FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Club Discussion > Bitastic today. Luton greenhouse
Bitastic today. Luton greenhouse
Jump to: Newest in thread
Hey, I’m going to Bitastic today at Luton greenhouse. Hopefully a few couples will be going x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I'll be going too..
Would be amazing if a few naughty females/ couples were attending..x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
 |
By *exyPaulMan 36 weeks ago
Peterborough |
Any couples planning on going tomorrow |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I’m planning on visiting today too |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
As normal, plenty of ‘straight’ guys saying they’re going to BI-tastic 
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Is it worth visiting here this late on a Tuesday? Put Greenhouse in the subject box if you're going to message me. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Well, it's Lolly's birthday today and we are attending.
Everyone will get a treat on the night lol. Xx |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
We are attending towards the evening. 7pm |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *ony5Man 33 weeks ago
somewhere |
I'm thinking of making my first visit. Just wondering who's planning to go today. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
How was it ? Thinking of attending next week. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Day off today, thinking of going for a fun day |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Shall I go day time or evening? What's best? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Thinking of going today 1st time to this venue.
Alway up for group fun |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I suppose it would be rude not to attend tomorrow night lol. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
What's the best day for ladies with a little bit xtra? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I'll be there this Tuesday. Drop me a message if you'll be there too |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"I'll be there this Tuesday. Drop me a message if you'll be there too "
I,ll be there too |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
It's a Bi and couples night! Why would you want to attend a bi night just to have the slight possibility of fucking a woman??
It's a gay club technically. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Meedless to say, we will be attending tomorrow whoop whoop.. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I think that’s the little bit extra he’s looking for. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
[Removed by poster at 02/10/23 17:23:25] |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"What's the best day for ladies with a little bit xtra?"
Tuesday or Thursday both can be hit and miss but you’ll find what you’re looking for |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Not critasing, as forum comments are always welcome to keep the thread going, however your straight or is that fab straight, bi guys like to know that the people their are comfortable with same sex fun |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
[Removed by poster at 02/10/23 20:52:29] |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"I'll be there this Tuesday. Drop me a message if you'll be there too
Why? It's a bi night? Gay sauna, ur straight?
I,ll be there too"
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
How can straight guys believe that a chance of pussy think it changes the whole dynamics? Odd thinking I believe x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Why so judgmental. Why would he need to identify to suit you. A look at his profile clearly tells you what he’s in to. Bitastic and Twisted are the right place to find it.
Seems like a lot of drama over nothing.
Unless it’s aimed at me for answering a question in an open inclusive forum? In which case I don’t care. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Why so judgmental. Why would he need to identify to suit you. A look at his profile clearly tells you what he’s in to. Bitastic and Twisted are the right place to find it.
Seems like a lot of drama over nothing.
Unless it’s aimed at me for answering a question in an open inclusive forum? In which case I don’t care. "
Well said mate. So many keyboard warriors on here.   |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
In our defence to this stance, we have been attending Bitastic for over 7 years, in that time we have seen it all too often - straight guys attending , not interacting with the guys but following the women round like sheep! Yes it's open to all but aimed at bi and couples.
I ( Chris ) am bi, we have 2 profiles, Lolly isn't but enjoys the 3rd party interaction.
That said, she gets royally pizzed off with straight guys trying it on with her. Even in the past comment from Straight guys calling her frigid because she wouldn't "put out".
So yes, we can 100% say from experiences that the Fake Fab bi guys do attend with 1 intention and its all too obvious.
We say - be yourself, be real, be honest.! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
My point -
What's the best day for ladies with a little bit xtra?
Straight
Doesn't want single guys, tv, etc.
So, why attend a Bi night unless looking for potentially 2 women together?
Not taking a dig, but if truly Bi or curious, then at least say so. But I garauntee just looking for the women. ! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"My point -
What's the best day for ladies with a little bit xtra?
Straight
Doesn't want single guys, tv, etc.
So, why attend a Bi night unless looking for potentially 2 women together?
Not taking a dig, but if truly Bi or curious, then at least say so. But I garauntee just looking for the women. !"
Think it's a case of cross purposes here. Looking at his veris, a biological woman doesn't have the 'extra' he's looking for.
Dude is after tgirl/ CD. In which case all good. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"My point -
What's the best day for ladies with a little bit xtra?
Straight
Doesn't want single guys, tv, etc.
So, why attend a Bi night unless looking for potentially 2 women together?
Not taking a dig, but if truly Bi or curious, then at least say so. But I garauntee just looking for the women. !
Think it's a case of cross purposes here. Looking at his veris, a biological woman doesn't have the 'extra' he's looking for.
Dude is after tgirl/ CD. In which case all good."
 |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Wow so many opinions on something which is no one's business really
Lol
Forget I asked a simple question |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
To clarify my point..nah..I dont need to |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Why so judgmental. Why would he need to identify to suit you. A look at his profile clearly tells you what he’s in to. Bitastic and Twisted are the right place to find it.
