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Hi!
We’re heading up to Birmingham from the 10th-13th February and planned on attending the valentines party on the Saturday night at Chams, but we have a few questions if anybody is able to help:
1. There appears to be a social event in Birmingham on the Saturday night. Is this likely to affect attendance at Chams? Is anybody here planning to attend?
2. What time is best to arrive, in your opinion?
3. Are there any special dress code requirements for party nights at Chams, or is it the standard lingerie for the girls and towel/shorts for the men?
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"Chams will not be affected, always good turn out.
Opens 12noon so arrive anytime and chill or if prefer busy around 8pm.
Yes normal dress down, red will be popular choice x"
Thank you so much. We went once before on a weekday afternoon the week before a party, and it was unusually quiet, so hoping for a bit of a busier vibe this time! 8pm sounds reasonable, I’ve noticed it closes at 3, do things tend to ‘wind down’ before then? |
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"Chams will not be affected, always good turn out.
Opens 12noon so arrive anytime and chill or if prefer busy around 8pm.
Yes normal dress down, red will be popular choice x
Thank you so much. We went once before on a weekday afternoon the week before a party, and it was unusually quiet, so hoping for a bit of a busier vibe this time! 8pm sounds reasonable, I’ve noticed it closes at 3, do things tend to ‘wind down’ before then? "
Weekdays are quieter but fun depends who's in. Saturday from 7.30pm is no SM. Very often play still happening till end of night. We're usually last out lol |
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"Chams will not be affected, always good turn out.
Opens 12noon so arrive anytime and chill or if prefer busy around 8pm.
Yes normal dress down, red will be popular choice x
Thank you so much. We went once before on a weekday afternoon the week before a party, and it was unusually quiet, so hoping for a bit of a busier vibe this time! 8pm sounds reasonable, I’ve noticed it closes at 3, do things tend to ‘wind down’ before then?
Weekdays are quieter but fun depends who's in. Saturday from 7.30pm is no SM. Very often play still happening till end of night. We're usually last out lol"
Good to know it continues through the evening! Thank you for your help x |
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"Chams will not be affected, always good turn out.
Opens 12noon so arrive anytime and chill or if prefer busy around 8pm.
Yes normal dress down, red will be popular choice x
Thank you so much. We went once before on a weekday afternoon the week before a party, and it was unusually quiet, so hoping for a bit of a busier vibe this time! 8pm sounds reasonable, I’ve noticed it closes at 3, do things tend to ‘wind down’ before then?
Weekdays are quieter but fun depends who's in. Saturday from 7.30pm is no SM. Very often play still happening till end of night. We're usually last out lol
Good to know it continues through the evening! Thank you for your help x"
Pleasure, have fun, might catch you in there, shots at bar  x |
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"Chams will not be affected, always good turn out.
Opens 12noon so arrive anytime and chill or if prefer busy around 8pm.
Yes normal dress down, red will be popular choice x
Thank you so much. We went once before on a weekday afternoon the week before a party, and it was unusually quiet, so hoping for a bit of a busier vibe this time! 8pm sounds reasonable, I’ve noticed it closes at 3, do things tend to ‘wind down’ before then?
Weekdays are quieter but fun depends who's in. Saturday from 7.30pm is no SM. Very often play still happening till end of night. We're usually last out lol
Good to know it continues through the evening! Thank you for your help x
Pleasure, have fun, might catch you in there, shots at bar x"
Look forward to it x |
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By *x cplCouple
over a year ago
North of Oxford |
Chams party nights normally busy, not been to a quiet one..doubt the social will effect as many attending socials don't often visit clubs that much in our experience...we are booked for the Friday night and definitely looking forward to it. |
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We like weekdays and weekends. Weekdays tent to be more of a chilled atmosphere and less people in. Less people isn't always a bad thing. It can be a bit better for getting to know people and a couple of our hottest nights ever have been on Weekdays in Chams. Fridays, party night busy, vibrant and fun. A fair helping of single guys. Saturdays again busy, vibrant and fun but the dynamic is slightly different without the single guys. Different people we know have different opinions of if Friday or Saturday is the best party night. We like both all personally (Mr) I prefer Saturdays as I feel a little more at ease and less on guard on a Saturday. And if we go on a Saturday we like to spend the Sunday there two which is a lovely chilled day to end the weekend (and seems to be becoming more popular). Our advice is definitely try both a Friday and a Saturday. But also try a weekday. As a rule of thumb Chameleons is never dead even when quiet.
