot tubs ~ pools etc , spend time around some gorgeous naked women and if their chilled out ,polite and engage in some conversation might get to have some fun , but these fella's are usually the ones who after 20 mins are moaning that they haven't had any action and are calling the place shit , they should stick to going to a Witherspoons and having a wank when they get home "
True but so funny the way that you put it.
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"can't believe blokes are still banging on about club prices , Jesus , for £25 ~£50 you get to use the great facilities like hot tubs ~ pools etc , spend time around some gorgeous naked women and if their chilled out ,polite and engage in some conversation might get to have some fun , but these fella's are usually the ones who after 20 mins are moaning that they haven't had any action and are calling the place shit , they should stick to going to a Witherspoons and having a wank when they get home . I mostly go on a Friday night to OP4F as a gold member I pay a entrance fee of £50 it’s bring your own alcohol as they don’t have a license but do serve soft drinks which is fine for me as I don’t drink. I always go with the attitude no expectations no disappointments and if I get to meet a single lady or a couple and I get to have some adult fun well then it’s a bonus."
So basically you think to yourself "I'm going to go and pay £50 to get into a place where I drink my own booze and I'm expecting nothing else"
In any other environment that would just be weird.
Oh and "Gold Membership" price - how much is normal single male price. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally iv got no issue with clubs membership and entrance fees and think they should be more for males! Helps keep idiots away! While a few undesirables still get through, they usually quickly get identified and removed, either by staff or other members.
As for bringing your own Alcohol, why not? It’s put behind the bar for your consumption and therefore saving you more on drinks for the evening! No one forces anyone to attend a club, and if your going to a club for Sex? Maybe save yourself the heart ache and pay the ladies down the rd a few extra quid and get your kicks there. That way your guaranteed some “action”
I for one appreciate the club atmosphere, facilities and hope I show others the same respect I’d expect myself. We’re all frustrated with lock down and missing the mingling with others as well as clubs. And hopefully, this can be resolved this year? And before anyone pours piss on my hopes, save yourself the bother. Your no more the expert on this as I am! And all we can do is wait and see....
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"can't believe blokes are still banging on about club prices , Jesus , for £25 ~£50 you get to use the great facilities like hot tubs ~ pools etc , spend time around some gorgeous naked women and if their chilled out ,polite and engage in some conversation might get to have some fun , but these fella's are usually the ones who after 20 mins are moaning that they haven't had any action and are calling the place shit , they should stick to going to a Witherspoons and having a wank when they get home . I mostly go on a Friday night to OP4F as a gold member I pay a entrance fee of £50 it’s bring your own alcohol as they don’t have a license but do serve soft drinks which is fine for me as I don’t drink. I always go with the attitude no expectations no disappointments and if I get to meet a single lady or a couple and I get to have some adult fun well then it’s a bonus.
So basically you think to yourself "I'm going to go and pay £50 to get into a place where I drink my own booze and I'm expecting nothing else"
In any other environment that would just be weird.
Oh and "Gold Membership" price - how much is normal single male price. "
. Members only club so you need to apply for membership and be accepted.Silver membership is generally £10 a night more depending what night you go. |
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We love the excitement of getting dressed up, catching up with friends, having great sex, then spending the rest of the evening wearing little our nothing, then more great sex - usually with a variety of people! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh. "
Get a lady to go with you . There's plenty single females on here |
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"can't believe blokes are still banging on about club prices , Jesus , for £25 ~£50 you get to use the great facilities like hot tubs ~ pools etc , spend time around some gorgeous naked women and if their chilled out ,polite and engage in some conversation might get to have some fun , but these fella's are usually the ones who after 20 mins are moaning that they haven't had any action and are calling the place shit , they should stick to going to a Witherspoons and having a wank when they get home "
These type of guys think they are sex clubs and don’t realise that sex is not guaranteed. They leave pubs and head for the swingers club thinking they will get sex. Not good at all for the single women who go alone to these clubs. I’ll not tolerate any nonsense from these type of guys. |
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
Get a lady to go with you . There's plenty single females on here "
Because there are loads of females on here lining up to be used by guys just to get a cheap entry!!! A lot of clubs don't allow coupling up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can clubs just not charge everyone the same, but point out there are ‘x number of single male places for tonight’ and have it as first come, first served?
I’ve been to a libertine club in France where it was done by ratio; eg for every 3 couples 1 single male. But this was all done in advance.
