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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always take multiple dress down outfits. Just incase one get abit wet lol or sometimes I’m just not feeling the one I’m wearing or planned to wear so good to have options. Also spare shoes if wearing heels. And sometimes a leggings and a top to leave in hahaha. Nice to be comfy on the way home from a good night. |
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By *izred OP Couple
over a year ago
mid cornwall |
"I always take multiple dress down outfits. Just incase one get abit wet lol or sometimes I’m just not feeling the one I’m wearing or planned to wear so good to have options. Also spare shoes if wearing heels. And sometimes a leggings and a top to leave in hahaha. Nice to be comfy on the way home from a good night. "
All in a pull along suitcase? |
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By *outhbucksCouple
over a year ago
Great Missenden |
Talk to each other beforehand so you know each others boundaries, both soft and hard.
Agree a 'safe word/phrase' you can drop into conversation so you can extricate yourselves easily from people you don't want to play with.
Also agree a 'oh yes please!' safe word/phrase you can drop into conversation to indicate to each other that you DO want to play with someone. |
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By *izred OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Talk to each other beforehand so you know each others boundaries, both soft and hard.
Agree a 'safe word/phrase' you can drop into conversation so you can extricate yourselves easily from people you don't want to play with.
Also agree a 'oh yes please!' safe word/phrase you can drop into conversation to indicate to each other that you DO want to play with someone."
We've discussed our "no" phrase, but we hadn't thought about a "hell yes!" phrase. Although I'm sure we will be able to read that on each others faces  |
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By *izred OP Couple
over a year ago
mid cornwall |
"Uncomplicated clothes/shoes incase you need a quick exit… nothing worse than scrabbling around looking for your kit then having to work out how to put it back on in a dimly lit room…. "
Is a dryrobe acceptable?  |
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Check if they take card or only cash, and if its BOYD or if they have a bar, talking from experience!
Towel situation.
How to get into the club, if you don't already know, Google maps.
Discuss before you go, how you'll decide where to sit, do you want to sit by yourselves for the first drink, do you want to ask another couple if you can sit with them.
That sort of stuff is that so think makes clubs more scary than they need to be. |
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