Also looking towards the warmer weather come the summer afternoons out on the sundeck with everyone are great. Whether your just relaxing in the sun, enjoying watching others or getting it on yourselves. Had some great afternoons out there and can't wait for the sun to return. |
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"Chams party nights normally busy, not been to a quiet one..doubt the social will effect as many attending socials don't often visit clubs that much in our experience...we are booked for the Friday night and definitely looking forward to it."
Thank you… we thought this would be the case but I had a cheeky browse of the meets already posted and noticed a lot were attending the social, however I appreciate it’s a few weeks away yet! |
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"We like weekdays and weekends. Weekdays tent to be more of a chilled atmosphere and less people in. Less people isn't always a bad thing. It can be a bit better for getting to know people and a couple of our hottest nights ever have been on Weekdays in Chams. Fridays, party night busy, vibrant and fun. A fair helping of single guys. Saturdays again busy, vibrant and fun but the dynamic is slightly different without the single guys. Different people we know have different opinions of if Friday or Saturday is the best party night. We like both all personally (Mr) I prefer Saturdays as I feel a little more at ease and less on guard on a Saturday. And if we go on a Saturday we like to spend the Sunday there two which is a lovely chilled day to end the weekend (and seems to be becoming more popular). Our advice is definitely try both a Friday and a Saturday. But also try a weekday. As a rule of thumb Chameleons is never dead even when quiet.
Also looking towards the warmer weather come the summer afternoons out on the sundeck with everyone are great. Whether your just relaxing in the sun, enjoying watching others or getting it on yourselves. Had some great afternoons out there and can't wait for the sun to return. "
Thank you, this is really helpful. We went on a weekday afternoon before and although it was quiet and we didn’t play, we did chat to a few people which was nice.
The Saturday night is more convenient for us this time around due to travelling up from Dorset after work on a Friday, but I’m sure we will try a Friday at some point too!
Thank you for your help x |
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"We like weekdays and weekends. Weekdays tent to be more of a chilled atmosphere and less people in. Less people isn't always a bad thing. It can be a bit better for getting to know people and a couple of our hottest nights ever have been on Weekdays in Chams. Fridays, party night busy, vibrant and fun. A fair helping of single guys. Saturdays again busy, vibrant and fun but the dynamic is slightly different without the single guys. Different people we know have different opinions of if Friday or Saturday is the best party night. We like both all personally (Mr) I prefer Saturdays as I feel a little more at ease and less on guard on a Saturday. And if we go on a Saturday we like to spend the Sunday there two which is a lovely chilled day to end the weekend (and seems to be becoming more popular). Our advice is definitely try both a Friday and a Saturday. But also try a weekday. As a rule of thumb Chameleons is never dead even when quiet.
Also looking towards the warmer weather come the summer afternoons out on the sundeck with everyone are great. Whether your just relaxing in the sun, enjoying watching others or getting it on yourselves. Had some great afternoons out there and can't wait for the sun to return.
Thank you, this is really helpful. We went on a weekday afternoon before and although it was quiet and we didn’t play, we did chat to a few people which was nice.
The Saturday night is more convenient for us this time around due to travelling up from Dorset after work on a Friday, but I’m sure we will try a Friday at some point too!