I once went to a club when my play partner couldn’t come for the evening, thought I could get in on our couples membership, was pretty soon informed I’d be paying single male price and another membership fee. Thought the second membership fee was a bit of a pisstake. Retreated to my car to get my wallet for the extra cash; saw a lady I’d chatted to a few weeks earlier, she offered to be my plus one; saved me £40. |
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"What is the best club to attend
I can certainly tell you the worst ones to attend lol "
I'm going out on a limb here and say he is looking for the one with the highest chance of him getting sex in. |
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Being single I find the cost is at times prohibiting, usually go to bi nights if I do go as tend to have more fun their. However it’s not all about sex, used the old Kestrels a lots and had some good times there just mingling and made Don good friends. Go with no expectations and any fun is a bonus |
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By *andSCouple
over a year ago
Old London Town |
"I use clubs like a pub/bar/nightclub, the differences being I can wear what I want and if I "get lucky" there are safe places to have fun in rather than taking a stranger home.
They are fantastic for socialising as people are often more willing to talk than in a pub too"
Absolutely. There’s the butterflies as you get ready, the excitement of getting dressed up and the thrill of looking at all the sexy people strutting their stuff.
How wiling people are to chat is one of the surprises for us. We can sit down in our local and no one would come and talk to us all night. That has literally never happened in a club we’ve been to. |
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"What is the best club to attend
I can certainly tell you the worst ones to attend lol
I'm going out on a limb here and say he is looking for the one with the highest chance of him getting sex in."
Sex is not guaranteed though! |
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"What is the best club to attend "
All clubs are essentially the same. They can be large or small, dress up or dress down, ‘dry’ or ‘wet’ (with sauna, hot tubs, pool etc), and either licensed or bring your own alcohol. What makes the experience however, is who is in when you are....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We can’t wait to attend some bi nights again.
The chance to mix with likeminded others and where Abby is able to relax and have the freedom to be herself without being judged by others X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We love the excitement of getting dressed up, catching up with friends, having great sex, then spending the rest of the evening wearing little our nothing, then more great sex - usually with a variety of people!"
a very good idea ... that is why we like clubs both in UK and in Madrid ... x Anne
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"What is the best club to attend
All clubs are essentially the same. They can be large or small, dress up or dress down, ‘dry’ or ‘wet’ (with sauna, hot tubs, pool etc), and either licensed or bring your own alcohol. What makes the experience however, is who is in when you are......."
They are not the same you silky sausage!  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"What is the best club to attend
All clubs are essentially the same. They can be large or small, dress up or dress down, ‘dry’ or ‘wet’ (with sauna, hot tubs, pool etc), and either licensed or bring your own alcohol. What makes the experience however, is who is in when you are.......
They are not the same you silky sausage! "
Silly rather. Although your sausage might be silky, I've yet to find out |
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"What is the best club to attend
All clubs are essentially the same. They can be large or small, dress up or dress down, ‘dry’ or ‘wet’ (with sauna, hot tubs, pool etc), and either licensed or bring your own alcohol. What makes the experience however, is who is in when you are.......
They are not the same you silky sausage!
Silly rather. Although your sausage might be silky, I've yet to find out "
There are plenty of people who can confirm how silky (or not) my sausage is, 99% of them outside of the club scene |
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As a single male I enjoy chatting with like minded people with dirty minds n like a laugh, sex isn't a garuntee but a bonus but make new friends n get to see some very sexy women get a sauna to what more can you want from a night out
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"Probably watching and feeling good vibes with everyone around. Just a shame about single male prices. Looks like I'll have to find a partner in crime"
There's been a lot written about club entry prices for single males in these forums. Indeed I was amongst those that initially said they were too high; however, when I got to thinking about it, I realized that I generally stick to a budget of around £200.00 a year on clubs, which equates (roughly) to about 5 visits. If clubs lowered their prices, I'd either go more often- to a maximum spend of current budget or stick with my current frequency and spend less. In both of these scenario s the clubs don't benefit infact, they could even loose money.
Clubs could lower prices and maintain profits by admitting more single guys but from my experience, that doesn't always make for a good club experience (for anyone).
I'm happy for the status quo to remain and can't wait for the clubs to open up again, as I'll be attending some time shortly after. |
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"Probably watching and feeling good vibes with everyone around. Just a shame about single male prices. Looks like I'll have to find a partner in crime
There's been a lot written about club entry prices for single males in these forums. Indeed I was amongst those that initially said they were too high; however, when I got to thinking about it, I realized that I generally stick to a budget of around £200.00 a year on clubs, which equates (roughly) to about 5 visits. If clubs lowered their prices, I'd either go more often- to a maximum spend of current budget or stick with my current frequency and spend less. In both of these scenario s the clubs don't benefit infact, they could even loose money.
Clubs could lower prices and maintain profits by admitting more single guys but from my experience, that doesn't always make for a good club experience (for anyone).