Seems like a lot of drama over nothing.
Unless it’s aimed at me for answering a question in an open inclusive forum? In which case I don’t care. "
Cheers my friend, such a welcoming forum....not |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
How about adding pansexual, yep they do exist..anyway last post in future |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
We attend to just have fun. Ali loves the attention ( when not being followed) all we ask is a bit of manners about asking to touch or joy in. Hope to see you all there soon |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *dam779Man 29 weeks ago
somehwere |
Went there the other day and my god thirsty men touching without permission. It made me feel sick and I ain’t even a female so imagine how they feel |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *dam779Man 29 weeks ago
somehwere |
But I’m attending today who’s coming |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I'm hoping to go this afternoon, not been for a while. Hope there's a few nice people in. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Went there the other day and my god thirsty men touching without permission. It made me feel sick and I ain’t even a female so imagine how they feel"
You may be better not at a bi event. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Went there the other day and my god thirsty men touching without permission. It made me feel sick and I ain’t even a female so imagine how they feel
You may be better not at a bi event. "
I think there's always several straight guys there, expecting it to be full of women. I've been a few times and not even seen any guys playing together. Hopefully different this afternoon! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Went there the other day and my god thirsty men touching without permission. It made me feel sick and I ain’t even a female so imagine how they feel
You may be better not at a bi event.
I think there's always several straight guys there, expecting it to be full of women. I've been a few times and not even seen any guys playing together. Hopefully different this afternoon!"
The poster said it made him 'feel sick', hence the suggestion that he might be better not at a targeted bi event. Same sex activity is still possible at events that aren't targeted, so he may not escape it 100%. It's generally fine for straight people to mix with bi and curious, when tolerance of same gender activities and being LGBTQ supportive. Different venues have their own policies and norms of behaviour of course. Staff will always explain and help out, if guests have questions or problems. It's good for people to learn via fab too, including seeing what concerns and complaints others who may be similar, may have at a club. Primarily gay places that have all genders in attendance are often going to have a different feel, to predominantly straight environments, where bi and gay experiences and events occur. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I think he’s referring to people touching without permission making him feel sick. Not the fact that there’s guy on guy action. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"I think he’s referring to people touching without permission making him feel sick. Not the fact that there’s guy on guy action. "
All places will have rules on unrequited interest and contact, so he'll have seen those rules and guidance and could have individually dealt with each person breaking his boundaries. If he's offering feedback on how others interact with others,then he'll need to leave them to manage their own sexual contact and behaviour. It's ambiguous though and does highlight male on male sexual contact (presumably he wasn't referring to women being involved), when he's within their throngs. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *dam779Man 29 weeks ago
somehwere |
"I think he’s referring to people touching without permission making him feel sick. Not the fact that there’s guy on guy action. "
That’s exactly what I’m tryna say |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Have attended a few "bi" parties that have had numerous st8 guys there clearly seeking women only have been told and seen overtly hostile attitudes even threats made by st8 guys against bi guys who may have touched or suggested an encounter with it creates a not so relaxed vibe for MM interaction it stopped me from attending them for ages get depressing as there are alot of st8 parties advertised far more than bi but st8 still turn up
The clubs won't turn them away as they want there cash |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"I think he’s referring to people touching without permission making him feel sick. Not the fact that there’s guy on guy action.
That’s exactly what I’m tryna say "
That's clear and they should seek permission. And no means no, always. I've been groped and worse at some clubs and it's unsettling, at best.
It's frustrating when people don't pick up on body language shown, to deter them and instead, push through, to then make physical contact. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I went this afternoon, very quiet and very little action of any sort. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"I went this afternoon, very quiet and very little action of any sort."
It's the luck of the draw, with any club, any day |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"I went this afternoon, very quiet and very little action of any sort.
It's the luck of the draw, with any club, any day"
Definitely, Tuesdays aren't the best day though. Must try to get there Weds or Thursday soon. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Anyone attending tomorrow. Plan to be there from 1130 |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
[Removed by poster at 16/10/23 23:34:23] |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *luefire2Couple 27 weeks ago
just somewhere around here |
We looked at trying this place but the reviews and volume of straight single men has 100% put us off ever going. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Yes I'll be going along early ...let's hope there is some horny people attending |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I'll be there this morning till mid afternoon. Can't wait. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Was it busy yesterday afternoon? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Went in the evening. Loved it. Plenty of fun. Was busy with several couples enjoying the Halloween fancy dress and others had fun. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Is today a good day for Gemma to attend x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Is today a good day for Gemma to attend x"
Thursday is TV day! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Is today a good day for Gemma to attend x"
Thursday's is tv day but I has seen girls on a bi Tues turn up
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Is today a good day for Gemma to attend x
Thursday's is tv day but I has seen girls on a bi Tues turn up
"
That's true, I've been with tvs on the bi day too. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Hi there, we haven’t been to Bitastic for a few months but we’re both going along this Tuesday 7th November in the afternoon. Is anyone else
Going too?? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Hi there, we haven’t been to Bitastic for a few months but we’re both going along this Tuesday 7th November in the afternoon. Is anyone else
Going too??"
