"Never been before and the thoight of going alone is a little daunting.
Does anyone have any advice, what to expect, what to wear, how the evening goes?"
Hey hun feel free to message me if you so wish but clubs are the safest places for us single females to meet new people xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Never been before and the thoight of going alone is a little daunting.
Does anyone have any advice, what to expect, what to wear, how the evening goes?
Hey hun feel free to message me if you so wish but clubs are the safest places for us single females to meet new people xx"
I agree. Have been to a couple of clubs on my own, it's always quite an experience.
Let the staff know it's your first time and they'd look after you, will show you around and maybe even introduce you to some of the regulars.
Don't be scared about being assertive, don't let anyone talk you into doing things you don't want to be. I'd say don't get d*unk- if you need alcohol to feel more relaxed, only drink in moderation. And enjoy yourself! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Contact the club you are thinking of going to they'll be able to answer most questions & aleviate any concerns
They can show you are around, introduce you to people
I always try and go on a quiet night first so I can get a feel for a place, explore the different rooms, have an idea of where I might want to spend time on a busier night or if I wanted to play |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
All of the above.
Clubs with multiple areas, public, private and lockable rooms, loud, quiet, wet and dry even the odd kitchen/living room areas: will give you places to match your mood and comfort levels.
This way you can go to whichever place has the best vibe.
Clubs like Jaydees in Cambridgeshire have got this balance just right. Check out their gallery/website and gauge what floats your boat.
Hopefully you will have an idea to decide what you like and don't like, then you can look for a club nearer to your location and feel a bit more informed,
Single females are in a club's best interest. The best clubs know this and will make sure you'll feel happy and relaxed ASAP, even introducing you to the regulars. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Ive been to a few on my own now tgey are tge most friendly places just dress to impress and nice underwear for if u get brave and dress down
If you feel un easy just message the club before you go i did and had someone meet me outside to walk in with me
Hope you have a fab time if you do go  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago
Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me |
"Never been before and the thoight of going alone is a little daunting.
Does anyone have any advice, what to expect, what to wear, how the evening goes?"
I see your from Glasgow, we have a few Scottish that visit us over in Blackpool at club play.
If you ever decide you want to visit they organise travel and stayovers between them all plus there would be someone to come with.
All of the above advice is really good advice too
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Totnes |
Choose a good club , good mix of people with a good reputation ...don't worry ...the reality is far less intimidating than what you might imagine ...
You'll enjoy it, even if you just chat and socialise.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
I know loads of single ladies that go clubbing
1) don’t be afraid to say no
2) tell staff your new they will often arrange a tour of club
3) nice out / sexy underwear and take own condoms / lube
4) don’t drink to much
5) read club reviews and go to club websites and even maybe email people that have left a review
I hope that helps and you have a good and filthy time |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I was absolutely terrified the first time I went.
Now,I'm nearly part of the furniture, but, still working on my confidence.
When you get there, say to the staff, this is my first time to a club.
I went to a club on a social evening, and the hosts introduced me to some lovely people, that really helped.
Be yourself.
Relax and enjoy!
I haven't looked back.
But, I give off an air of confidence, but inside, really shy. I'm still working on it. But, believe me, the clubs are great fun! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"I was absolutely terrified the first time I went.
Now,I'm nearly part of the furniture, but, still working on my confidence.
When you get there, say to the staff, this is my first time to a club.
I went to a club on a social evening, and the hosts introduced me to some lovely people, that really helped.
Be yourself.
Relax and enjoy!
I haven't looked back.
But, I give off an air of confidence, but inside, really shy. I'm still working on it. But, believe me, the clubs are great fun!"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