I'm happy for the status quo to remain and can't wait for the clubs to open up again, as I'll be attending some time shortly after."
If a club let more single men in that would be a disaster. I’ve been to certain clubs alone and been followed round and had to deal with these undesirables, so if more were allowed in then I would not be attending clubs. Most guys who visit clubs think it’s a sex club and it is not! I think rules should be refreshed to them when they arrive in reception, wagging finger telling them one step out of line and they are out! |
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"Personally iv got no issue with clubs membership and entrance fees and think they should be more for males! Helps keep idiots away! While a few undesirables still get through, they usually quickly get identified and removed, either by staff or other members.
As for bringing your own Alcohol, why not? It’s put behind the bar for your consumption and therefore saving you more on drinks for the evening! No one forces anyone to attend a club, and if your going to a club for Sex? Maybe save yourself the heart ache and pay the ladies down the rd a few extra quid and get your kicks there. That way your guaranteed some “action”
I for one appreciate the club atmosphere, facilities and hope I show others the same respect I’d expect myself. We’re all frustrated with lock down and missing the mingling with others as well as clubs. And hopefully, this can be resolved this year? And before anyone pours piss on my hopes, save yourself the bother. Your no more the expert on this as I am! And all we can do is wait and see....
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Fair enough but why do u think that word undesirables and idiots are only meant for men?? I hv been to clubs and met so many female n couples that are idiots and undesirables..its kinda insulting to the male gender for people to always term them undesirables and idiots.. its human nature..idiots can be of both gender |
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"Personally iv got no issue with clubs membership and entrance fees and think they should be more for males! Helps keep idiots away! While a few undesirables still get through, they usually quickly get identified and removed, either by staff or other members.
As for bringing your own Alcohol, why not? It’s put behind the bar for your consumption and therefore saving you more on drinks for the evening! No one forces anyone to attend a club, and if your going to a club for Sex? Maybe save yourself the heart ache and pay the ladies down the rd a few extra quid and get your kicks there. That way your guaranteed some “action”
I for one appreciate the club atmosphere, facilities and hope I show others the same respect I’d expect myself. We’re all frustrated with lock down and missing the mingling with others as well as clubs. And hopefully, this can be resolved this year? And before anyone pours piss on my hopes, save yourself the bother. Your no more the expert on this as I am! And all we can do is wait and see....
Fair enough but why do u think that word undesirables and idiots are only meant for men?? I hv been to clubs and met so many female n couples that are idiots and undesirables..its kinda insulting to the male gender for people to always term them undesirables and idiots.. its human nature..idiots can be of both gender"
I’m talking of my experiences and was commenting on what the previous poster said about letting more single guys in clubs! I’m sure there are idiots in both genders! |
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"Never been to one. Joined at the wrong time 
Would be my pleasure taking u to yr first party
Lol did she ask you to take her? "
She doesn't need to ask to make a polite offer.. can u kindly educate me on what was wrong in making an offer as am scratching my head here unless u just wanted to gain relevance by being her guardian angel |
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"Personally iv got no issue with clubs membership and entrance fees and think they should be more for males! Helps keep idiots away! While a few undesirables still get through, they usually quickly get identified and removed, either by staff or other members.
As for bringing your own Alcohol, why not? It’s put behind the bar for your consumption and therefore saving you more on drinks for the evening! No one forces anyone to attend a club, and if your going to a club for Sex? Maybe save yourself the heart ache and pay the ladies down the rd a few extra quid and get your kicks there. That way your guaranteed some “action”
I for one appreciate the club atmosphere, facilities and hope I show others the same respect I’d expect myself. We’re all frustrated with lock down and missing the mingling with others as well as clubs. And hopefully, this can be resolved this year? And before anyone pours piss on my hopes, save yourself the bother. Your no more the expert on this as I am! And all we can do is wait and see....
Fair enough but why do u think that word undesirables and idiots are only meant for men?? I hv been to clubs and met so many female n couples that are idiots and undesirables..its kinda insulting to the male gender for people to always term them undesirables and idiots.. its human nature..idiots can be of both gender
I’m talking of my experiences and was commenting on what the previous poster said about letting more single guys in clubs! I’m sure there are idiots in both genders! "
Again I was pointing out the wrongfull assumption by majority of people that idiots are mostly of the male gender |
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"Personally iv got no issue with clubs membership and entrance fees and think they should be more for males! Helps keep idiots away! While a few undesirables still get through, they usually quickly get identified and removed, either by staff or other members.