Yeah I,ll be passing thru
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Hi there, we haven’t been to Bitastic for a few months but we’re both going along this Tuesday 7th November in the afternoon. Is anyone else
Going too??"
Never been myself but tempted now  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
We are coming tomorrow, please be respectful and we look forward to playing with you all  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
|
Nothing like a bunch of straight guys at a bi-event...
 |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
[Removed by poster at 06/11/23 11:30:50] |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Nothing like a bunch of straight guys at a bi-event...
"
Mmmmmm judgemental comment
To be fair it's no ones business as to what and the why..
At the end of the day its all about having fun with like minded people |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Do what ever and who ever you want bud, it’s up to the people involved to say yay or nay |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *9smoothMan 25 weeks ago
in the sticks |
Looks like a good day tomorrow |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Do what ever and who ever you want bud, it’s up to the people involved to say yay or nay "
Well said my friend
My thoughts exactly |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
|
I’m going to head down for the day |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Great night with great people
What a night!  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I've been a few times on a Tuesday lunchtime, its usually quiet but some times it's not stop. But I'm usually the only TV there, seen the same woman with her man a couple of times.
Personally I've been fucked 5 times in one 3 hour session. But last few times it was dead. I'm going again in the 21st to meet a lovely BBC who I know well and will give me exactly what I need |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
|
Had a great morning/afternoon here. Shame about the random d*unk Asian guy singing prayer songs in the jacuzzi and following every attending woman around. Fella was wanking outside the private rooms with his ear to the door every time a couple entered.
Aside from that, I had an excellent morning with some gorgeous couples and an exceptionally pretty trans lady
 |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
What a difference it makes when people ask to interact and are respectful. We had a great time there on Tuesday and came away happy ( and a tad sore ) from the great bunch of guys who were there!!! Thanks for fun, see you all agsin soon Billy and Ali |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Really want to visit this venue not only for play but to to chill naked , meet like minded people , have fun and be free |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
|
Who's looking at next Tuesday (14th Nov)?
I've got another day off booked and can be there from 10am until 14:30ish. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
My intention is to visit this place next Tuesday , love to hear from like minds who are going |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Anyone tried the watersports area there? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Anyone tried the watersports area there? "
Yes - small but a cheeky layout as it’s got a cistern to flush it away |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
|
Shameless bump for this thread - any bi couples in attendance tomorrow? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Are there many couples there on a Tuesday? We’re tempted… |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
|
"Are there many couples there on a Tuesday? We’re tempted…"
It's a bit up and down TBH. There are a few regular couples and the occasional new couple. It's a great venue with plenty of opportunity for fun!
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Might try and get there tomorrow. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I was there last Tuesday
A lively nite |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Any one heading there tomorrow afternoon/evening?
Never been.
What is the dress code or theme for a Friday?
Please let me know.
Please be gentle |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Any one heading there tomorrow afternoon/evening?
Never been.
What is the dress code or theme for a Friday?
Please let me know.
Please be gentle "
No theme on Friday I don't think, just guy fun. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
|
Any interest for this Tuesday? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Hey all. Debating going here either Tuesday or naked Wednesday? Which seems the better day for a lot of fun x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I'm also going tues or weds. Tuesday is sometimes mixed, weds is guys only and naked day, busiest day normally |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I'm going next week Tuesday and really want to try the dedicated watersports area there. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
We are visiting next Tuesday afternoon. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Going to attend Tuesday afternoon 1st visit say hi if your going |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Im assuming it's real bi here. Thats a guy and a women sharing a cock. Not chasing the ladies and queuing up and wanking? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
|
"Im assuming it's real bi here. Thats a guy and a women sharing a cock. Not chasing the ladies and queuing up and wanking? "
You do get real bi people here but there are also plenty of straight single guys who are only there for the women, walking around being quite stand offish with any gay/bi guys.
There are a good few comments from said guys above - you'll notice that they respond with generic "each to their own" comments while patently ignoring the "bi-night" moniker.
It hasn't stopped me and other bi people from attending but it is without doubt, a major contributing factor as to why the days have really failed to take off.
There are way too many straight single guys following women around like lost puppies. It can be a bit awkward when there is a single lady in attendance and a train of men following her around until they leave. Or standing in a line outside the door to whatever private room they've locked themselves in.  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Im assuming it's real bi here. Thats a guy and a women sharing a cock. Not chasing the ladies and queuing up and wanking?
You do get real bi people here but there are also plenty of straight single guys who are only there for the women, walking around being quite stand offish with any gay/bi guys.
There are a good few comments from said guys above - you'll notice that they respond with generic "each to their own" comments while patently ignoring the "bi-night" moniker.
It hasn't stopped me and other bi people from attending but it is without doubt, a major contributing factor as to why the days have really failed to take off.