Thank you for your help x"
Weekdays can be a roll of the dice. Especially if your travel is long (we're only an hours drive away). But weekends are always busy (bar 1 in memory out of many times). Maybe sometimes too busy on some theme/hosted party night. But you just can't go wrong on a weekend. |
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"We like weekdays and weekends. Weekdays tent to be more of a chilled atmosphere and less people in. Less people isn't always a bad thing. It can be a bit better for getting to know people and a couple of our hottest nights ever have been on Weekdays in Chams. Fridays, party night busy, vibrant and fun. A fair helping of single guys. Saturdays again busy, vibrant and fun but the dynamic is slightly different without the single guys. Different people we know have different opinions of if Friday or Saturday is the best party night. We like both all personally (Mr) I prefer Saturdays as I feel a little more at ease and less on guard on a Saturday. And if we go on a Saturday we like to spend the Sunday there two which is a lovely chilled day to end the weekend (and seems to be becoming more popular). Our advice is definitely try both a Friday and a Saturday. But also try a weekday. As a rule of thumb Chameleons is never dead even when quiet.
Also looking towards the warmer weather come the summer afternoons out on the sundeck with everyone are great. Whether your just relaxing in the sun, enjoying watching others or getting it on yourselves. Had some great afternoons out there and can't wait for the sun to return.
Thank you, this is really helpful. We went on a weekday afternoon before and although it was quiet and we didn’t play, we did chat to a few people which was nice.
The Saturday night is more convenient for us this time around due to travelling up from Dorset after work on a Friday, but I’m sure we will try a Friday at some point too!
Thank you for your help x
Weekdays can be a roll of the dice. Especially if your travel is long (we're only an hours drive away). But weekends are always busy (bar 1 in memory out of many times). Maybe sometimes too busy on some theme/hosted party night. But you just can't go wrong on a weekend."
Thank you- any recommendations on the best time to arrive on a party night? X |
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"We like weekdays and weekends. Weekdays tent to be more of a chilled atmosphere and less people in. Less people isn't always a bad thing. It can be a bit better for getting to know people and a couple of our hottest nights ever have been on Weekdays in Chams. Fridays, party night busy, vibrant and fun. A fair helping of single guys. Saturdays again busy, vibrant and fun but the dynamic is slightly different without the single guys. Different people we know have different opinions of if Friday or Saturday is the best party night. We like both all personally (Mr) I prefer Saturdays as I feel a little more at ease and less on guard on a Saturday. And if we go on a Saturday we like to spend the Sunday there two which is a lovely chilled day to end the weekend (and seems to be becoming more popular). Our advice is definitely try both a Friday and a Saturday. But also try a weekday. As a rule of thumb Chameleons is never dead even when quiet.
Also looking towards the warmer weather come the summer afternoons out on the sundeck with everyone are great. Whether your just relaxing in the sun, enjoying watching others or getting it on yourselves. Had some great afternoons out there and can't wait for the sun to return.
Thank you, this is really helpful. We went on a weekday afternoon before and although it was quiet and we didn’t play, we did chat to a few people which was nice.
The Saturday night is more convenient for us this time around due to travelling up from Dorset after work on a Friday, but I’m sure we will try a Friday at some point too!
Thank you for your help x
Weekdays can be a roll of the dice. Especially if your travel is long (we're only an hours drive away). But weekends are always busy (bar 1 in memory out of many times). Maybe sometimes too busy on some theme/hosted party night. But you just can't go wrong on a weekend.