As for bringing your own Alcohol, why not? It’s put behind the bar for your consumption and therefore saving you more on drinks for the evening! No one forces anyone to attend a club, and if your going to a club for Sex? Maybe save yourself the heart ache and pay the ladies down the rd a few extra quid and get your kicks there. That way your guaranteed some “action”
I for one appreciate the club atmosphere, facilities and hope I show others the same respect I’d expect myself. We’re all frustrated with lock down and missing the mingling with others as well as clubs. And hopefully, this can be resolved this year? And before anyone pours piss on my hopes, save yourself the bother. Your no more the expert on this as I am! And all we can do is wait and see....
Fair enough but why do u think that word undesirables and idiots are only meant for men?? I hv been to clubs and met so many female n couples that are idiots and undesirables..its kinda insulting to the male gender for people to always term them undesirables and idiots.. its human nature..idiots can be of both gender
I’m talking of my experiences and was commenting on what the previous poster said about letting more single guys in clubs! I’m sure there are idiots in both genders!
Again I was pointing out the wrongfull assumption by majority of people that idiots are mostly of the male gender"
No I was just responding to the previous poster comment about letting more single males in clubs and my experience of being followed around by males in clubs and their approach to me. I never said all males were idiots. |
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Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time. |
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over a year ago
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"People watch, play, strut around in barely any clothes... Those kind of things! Cannot wait for them to open again - we were only just getting into the swing of things! Xxher "
This |
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"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time."
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go...... |
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Just get to no people in the bar area first, walk around abit and have a nosey about, go in the hot tub, and just see what happens in the evening.
I usually like to go with others as I feel more comfortable or meet someone there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't wait to meet nice people, sauna, hot tub, fun
What are your favourite things to do in the swingers club? "
The idea of being back in a club, particularly after all the lockdowns, just sounds beyond amazing.
The buzz of excitement, when planning a trip, booking a hotel, and rocking up at a club not knowing how your night will be, with zero expectations but wild enthusiasm and a good social scene, is always fun. Few drinks, maybe jacuzzi, or chatting to other open minded people, often learning or seeing new things, all of it is what I’m looking forward to. Whatever happens, I’ve never had a bad night, don’t view it as expensive and don’t understand viewpoints that are negative or label it as costly, and plenty of great behaviours, I’ve seen the odd bit of behaviour that isn’t great but that’s all genders.
That after club buzz, or whatever else, is always amazing too. |
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"Can't wait to meet nice people, sauna, hot tub, fun
What are your favourite things to do in the swingers club?
The idea of being back in a club, particularly after all the lockdowns, just sounds beyond amazing.
The buzz of excitement, when planning a trip, booking a hotel, and rocking up at a club not knowing how your night will be, with zero expectations but wild enthusiasm and a good social scene, is always fun. Few drinks, maybe jacuzzi, or chatting to other open minded people, often learning or seeing new things, all of it is what I’m looking forward to. Whatever happens, I’ve never had a bad night, don’t view it as expensive and don’t understand viewpoints that are negative or label it as costly, and plenty of great behaviours, I’ve seen the odd bit of behaviour that isn’t great but that’s all genders.
That after club buzz, or whatever else, is always amazing too. "
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By *959femxCouple
over a year ago
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On politics west this morning Bristol are considering banning adult entertainment clubs apparently already some areas of the country have done so I wonder if swingers clubs will be in the firing line too. |
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By *lub playCouple
over a year ago
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"On politics west this morning Bristol are considering banning adult entertainment clubs apparently already some areas of the country have done so I wonder if swingers clubs will be in the firing line too. "
This has always been different in every area of the UK for swingers clubs and we can't see that ever changing anytime soon. Some areas are more Liberal in their approach to clubs and others you would have more chance of winning the lottery than opening a club.
That's not to say some councils or areas may not use these times to push agenda's they already have and not just with swingers club's, thats politics I am afraid.
For us in Blackpool we have no such problems and expect to be opening as soon as we are legally allowed xxx |
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"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......"
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cant wait...Will be something new... Anyone wanna partner up?
New or Experienced, I don't mind. I'd go on the person and how we vibe.
Kinda want the full experience. Food, Drink, Club, Hotel/Apartment.
It's a while away but yeah, couldn't hurt to chat to some like minded people |
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"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men "
Well I’ve had bad experiences in clubs with single guys without a pandemic, so imagining June when they go to a club not having had nooky for over a year, that’s unless the clubs limit the amount of single guys allowed in. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men
Well I’ve had bad experiences in clubs with single guys without a pandemic, so imagining June when they go to a club not having had nooky for over a year, that’s unless the clubs limit the amount of single guys allowed in. "
To be honest, I'm probably going to be humping the leg of every man within a 10 mile radius. |
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Not done a club before but I'm gathering they got a reputation to uphold. They'll implement what they deem necessary. And if there are places that are uncomfortable for women, I guess they'll just flop then. Just my thoughts |
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"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men
Well I’ve had bad experiences in clubs with single guys without a pandemic, so imagining June when they go to a club not having had nooky for over a year, that’s unless the clubs limit the amount of single guys allowed in.