There are way too many straight single guys following women around like lost puppies. It can be a bit awkward when there is a single lady in attendance and a train of men following her around until they leave. Or standing in a line outside the door to whatever private room they've locked themselves in. "
I’ve been to a few different club bi nights , mainly kesterals on a Monday , the above comment certainly refl cts this . However that’s not strictly bi only just acceptance of bi play.
Other bi club nights at V A and jaydees is pretty much a bi only night and so much more fun
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Im assuming it's real bi here. Thats a guy and a women sharing a cock. Not chasing the ladies and queuing up and wanking?
You do get real bi people here but there are also plenty of straight single guys who are only there for the women, walking around being quite stand offish with any gay/bi guys.
There are a good few comments from said guys above - you'll notice that they respond with generic "each to their own" comments while patently ignoring the "bi-night" moniker.
It hasn't stopped me and other bi people from attending but it is without doubt, a major contributing factor as to why the days have really failed to take off.
There are way too many straight single guys following women around like lost puppies. It can be a bit awkward when there is a single lady in attendance and a train of men following her around until they leave. Or standing in a line outside the door to whatever private room they've locked themselves in. "
On my last visit I had to more or less push my way through a group of guys waiting outside a locked room with a couple in. Hardly any bi play going on at all. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *ean counterMan 22 weeks ago
Kettering/ Market Harborough |
I will driving past Luton Tuesday afternoon and trying to work out whether it's worth calling in here? A lot of negative comments above but has anyone got anything good to say? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *luefire2Couple 22 weeks ago
just somewhere around here |
"There are way too many straight single guys following women around like lost puppies. It can be a bit awkward when there is a single lady in attendance and a train of men following her around until they leave. Or standing in a line outside the door to whatever private room they've locked themselves in. "
Like most bi nights nowadays |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
It’s a pain because if I go to a bi night I am open to play with both genders. It’s a shame that you get people coming in who at the very last aren’t “bi-friendly” and could potentially spoil the evening |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
|
"There are way too many straight single guys following women around like lost puppies. It can be a bit awkward when there is a single lady in attendance and a train of men following her around until they leave. Or standing in a line outside the door to whatever private room they've locked themselves in.
Like most bi nights nowadays "
Slowly coming to that realisation! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
On the subject of BiTastic- yes, way too many straight guys who follow a lady around even if they were clearly told by that lady, more than once, that she wasn't interested. When I used to go, from time to time I would count how many seconds it took for a guy to appear out of nowhere when I went into hot tub or similar. Never more than about 30 sec. And most of those men have absolutely not a clue how to talk to a woman- I guess they believe I'd just read their minds or fuck anyone there. I stopped going because of that and because there was no bi male play happening, most of the time (I do enjoy watching).
On the subject of bi nights in general- my partner is straight but he enjoys the atmosphere of a bi night. We've been to Jaydees and Penthouse Playrooms for those, and we are welcome back any time. He doesn't mind any bi male play happening around him as he understands the purpose of the night and respects it, as long as others don't expect him to join in. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Anyone attending this Tuesday? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
|
Bi nights are not just about bi men. They are also there for bi fems.
Kestrels on a Monday, has recently had a lot of bi fem couples going and it makes for a good night as given it is a bi night it seems to keep away a lot of the wanking dead. With Kestrels being open every day the wanking dead would pick a different day to go.
We have considered going to bi tastic, but given the reviews and messages we have seen from people, it seems that bi fems, in the main steer clear as it's just full of the wanking dead.
I guess given this is the only club in the area open on a Tuesday day time there is no other day for the straight wanking dead to go. It's a shame really, as it sounds like the venue is perfect, if only the clientele was different and so it was more female friendly. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *9smoothMan 21 weeks ago
in the sticks |
"Bi nights are not just about bi men. They are also there for bi fems.
Kestrels on a Monday, has recently had a lot of bi fem couples going and it makes for a good night as given it is a bi night it seems to keep away a lot of the wanking dead. With Kestrels being open every day the wanking dead would pick a different day to go.
We have considered going to bi tastic, but given the reviews and messages we have seen from people, it seems that bi fems, in the main steer clear as it's just full of the wanking dead.
I guess given this is the only club in the area open on a Tuesday day time there is no other day for the straight wanking dead to go. It's a shame really, as it sounds like the venue is perfect, if only the clientele was different and so it was more female friendly."
Wanking dead , thats a brilliant discription and spot on...I find the place works better arranging group meets on a Tuesday |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Bi nights are not just about bi men. They are also there for bi fems"
The problem is, bi female play is sought after and encouraged on any club night, whereas bi male play, if it happens in the open on a regular night, can bring disgusted comments from club goers or even complains to the management. I think it's wrong, but that what it is. Therefore, bi nights are geared towards bi, gay or bi-curious men, to have somewhere to go safely and, if they wish, engage with same-sex activities without facing backlash for it. Greenhouse, with their BiTastic is not just the only club open in the area on a Tuesday, it's also the cheapest for a man (being a gay/bi sauna). At £20 a visit, it's pennies compared to other places. On the other hand, £17 for a woman is, as far as I'm aware, the most expensive in the area. Add to it being followed by a lot of mutes who try to touch you at the slightest opportunity without even being able to say "hi" to you, and I'm not surprised single ladies are steering clear. I used to go, as I like to watch men play with each other, but there was hardly any bi play and I just did not fancy being followed and groped as soon as the opportunity came. I'd much rather spend my annual leave on other days.