Thank you- any recommendations on the best time to arrive on a party night? X"
Personally we generally get there when the club opens. Then have a chilled afternoon there first. Get some lunch etc (they have a reasonable hot food menu). You can always get changed into something a bit sexier for the party and do hair etc later in the day (ideally before the changing room gets really busy). Later in the day you need to consider the car park fills up fast and on a really big party night they can run out of lockers. So we would never recommend getting there not too late if you can. |
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"We like weekdays and weekends. Weekdays tent to be more of a chilled atmosphere and less people in. Less people isn't always a bad thing. It can be a bit better for getting to know people and a couple of our hottest nights ever have been on Weekdays in Chams. Fridays, party night busy, vibrant and fun. A fair helping of single guys. Saturdays again busy, vibrant and fun but the dynamic is slightly different without the single guys. Different people we know have different opinions of if Friday or Saturday is the best party night. We like both all personally (Mr) I prefer Saturdays as I feel a little more at ease and less on guard on a Saturday. And if we go on a Saturday we like to spend the Sunday there two which is a lovely chilled day to end the weekend (and seems to be becoming more popular). Our advice is definitely try both a Friday and a Saturday. But also try a weekday. As a rule of thumb Chameleons is never dead even when quiet.
Also looking towards the warmer weather come the summer afternoons out on the sundeck with everyone are great. Whether your just relaxing in the sun, enjoying watching others or getting it on yourselves. Had some great afternoons out there and can't wait for the sun to return.
Thank you, this is really helpful. We went on a weekday afternoon before and although it was quiet and we didn’t play, we did chat to a few people which was nice.
The Saturday night is more convenient for us this time around due to travelling up from Dorset after work on a Friday, but I’m sure we will try a Friday at some point too!
Thank you for your help x
Weekdays can be a roll of the dice. Especially if your travel is long (we're only an hours drive away). But weekends are always busy (bar 1 in memory out of many times). Maybe sometimes too busy on some theme/hosted party night. But you just can't go wrong on a weekend.
Thank you- any recommendations on the best time to arrive on a party night? X
Personally we generally get there when the club opens. Then have a chilled afternoon there first. Get some lunch etc (they have a reasonable hot food menu). You can always get changed into something a bit sexier for the party and do hair etc later in the day (ideally before the changing room gets really busy). Later in the day you need to consider the car park fills up fast and on a really big party night they can run out of lockers. So we would never recommend getting there not too late if you can."
Thank you, we’ll be at a naturist spa during the day but will perhaps arrive earlier rather than later at Chams. We won’t be driving so not worried about the car park this time around but that’s good to know for another time. Thank you also for the heads up about the lockers x |
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I'm attending the social on Saturday because I'm going to the club on the Sunday for the BBW event.
So it makes a weekend of it for me as I'm traveling from Manchester.
Every club night has ebbs and flows so it's always about going with no expectations and just enjoying the afternoon/night in general
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"I'm attending the social on Saturday because I'm going to the club on the Sunday for the BBW event.
So it makes a weekend of it for me as I'm traveling from Manchester.
Every club night has ebbs and flows so it's always about going with no expectations and just enjoying the afternoon/night in general
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Thank you, hope you enjoy your weekend! X |
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By *iraelWoman
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
Chams won’t be affected by the social on the Saturday, although it will a bit on the Friday as a load of folk are going there as a pre-social.
There’ll possibly be a few people doing the weekend there with the Sunday event, should be a fabulous weekend. |
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"Chams won’t be affected by the social on the Saturday, although it will a bit on the Friday as a load of folk are going there as a pre-social.
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Are you saying you think the Friday night is likely to be quite busy? I’m planning on going that night with my play partner……? |
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over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Chams won’t be affected by the social on the Saturday, although it will a bit on the Friday as a load of folk are going there as a pre-social.
Are you saying you think the Friday night is likely to be quite busy? I’m planning on going that night with my play partner……? "
It might be a bit busier than usual, but it’s not a hundred of us all descending on the place, maybe 20 or 30  |
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"Chams won’t be affected by the social on the Saturday, although it will a bit on the Friday as a load of folk are going there as a pre-social.
Are you saying you think the Friday night is likely to be quite busy? I’m planning on going that night with my play partner……?