To be honest, I'm probably going to be humping the leg of every man within a 10 mile radius."
should we put a warning label on you |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Not done a club before but I'm gathering they got a reputation to uphold. They'll implement what they deem necessary. And if there are places that are uncomfortable for women, I guess they'll just flop then. Just my thoughts "
Very few, if any, clubs are actually overrun with handsy single men, you tend to find couples and single women that only play with couples are the ones that say that, oh, and other single men. Personally, I think we need more single men at clubs |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men
Well I’ve had bad experiences in clubs with single guys without a pandemic, so imagining June when they go to a club not having had nooky for over a year, that’s unless the clubs limit the amount of single guys allowed in.
To be honest, I'm probably going to be humping the leg of every man within a 10 mile radius. should we put a warning label on you "
A label won't cut it, you'll need sirens and flashing lights. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel ya...I suppose they are the experts and they know what they are doing. Well hopefully. But yeah I'm not even going into any clubs with negative thoughts.. Blank piece of paper here. Down for total fun |
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"Not done a club before but I'm gathering they got a reputation to uphold. They'll implement what they deem necessary. And if there are places that are uncomfortable for women, I guess they'll just flop then. Just my thoughts
Very few, if any, clubs are actually overrun with handsy single men, you tend to find couples and single women that only play with couples are the ones that say that, oh, and other single men. Personally, I think we need more single men at clubs "
I'm a respectful single guy been many clubs I agree they never overrun by guys x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I so miss clubs just over a year since my last visit! To the attic an the townhouse "
I cant wait tbh...Never done one, Well looking forward to them. Gonna be a sick second half of the year |
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"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men
Well I’ve had bad experiences in clubs with single guys without a pandemic, so imagining June when they go to a club not having had nooky for over a year, that’s unless the clubs limit the amount of single guys allowed in. "
The fact you call it nooky worries me. Guys are human beings. They not all there to make your night uncomfortable or not enjoyable |
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"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men
Well I’ve had bad experiences in clubs with single guys without a pandemic, so imagining June when they go to a club not having had nooky for over a year, that’s unless the clubs limit the amount of single guys allowed in.
The fact you call it nooky worries me. Guys are human beings. They not all there to make your night uncomfortable or not enjoyable "
I never said they weren’t human or that they visit clubs to make me uncomfortable. I’ve just had some bad experiences when visiting a club as a woman alone, with some men who really don’t understand the concept of a swingers club. I merely meant it’s worrying for a woman like me being around such men who haven’t had nooky for over a year who think sex is guaranteed in a club, so I’ll probably wait a while before I visit a club after the restrictions are eased. I’m sorry if my comment was not appealing to you and the word nooky offends you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh. hah got to stop the clubs becoming a sausage fest somehow "
Charge couples more and control the sigle male ratio.
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"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men
Well I’ve had bad experiences in clubs with single guys without a pandemic, so imagining June when they go to a club not having had nooky for over a year, that’s unless the clubs limit the amount of single guys allowed in.
The fact you call it nooky worries me. Guys are human beings. They not all there to make your night uncomfortable or not enjoyable
I never said they weren’t human or that they visit clubs to make me uncomfortable. I’ve just had some bad experiences when visiting a club as a woman alone, with some men who really don’t understand the concept of a swingers club. I merely meant it’s worrying for a woman like me being around such men who haven’t had nooky for over a year who think sex is guaranteed in a club, so I’ll probably wait a while before I visit a club after the restrictions are eased. I’m sorry if my comment was not appealing to you and the word nooky offends you "
Without question no offence is taken other than you have had bad experiences. Reading your veris I cannot see you have tried the clubs we attend so maybe we have had very different experiences. In very different environments |
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"No means No I suppose...
No
No mean no - full stop.
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Absolutely. 'No' is very clear, no "suppose" about it."
This is exactly the problem with some guys in clubs ‘no means no I suppose’! Some of them really don’t understand.
No means no full stop! |
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"No means No I suppose...
No
No mean no - full stop.
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Absolutely. 'No' is very clear, no "suppose" about it.
This is exactly the problem with some guys in clubs ‘no means no I suppose’! Some of them really don’t understand.
No means no full stop! "
Obviously no means no... No means no in any situation! Its just how I word things... |
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"No means No I suppose...
No
No mean no - full stop.
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Absolutely. 'No' is very clear, no "suppose" about it.
This is exactly the problem with some guys in clubs ‘no means no I suppose’! Some of them really don’t understand.