I do agree with your comment about wanking dead on bi nights though (other than BiTastic) - I regularly attend 2, in different clubs, and have not come across those. Also, the atmosphere is so much more relaxed. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Bi nights are not just about bi men. They are also there for bi fems
The problem is, bi female play is sought after and encouraged on any club night, whereas bi male play, if it happens in the open on a regular night, can bring disgusted comments from club goers or even complains to the management. I think it's wrong, but that what it is. Therefore, bi nights are geared towards bi, gay or bi-curious men, to have somewhere to go safely and, if they wish, engage with same-sex activities without facing backlash for it. Greenhouse, with their BiTastic is not just the only club open in the area on a Tuesday, it's also the cheapest for a man (being a gay/bi sauna). At £20 a visit, it's pennies compared to other places. On the other hand, £17 for a woman is, as far as I'm aware, the most expensive in the area. Add to it being followed by a lot of mutes who try to touch you at the slightest opportunity without even being able to say "hi" to you, and I'm not surprised single ladies are steering clear. I used to go, as I like to watch men play with each other, but there was hardly any bi play and I just did not fancy being followed and groped as soon as the opportunity came. I'd much rather spend my annual leave on other days.
I do agree with your comment about wanking dead on bi nights though (other than BiTastic) - I regularly attend 2, in different clubs, and have not come across those. Also, the atmosphere is so much more relaxed. "
It’s very apparent that you have a vendetta against this club - your points have been made. Now let people crack on and make their own minds up. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"It’s very apparent that you have a vendetta against this club - your points have been made. Now let people crack on and make their own minds up. "
Lol seriously??? Where did you get the idea I have a vendetta against the club? Just because I don't like being followed by men who believe I am good enough to fuck but not good enough to even say "hi" to? And who believe they can grope me at the slightest opportunity?
I would love for this event to be what it says on the tin, a BiTastic event, for bi/gay men to have fun with each other without judgement or "funny looks" from other club goers who turned up at the bi event at a bi/gay sauna looking for straight fun with women or couples. I would also love to respectfully watch those bi/gay men enjoying fun with each other and, if invited, maybe even join them. I was even taking annual leave to be there as that's a club I can get to using public transport, and it's quite local to me. Unfortunately, on at least 3 or 4 occasions that I went there, I did not enjoy my experience. Therefore decided not to go again, at least not any time soon. My posts are just trying to show the event as what it is without beating about the bush, to help others make an informed decision about going. If it means I appear to have a vendetta against the club, then be it. But I very much would love for this event to be a success! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"It’s very apparent that you have a vendetta against this club - your points have been made. Now let people crack on and make their own minds up.
Lol seriously??? Where did you get the idea I have a vendetta against the club? Just because I don't like being followed by men who believe I am good enough to fuck but not good enough to even say "hi" to? And who believe they can grope me at the slightest opportunity?
I would love for this event to be what it says on the tin, a BiTastic event, for bi/gay men to have fun with each other without judgement or "funny looks" from other club goers who turned up at the bi event at a bi/gay sauna looking for straight fun with women or couples. I would also love to respectfully watch those bi/gay men enjoying fun with each other and, if invited, maybe even join them. I was even taking annual leave to be there as that's a club I can get to using public transport, and it's quite local to me. Unfortunately, on at least 3 or 4 occasions that I went there, I did not enjoy my experience. Therefore decided not to go again, at least not any time soon. My posts are just trying to show the event as what it is without beating about the bush, to help others make an informed decision about going. If it means I appear to have a vendetta against the club, then be it. But I very much would love for this event to be a success! "
Think most of the blokes following you were hoping to beat your bush |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
|
"It’s very apparent that you have a vendetta against this club - your points have been made. Now let people crack on and make their own minds up.
Lol seriously??? Where did you get the idea I have a vendetta against the club? Just because I don't like being followed by men who believe I am good enough to fuck but not good enough to even say "hi" to? And who believe they can grope me at the slightest opportunity?
I would love for this event to be what it says on the tin, a BiTastic event, for bi/gay men to have fun with each other without judgement or "funny looks" from other club goers who turned up at the bi event at a bi/gay sauna looking for straight fun with women or couples. I would also love to respectfully watch those bi/gay men enjoying fun with each other and, if invited, maybe even join them. I was even taking annual leave to be there as that's a club I can get to using public transport, and it's quite local to me. Unfortunately, on at least 3 or 4 occasions that I went there, I did not enjoy my experience. Therefore decided not to go again, at least not any time soon. My posts are just trying to show the event as what it is without beating about the bush, to help others make an informed decision about going. If it means I appear to have a vendetta against the club, then be it. But I very much would love for this event to be a success!