It might be a bit busier than usual, but it’s not a hundred of us all descending on the place, maybe 20 or 30 "
We’ve only been twice in the last three years, wasn’t packed out either time, but a good mix of friendly people, and enjoyed ourselves each time 
Could do with a reliable taxi firm number to ferry us in and out of the city centre? |
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"Chams won’t be affected by the social on the Saturday, although it will a bit on the Friday as a load of folk are going there as a pre-social.
Are you saying you think the Friday night is likely to be quite busy? I’m planning on going that night with my play partner……?
It might be a bit busier than usual, but it’s not a hundred of us all descending on the place, maybe 20 or 30
We’ve only been twice in the last three years, wasn’t packed out either time, but a good mix of friendly people, and enjoyed ourselves each time
Could do with a reliable taxi firm number to ferry us in and out of the city centre? "
Last time we went we just used Uber if I remember rightly, but hopefully somebody else can help you out on this one! X |
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By *ndiePairCouple
over a year ago
Beaconsfield |
We will be there on Friday night and looking for both couples and single men to play with.
Feel free to message us on here if you want to chat beforehand and then maybe we can catch up for a drink there and see where it takes us.
We've been a few times but still fairly new to it - so if you haven't been before and need some first time advice we are happy to give it.
M & R xx |
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We are going this Friday and Sunday, both valentines events Friday is great as single men are there so you get more fucks for your bucks Sunday is BBW (don’t matter if you aren’t big) so absolutely packed and again there will be A LOT of fun! Saturday are fun too but only couples so you a bit more reserved x |
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"We hoping to go next weekend, but not sure if we'll do Friday or Saturday (or both!)
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We’re definitely there Friday night, and I’m getting a preview of my play partner’s new lingerie on Tuesday Would be great to say hello inside  |
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"Sorry to jump in we are attending on the 18th, and wondering what hotels are close? Any recommendations are appreciated. "
You can try the club they have hotels rooms. Premier inn Bentley green isnt far from the club. |
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"We will be there on Friday night and looking for both couples and single men to play with.
Feel free to message us on here if you want to chat beforehand and then maybe we can catch up for a drink there and see where it takes us.
We've been a few times but still fairly new to it - so if you haven't been before and need some first time advice we are happy to give it.
M & R xx"
Hello guys , hope you both are doing great
I wanna come to chams this Friday for my 1st visit…. Could you give me some advise please?  |
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"We will be there on Friday night and looking for both couples and single men to play with.
Feel free to message us on here if you want to chat beforehand and then maybe we can catch up for a drink there and see where it takes us.
We've been a few times but still fairly new to it - so if you haven't been before and need some first time advice we are happy to give it.
M & R xx
Hello guys , hope you both are doing great
I wanna come to chams this Friday for my 1st visit…. Could you give me some advise please? "
Who you kidding  xx |
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We will be there Saturday afternoon hopefully will be a few there then… cannot stay much past 8pm as got to be elsewhere…. Hopefully the afternoon will be fun x |
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"We will be there on Friday night and looking for both couples and single men to play with.
Feel free to message us on here if you want to chat beforehand and then maybe we can catch up for a drink there and see where it takes us.
We've been a few times but still fairly new to it - so if you haven't been before and need some first time advice we are happy to give it.
M & R xx
Hello guys , hope you both are doing great
I wanna come to chams this Friday for my 1st visit…. Could you give me some advise please?
Who you kidding xx"
What ? It it my 1st time lol (in a month hahaha) |
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"We will be there on Friday night and looking for both couples and single men to play with.
Feel free to message us on here if you want to chat beforehand and then maybe we can catch up for a drink there and see where it takes us.
We've been a few times but still fairly new to it - so if you haven't been before and need some first time advice we are happy to give it.
M & R xx
Hello guys , hope you both are doing great
I wanna come to chams this Friday for my 1st visit…. Could you give me some advise please?
Who you kidding xx
What ? It it my 1st time lol (in a month hahaha) "
Ha Ha yeah be our first visit for Valentines 2023 |
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