No means no full stop!
Obviously no means no... No means no in any situation! Its just how I word things..."
Glad you realise this. It’s important when a person says no then it’s no, not ‘I suppose it’s no’.
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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Now that the NO subject has been done to death - Just a note to say....
Even with a 'no' or two, swingers clubs are generally great fun!
A place to go and chill, have a drink if you wish, make new friends and contacts and possibly fulfil some or all of your fantasies.
I hope none of the rants put any of you off what could be a great experience. Not all clubs are for everyone, but if you don't enjoy one then try another as they are all different |
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"Now that the NO subject has been done to death - Just a note to say....
Even with a 'no' or two, swingers clubs are generally great fun!
A place to go and chill, have a drink if you wish, make new friends and contacts and possibly fulfil some or all of your fantasies.
I hope none of the rants put any of you off what could be a great experience. Not all clubs are for everyone, but if you don't enjoy one then try another as they are all different "
I’ve not seen any rants on this thread.
Clubs are not for everyone but its the people who make the experience. They are good for social and if all consenting then fantasies can be fulfilled. I was once asked by a polite chap in a club ‘what does this place mean to you?’ My answer ‘a place where dreams can come true’. He thought it a very good description |
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"Now that the NO subject has been done to death - Just a note to say....
Even with a 'no' or two, swingers clubs are generally great fun!
A place to go and chill, have a drink if you wish, make new friends and contacts and possibly fulfil some or all of your fantasies.
I hope none of the rants put any of you off what could be a great experience. Not all clubs are for everyone, but if you don't enjoy one then try another as they are all different "
Yes hanky |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"Now that the NO subject has been done to death - Just a note to say....
Even with a 'no' or two, swingers clubs are generally great fun!
A place to go and chill, have a drink if you wish, make new friends and contacts and possibly fulfil some or all of your fantasies.
I hope none of the rants put any of you off what could be a great experience. Not all clubs are for everyone, but if you don't enjoy one then try another as they are all different
Yes hanky "
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh. "
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol, |
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol, "
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!! |
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!! "
So what's the price for a single man |
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!! "
And ? lol. |
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What I'm interested in, is what clubs choose to do about the membership fees. Some people will have renewed their memberships only days before lockdown struck. Will clubs extend membership periods, or will everyone have to renew on day one?
And if memberships have to be renewed on day one, who is going to decry that element of financial support for the clubs? |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!! "
Depends on the club. I know a club around that price to get in for a single guy!? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!! "
I spend around £70 going out for a night at a club, that's without a hotel room if required, so I can assure you, it's not always as cheap as you think. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"What I'm interested in, is what clubs choose to do about the membership fees. Some people will have renewed their memberships only days before lockdown struck. Will clubs extend membership periods, or will everyone have to renew on day one?
And if memberships have to be renewed on day one, who is going to decry that element of financial support for the clubs?"
You would have to speak to the clubs in question - it's logically down to the individual businesses. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!!
I spend around £70 going out for a night at a club, that's without a hotel room if required, so I can assure you, it's not always as cheap as you think. "
Where as a lot of men rely on their old faithful underpants and a squirt of Lynx
Before you start shouting guys, I am well aware it's not all of you!! |
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!!
I spend around £70 going out for a night at a club, that's without a hotel room if required, so I can assure you, it's not always as cheap as you think. "
Our local club is £60 for a could and that's with a room |
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!!
I spend around £70 going out for a night at a club, that's without a hotel room if required, so I can assure you, it's not always as cheap as you think.
Our local club is £60 for a could and that's with a room "
For a couple, dam phone lol |
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
The Attic pre Covid was £25 for a single Male, take your own drinks. In a Lap dancing club it's £20 for a private dance, so not bad value. We would spend more than that on drinks alone in a vanilla Nightclub."
Is the attic good club for a single male sounds like a good club and a nice price for a good night |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
The Attic pre Covid was £25 for a single Male, take your own drinks. In a Lap dancing club it's £20 for a private dance, so not bad value. We would spend more than that on drinks alone in a vanilla Nightclub.
Is the attic good club for a single male sounds like a good club and a nice price for a good night "
It's all subjective but I personally think it's a good club, it's one of my favourites. I've been to a fair few clubs over the years by my self, the entry prices have ranged from £5 to £45 the average price is usually or was round the £25/30 Mark.
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By (user no longer on site)
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As Hanky p has already said I think it will depend on the clubs but I think people who take out memberships are more connected to the club rather than just a guest who pays as and when they decide to go. Some clubs don’t charge to be a member but you pay a higher price on entrance than say a club that has an annual fee then cheaper admission.