Think most of the blokes following you were hoping to beat your bush "
And this right here is what puts me off |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Think most of the blokes following you were hoping to beat your bush "
Thanks, but my brain needs to be stimulated before my body can be. And I am frigid enough not to allow any Tom, Dick or Harry to fuck me just because I am in a swingers club, I am not that desperate!
If the tables were turned around and you, as a straight man (at least going by your label, as you could be "Fab straight") would get followed by all those sex-hungry mutes who want to "beat your bush", how would you feel? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Think most of the blokes following you were hoping to beat your bush
Thanks, but my brain needs to be stimulated before my body can be. And I am frigid enough not to allow any Tom, Dick or Harry to fuck me just because I am in a swingers club, I am not that desperate!
If the tables were turned around and you, as a straight man (at least going by your label, as you could be "Fab straight") would get followed by all those sex-hungry mutes who want to "beat your bush", how would you feel? "
I’d feel very liberated and honoured that they liked me |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
|
"Think most of the blokes following you were hoping to beat your bush
Thanks, but my brain needs to be stimulated before my body can be. And I am frigid enough not to allow any Tom, Dick or Harry to fuck me just because I am in a swingers club, I am not that desperate!
If the tables were turned around and you, as a straight man (at least going by your label, as you could be "Fab straight") would get followed by all those sex-hungry mutes who want to "beat your bush", how would you feel? "
Well said.
Too many here and in a club think that if a woman is present she’s up for anything and just a piece of meat. Then they stick their cock in your face just to emphasis the fact.
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Think most of the blokes following you were hoping to beat your bush
Thanks, but my brain needs to be stimulated before my body can be. And I am frigid enough not to allow any Tom, Dick or Harry to fuck me just because I am in a swingers club, I am not that desperate!
If the tables were turned around and you, as a straight man (at least going by your label, as you could be "Fab straight") would get followed by all those sex-hungry mutes who want to "beat your bush", how would you feel?
Well said.
Too many here and in a club think that if a woman is present she’s up for anything and just a piece of meat. Then they stick their cock in your face just to emphasis the fact.
"
What clubs are you going to? You sure you’re not going to the hit the beaver show? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
|
"Think most of the blokes following you were hoping to beat your bush
Thanks, but my brain needs to be stimulated before my body can be. And I am frigid enough not to allow any Tom, Dick or Harry to fuck me just because I am in a swingers club, I am not that desperate!
If the tables were turned around and you, as a straight man (at least going by your label, as you could be "Fab straight") would get followed by all those sex-hungry mutes who want to "beat your bush", how would you feel?
Well said.
Too many here and in a club think that if a woman is present she’s up for anything and just a piece of meat. Then they stick their cock in your face just to emphasis the fact.
What clubs are you going to? You sure you’re not going to the hit the beaver show? "
For a grown adult your language is very juvenile! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Think most of the blokes following you were hoping to beat your bush
Thanks, but my brain needs to be stimulated before my body can be. And I am frigid enough not to allow any Tom, Dick or Harry to fuck me just because I am in a swingers club, I am not that desperate!
If the tables were turned around and you, as a straight man (at least going by your label, as you could be "Fab straight") would get followed by all those sex-hungry mutes who want to "beat your bush", how would you feel?
Well said.
Too many here and in a club think that if a woman is present she’s up for anything and just a piece of meat. Then they stick their cock in your face just to emphasis the fact.
What clubs are you going to? You sure you’re not going to the hit the beaver show?
For a grown adult your language is very juvenile! "
Sometimes in life you need to have some fun and not take things to serious. From what I’m reading you all should take a chill pill and if you don’t like sex clubs don’t go! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
|
"Think most of the blokes following you were hoping to beat your bush
Thanks, but my brain needs to be stimulated before my body can be. And I am frigid enough not to allow any Tom, Dick or Harry to fuck me just because I am in a swingers club, I am not that desperate!
If the tables were turned around and you, as a straight man (at least going by your label, as you could be "Fab straight") would get followed by all those sex-hungry mutes who want to "beat your bush", how would you feel?
Well said.
Too many here and in a club think that if a woman is present she’s up for anything and just a piece of meat. Then they stick their cock in your face just to emphasis the fact.
What clubs are you going to? You sure you’re not going to the hit the beaver show?
For a grown adult your language is very juvenile!
Sometimes in life you need to have some fun and not take things to serious. From what I’m reading you all should take a chill pill and if you don’t like sex clubs don’t go! "
Oh we are, don’t you worry  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Think most of the blokes following you were hoping to beat your bush
Thanks, but my brain needs to be stimulated before my body can be. And I am frigid enough not to allow any Tom, Dick or Harry to fuck me just because I am in a swingers club, I am not that desperate!
If the tables were turned around and you, as a straight man (at least going by your label, as you could be "Fab straight") would get followed by all those sex-hungry mutes who want to "beat your bush", how would you feel?
Well said.
Too many here and in a club think that if a woman is present she’s up for anything and just a piece of meat. Then they stick their cock in your face just to emphasis the fact.
What clubs are you going to? You sure you’re not going to the hit the beaver show?
For a grown adult your language is very juvenile!
Sometimes in life you need to have some fun and not take things to serious. From what I’m reading you all should take a chill pill and if you don’t like sex clubs don’t go!
Oh we are, don’t you worry "
That’s what I like to hear - I was very worried |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Anyway, I'm going to pay a visit on Tuesday afternoon this week. Respectful single, genuinely Bi guy. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I’ll be there from midday, in the gloryhole |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Anyone attending this Tuesday? "
I’ll be there, midday onwards in the gloryhole |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Anyone going next Wednesday, should be there from opening till about 1pm x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Anyone going on Boxing Day? I’ll be there x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
|
"Think most of the blokes following you were hoping to beat your bush
Thanks, but my brain needs to be stimulated before my body can be. And I am frigid enough not to allow any Tom, Dick or Harry to fuck me just because I am in a swingers club, I am not that desperate!
If the tables were turned around and you, as a straight man (at least going by your label, as you could be "Fab straight") would get followed by all those sex-hungry mutes who want to "beat your bush", how would you feel?
Well said.
Too many here and in a club think that if a woman is present she’s up for anything and just a piece of meat. Then they stick their cock in your face just to emphasis the fact.
What clubs are you going to? You sure you’re not going to the hit the beaver show?
For a grown adult your language is very juvenile!
Sometimes in life you need to have some fun and not take things to serious. From what I’m reading you all should take a chill pill and if you don’t like sex clubs don’t go!
Oh we are, don’t you worry
That’s what I like to hear - I was very worried "
Sounds like this place is full of dicks… |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *9smoothMan 20 weeks ago
in the sticks |
"Think most of the blokes following you were hoping to beat your bush
Thanks, but my brain needs to be stimulated before my body can be. And I am frigid enough not to allow any Tom, Dick or Harry to fuck me just because I am in a swingers club, I am not that desperate!
If the tables were turned around and you, as a straight man (at least going by your label, as you could be "Fab straight") would get followed by all those sex-hungry mutes who want to "beat your bush", how would you feel?
Well said.
Too many here and in a club think that if a woman is present she’s up for anything and just a piece of meat. Then they stick their cock in your face just to emphasis the fact.
What clubs are you going to? You sure you’re not going to the hit the beaver show?
For a grown adult your language is very juvenile!
Sometimes in life you need to have some fun and not take things to serious. From what I’m reading you all should take a chill pill and if you don’t like sex clubs don’t go!
Oh we are, don’t you worry
That’s what I like to hear - I was very worried
Sounds like this place is full of dicks…"
If you are a bi female looking for fun with a lady , it's probably not the best place.
Unless you have arranged to meet there prior to the event.
As it can be a bit of a sausage fest, with the large % being vegans  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Think most of the blokes following you were hoping to beat your bush
Thanks, but my brain needs to be stimulated before my body can be. And I am frigid enough not to allow any Tom, Dick or Harry to fuck me just because I am in a swingers club, I am not that desperate!
If the tables were turned around and you, as a straight man (at least going by your label, as you could be "Fab straight") would get followed by all those sex-hungry mutes who want to "beat your bush", how would you feel?
Well said.
Too many here and in a club think that if a woman is present she’s up for anything and just a piece of meat. Then they stick their cock in your face just to emphasis the fact.
What clubs are you going to? You sure you’re not going to the hit the beaver show?
For a grown adult your language is very juvenile!
Sometimes in life you need to have some fun and not take things to serious. From what I’m reading you all should take a chill pill and if you don’t like sex clubs don’t go!
Oh we are, don’t you worry
That’s what I like to hear - I was very worried
Sounds like this place is full of dicks…
If you are a bi female looking for fun with a lady , it's probably not the best place.
Unless you have arranged to meet there prior to the event.
As it can be a bit of a sausage fest, with the large % being vegans "
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Anyone going today for some Boxing Day fun  |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I'll be there tomorrow from 12am tomorrow,if there are any top guys up for fucking a slutty tranny msg me. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Anyone attending tomorrow? "
Asks the straight guy! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Anyone attending tomorrow?
Asks the straight guy! "
Says the guy that has bisexual but blocks males. ?????? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Anyone attending tomorrow?
Asks the straight guy!
Says the guy that has bisexual but blocks males. ??????"
I block mail from guys as previously got daily messages along the lines of ‘do you want draining’ & other equally pathetic one liners. My message filters have nothing to do with my sexuality |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Anyone attending tomorrow?
Asks the straight guy!
Says the guy that has bisexual but blocks males. ??????