What id say tho is the year without clubs has shown how much they are needed and why we need to support clubs as much as possible. Can’t wait to be back |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!!
I spend around £70 going out for a night at a club, that's without a hotel room if required, so I can assure you, it's not always as cheap as you think.
Where as a lot of men rely on their old faithful underpants and a squirt of Lynx
Before you start shouting guys, I am well aware it's not all of you!! "
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"No means No I suppose...
No
No mean no - full stop.
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Absolutely. 'No' is very clear, no "suppose" about it.
This is exactly the problem with some guys in clubs ‘no means no I suppose’! Some of them really don’t understand.
No means no full stop!
Obviously no means no... No means no in any situation! Its just how I word things..."
There is no way that using tbe words "I suppose" doesn't come across as doing something willingly.
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!!
I spend around £70 going out for a night at a club, that's without a hotel room if required, so I can assure you, it's not always as cheap as you think.
Where as a lot of men rely on their old faithful underpants and a squirt of Lynx
Before you start shouting guys, I am well aware it's not all of you!! "
You know it was a good meet, when she messages next day to ask what scent you wear  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!!
I spend around £70 going out for a night at a club, that's without a hotel room if required, so I can assure you, it's not always as cheap as you think.
Where as a lot of men rely on their old faithful underpants and a squirt of Lynx
Before you start shouting guys, I am well aware it's not all of you!!
You know it was a good meet, when she messages next day to ask what scent you wear "
Or alternatively she just liked the scent and wants to know to buy it for her fella |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!!
I spend around £70 going out for a night at a club, that's without a hotel room if required, so I can assure you, it's not always as cheap as you think.
Where as a lot of men rely on their old faithful underpants and a squirt of Lynx
Before you start shouting guys, I am well aware it's not all of you!!
You know it was a good meet, when she messages next day to ask what scent you wear "
Africa..... |
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!!
I spend around £70 going out for a night at a club, that's without a hotel room if required, so I can assure you, it's not always as cheap as you think.
Where as a lot of men rely on their old faithful underpants and a squirt of Lynx
Before you start shouting guys, I am well aware it's not all of you!!
You know it was a good meet, when she messages next day to ask what scent you wear
Or alternatively she just liked the scent and wants to know to buy it for her fella "
.....so he doesn't notice my scent on her again |
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Swingers club as a single woman...lol!!
I spend around £70 going out for a night at a club, that's without a hotel room if required, so I can assure you, it's not always as cheap as you think.
Where as a lot of men rely on their old faithful underpants and a squirt of Lynx
Before you start shouting guys, I am well aware it's not all of you!!
You know it was a good meet, when she messages next day to ask what scent you wear
Africa..... "
One of my teenaged sons wears Africa |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
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clubs are like marmite people seem to love them or hate them.The one thing that annoys me is when you get someone dissing all clubs after one visit.Clubs come in many flavours full on dance floors with well stocked bars to seedy dives above a betting shop theres wet clubs and dry clubs ones that are man heavy and some that are couples only.
some clubs are really just a venue and different nights are run by different people so they can be very different on different nights
we used to always visit a club twice before we made a judgement
when it comes to bad behaivour I think weve seen more upsets caused by couples than singles
Since the rise of the internet everything has changed, prior to about 98 you only found clubs by word of mouth or very cryptic adverts it was very underground and much more fun The open access that the web has provided has changed it all |
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"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men
Well I’ve had bad experiences in clubs with single guys without a pandemic, so imagining June when they go to a club not having had nooky for over a year, that’s unless the clubs limit the amount of single guys allowed in. "
You aren't the only one that has had bad experiences, that's not man bashing that's just fact. |
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over a year ago
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"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol, "
Wait... Are most of these 'Bring Your Own Booze'??
Would usually just go Raves/Festivals but im throwing in a couple of these Parties this year.
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"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men
Well I’ve had bad experiences in clubs with single guys without a pandemic, so imagining June when they go to a club not having had nooky for over a year, that’s unless the clubs limit the amount of single guys allowed in.
You aren't the only one that has had bad experiences, that's not man bashing that's just fact."
We always go on couples and single lady's nights, problem solved |
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By *iraelWoman
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"My favourite thing is to go to the website, check out the single male price, then say, nahhhhhh.
It's only £25 to get in and you take your oun drinks (about another£10) where can you have a night out for that lol,
Wait... Are most of these 'Bring Your Own Booze'??
Would usually just go Raves/Festivals but im throwing in a couple of these Parties this year.
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Some clubs are licensed, some aren’t. I tend to prefer the BYOB ones as it’s then a cheaper evening for me! |
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By *iraelWoman
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men
Well I’ve had bad experiences in clubs with single guys without a pandemic, so imagining June when they go to a club not having had nooky for over a year, that’s unless the clubs limit the amount of single guys allowed in.