I block mail from guys as previously got daily messages along the lines of ‘do you want draining’ & other equally pathetic one liners. My message filters have nothing to do with my sexuality "
That old chestnut are you really sure you were getting all these messages |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Anyone attending tomorrow?
Asks the straight guy!
Says the guy that has bisexual but blocks males. ??????
I block mail from guys as previously got daily messages along the lines of ‘do you want draining’ & other equally pathetic one liners. My message filters have nothing to do with my sexuality
That old chestnut are you really sure you were getting all these messages "
I meet MALE & female couples. I choose not to meet single guys hence my message filters. I’ve given my reasons but see that you haven’t attempted to explain why you, as a straight guy, are going to bitastic?
What time will you be there today as will be happy to discuss in person?
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Anyone attending tomorrow?
Asks the straight guy!
Says the guy that has bisexual but blocks males. ??????
I block mail from guys as previously got daily messages along the lines of ‘do you want draining’ & other equally pathetic one liners. My message filters have nothing to do with my sexuality
That old chestnut are you really sure you were getting all these messages
I meet MALE & female couples. I choose not to meet single guys hence my message filters. I’ve given my reasons but see that you haven’t attempted to explain why you, as a straight guy, are going to bitastic?
What time will you be there today as will be happy to discuss in person?
Been and gone although feel free to message me as I don’t block and we can hook up anytime.
"
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Anyone attending tomorrow?
Asks the straight guy!
Says the guy that has bisexual but blocks males. ??????
I block mail from guys as previously got daily messages along the lines of ‘do you want draining’ & other equally pathetic one liners. My message filters have nothing to do with my sexuality
That old chestnut are you really sure you were getting all these messages
I meet MALE & female couples. I choose not to meet single guys hence my message filters. I’ve given my reasons but see that you haven’t attempted to explain why you, as a straight guy, are going to bitastic?
What time will you be there today as will be happy to discuss in person?
Been and gone although feel free to message me as I don’t block and we can hook up anytime.
"
Feel free to message and we can arrange a meet |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *tan38Man 15 weeks ago
Nuneaton |
Hearing there tomorrow after work around 6pm |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Thinking of heading over late afternoon /early evening anyone else attending? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I would like to suck a cock to make it juicy to allow him to plunge into the pussy. And perhaps the lady to hold my head while he face fucks me. Going to go a week on Tuesday and fully expect the place to be full of straights wanking at ladies. If there are any lol x |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"I would like to suck a cock to make it juicy to allow him to plunge into the pussy. And perhaps the lady to hold my head while he face fucks me. Going to go a week on Tuesday and fully expect the place to be full of straights wanking at ladies. If there are any lol x"
Good luck with that! |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Great lol. Lots of wanking zombies then? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Great lol. Lots of wanking zombies then?"
Lot of guys, rarely any fems, straight guys attending a bi event as they think it will be full of pussy. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I do love a bi night nothing better than a good mmf, sucking a guy hard and being helped to do it by his lady. Now that's worth going for. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Anyone going next week? Tuesday 20th |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Anyone going next week? Tuesday 20th"
I'm looking at going in the morning
|
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I love bi nights especially bi mmf, any couples going who would like to put on a bi show for everyone to watch with me |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Me and my friend will be attending |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Me and my friend will be attending "
Hi, what time are you planning to attend. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I will be there around 5:30pm, pm me if your going i love to ore-arrange fun |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Hi there, we are planning on going back for another afternoon visit 5th March. Is anyone else going? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
I'm hoping to be there on Tuesday afternoon, haven't been for a while. Will look out for you. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Hi there, we are planning on going back for another afternoon visit 5th March. Is anyone else going?"
Yes, I'm looking to go on Tuesday, what time are you planning to get there? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
If Tuesday is bitastic, what about the other 6 days? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"If Tuesday is bitastic, what about the other 6 days?"
Greenhouse is a sauna for gay and bisexual/bi-curious men. On Tuesday, they welcome women in as well, but for the rest of the week, they are for men only. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
Ahh ok I get ya. Is it a nice place inside or is it sleazy? |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
|
By *9smoothMan 4 weeks ago
in the sticks |
"Ahh ok I get ya. Is it a nice place inside or is it sleazy?"
Probably not the best place for a straight guy, that don't want to meet single males. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
"Ahh ok I get ya. Is it a nice place inside or is it sleazy?
Probably not the best place for a straight guy, that don't want to meet single males."
Exactly right. Last time I went I didn't even see any bi male action, just a group of guys following a couple round. Couple left and the place was empty. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
This is our usual go to venue, Bitastic was so much better on a Friday and was becoming more and more popular with couples, since returning to a Tuesday, it's gone backwards, very few couples/women and Yes - far too many "Straight guys" looking for a chance.....
That said, we love the venue and very comfortable there, plus we feel like Noah leafing the animals to the Ark with the guys that follow, its funny as fcuck.
There have been nights where its rammed pack of people with so much going on but mostly now it seems 1 maybe 2 couples at best. It's a shame because it could be so much better. |
Reply privately (closed, thread got too big) | |