You aren't the only one that has had bad experiences, that's not man bashing that's just fact.
We always go on couples and single lady's nights, problem solved "
That does solve the problem, but it wouldn’t work for me!
Luckily I haven’t had any major issues with single men at Chams. The one time someone was a bit of an idiot it was very easily solved with a trip to the bar and a quick conversation with Mark. |
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As soon as we are changed we get a drink then hit the jacuzzi for a while just to unwind and chat with others.
Then its shower and steam the shower and cinema room seems to get a lot of action in their mmm. Only had one bad experience in chamilions and they sorted it out d*unken male Sunday afternoon, groping me told him 5 or 6 times not to touch. the entire club vibe is great from the bar to the glory hole bed ,can't wait to go back. |
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We always go on couples and single lady's nights, problem solved "
Shows we are all different and have had different experiences as I will avoid couples nights like the plague as have had all my worst experiences on these nights with women thinking that every woman wants their attention and they can touch without asking or pushy couples |
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"can't believe blokes are still banging on about club prices , Jesus , for £25 ~£50 you get to use the great facilities like hot tubs ~ pools etc , spend time around some gorgeous naked women and if their chilled out ,polite and engage in some conversation might get to have some fun , but these fella's are usually the ones who after 20 mins are moaning that they haven't had any action and are calling the place shit , they should stick to going to a Witherspoons and having a wank when they get home "
Lmfao
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
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We always go on couples and single lady's nights, problem solved
Shows we are all different and have had different experiences as I will avoid couples nights like the plague as have had all my worst experiences on these nights with women thinking that every woman wants their attention and they can touch without asking or pushy couples "
I avoid couples nights for the same reason. I've had more handsy women than men. |
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Dressing to impress the hubby in lingerie he hasn't seen till I dress down at the club!
The flirting and teasing happening between everyone and all so complimentary of each other, its a buzz that I think you'll find hard to match.
CANNOT WAIT FOR THEM TO REOPEN |
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"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men
Well I’ve had bad experiences in clubs with single guys without a pandemic, so imagining June when they go to a club not having had nooky for over a year, that’s unless the clubs limit the amount of single guys allowed in.
You aren't the only one that has had bad experiences, that's not man bashing that's just fact.
We always go on couples and single lady's nights, problem solved "
If it works for you that’s great.
Thing is I like single men! I don’t like women or couples when I’m alone yet I’m bombarded with couples when I’m alone at a club, mainly because the females are bi, I’m not. |
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"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men
Well I’ve had bad experiences in clubs with single guys without a pandemic, so imagining June when they go to a club not having had nooky for over a year, that’s unless the clubs limit the amount of single guys allowed in.
You aren't the only one that has had bad experiences, that's not man bashing that's just fact.
We always go on couples and single lady's nights, problem solved
If it works for you that’s great.
Thing is I like single men! I don’t like women or couples when I’m alone yet I’m bombarded with couples when I’m alone at a club, mainly because the females are bi, I’m not. "
Yer got to go with what works for you,I would take it as a complete that couples like you and want to chat, we don't mind anyone coming and chatting to us as people don't know what you like till thay ask x |
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"Year of lockdown, grinding winter months, I’m itching to get back to a club.
Not just to meet and have a laugh with likeminded folk and maybe some fun. Part of me just wants to see everyone lose their shit when these places are allowed to open again, and go for hell for leather making up for lost time.
That’s what is bothering me! All the guys who have not had nooky for over a year! I’ll wait till Autumn to go......
What a totally unfair comment of you’ve said this not tongue in cheek. Very unfair of you to generalise men like that. In our experience of 12 years in the scene we have hardly had any bad experiences with anyone. I think you should keep away. Clubs will be safer. With your attitude towards men
Well I’ve had bad experiences in clubs with single guys without a pandemic, so imagining June when they go to a club not having had nooky for over a year, that’s unless the clubs limit the amount of single guys allowed in.
You aren't the only one that has had bad experiences, that's not man bashing that's just fact.
We always go on couples and single lady's nights, problem solved
If it works for you that’s great.
Thing is I like single men! I don’t like women or couples when I’m alone yet I’m bombarded with couples when I’m alone at a club, mainly because the females are bi, I’m not.
Yer got to go with what works for you,I would take it as a complete that couples like you and want to chat, we don't mind anyone coming and chatting to us as people don't know what you like till thay ask x "
That’s very true and I like the social aspect of clubs, however some couples I’ve chatted to I’ve had the feeling they are rushing conversation to get to a room and I’ll not feel comfortable. However chatting is fine. |
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