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Target For Single Men To Attend Temptation Event At Club Alchemy
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By *rayon OP Man 19 weeks ago
Northampton |
Hi Is There Any Single Male's Who Wished To Attend Temptation Event Held At Club Alchemy And Told No They Cant Attend Because They Don't Meet There Target And When You Have Asked What Is Required To Fulfil The Target You Dont Get A Reply |
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It could just be overwhelming contact from single men and they have limited ability to manage. Possibly an event may be vastly oversubscribed for men and there's nothing inherently not a fit. Ticketing may also be outsourced and club staff time is only available whilst it's open. It's not an easy role, running a club.
Have you visited before? |
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By *rayon OP Man 19 weeks ago
Northampton |
I applied to be on there guest list soon as it was made available and turned down guys after me applied and was excepted and I did ask them directly could they please explain what I need to be in there target and up to know no response even though the message has been read. |
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By *rayon OP Man 19 weeks ago
Northampton |
I haven’t been to any events there and I was looking to attend a few there but won't attend any there now most likely.Im bi but dosent mean I'm going there to hit up on couples or anyone and I see there are bi people attend as in couples or singles.Im a very well maintained well presented well mannered friendly guy and have verifications and dont see not being funny what lots of guys I checked out have what I dont who was excepted after me. |
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I actually spoke to the male organiser in person at an event at Alchemy and said I was outside the age limit of his event. He said I could apply as they didn't discriminate on looks! (He's no looker so that's just as well). He was also making loud derogatory remarks in the changing room to a clothed black man about black dicks. |
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By *rayon OP Man 19 weeks ago
Northampton |
oh wow totally not right and it's actual disgusting events and event organisers who put on event's at club's or for clubs really need to be exposed what makes me laugh those putting on the events are as you say have nothing about them hahahahaha |
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"It's probably best to go to their open events, that don't need pre-booking, so that you can guage their responses to your questions. Perhaps part of their filtering includes whether they know you?"
Temptation is a hosted event not run by the club owners. |
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By *rayon OP Man 19 weeks ago
Northampton |
yes thats correct and people that use the club to host events should be carefully monitored but I see on Club Alchemy it states other events but Temptation Event is there Flagship event for the club |
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By *attoedMan 19 weeks ago
Aldershot |
"I actually spoke to the male organiser in person at an event at Alchemy and said I was outside the age limit of his event. He said I could apply as they didn't discriminate on looks! (He's no looker so that's just as well). He was also making loud derogatory remarks in the changing room to a clothed black man about black dicks."
Club owners managers should be reported for that
They need you more than you need them tbh
Any club owner manager that is rude should not be in the business
Guests are their bread and butter definitely use the club review page it is their for that reason and all clubs should have a complaints procedures
Pass on word if you not impressed push for an explanation your entitled to that in the least
Boycott if not for you
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By *rayon OP Man 19 weeks ago
Northampton |
Thankyou wise words from a true club promoter and entertainer I agree with all what you have said however fabswingers are against anyone commenting in a club review if you haven't attended the club but how is that possible if you cant be added to a guest list to attend a event at a club and then not even responded to when you message to find out what the target is to attend the event |
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By *attoedMan 19 weeks ago
Aldershot |
"Thankyou wise words from a true club promoter and entertainer I agree with all what you have said however fabswingers are against anyone commenting in a club review if you haven't attended the club but how is that possible if you cant be added to a guest list to attend a event at a club and then not even responded to when you message to find out what the target is to attend the event "
yes definitely but most clubs will have a website with feedback area that you could explain your enquiries
Club owners sure would be interested in the ppl that are hosting events at any club |
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"yes thats correct and people that use the club to host events should be carefully monitored but I see on Club Alchemy it states other events but Temptation Event is there Flagship event for the club"
Temptation is one of a number of hugely popular events run by independent hosts who are given the right to use the club by the owners. Check out Flaunt and FOMO as examples - it’s a great club worth visiting.
Temptation is upfront about its selective guest list and they will know who they’re looking for.
It’s sensible for anyone who has an issue with any host to contact the club owners. But if that issue is they turned me down then didn’t respond to my request to understand why, I’m not sure how much traction you’ll get.
It would be a shame to penalise the club itself if they haven’t been made aware of or given chance to respond to allegations being made about someone independent. |
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By *attoedMan 19 weeks ago
Aldershot |
"yes thats correct and people that use the club to host events should be carefully monitored but I see on Club Alchemy it states other events but Temptation Event is there Flagship event for the club
Temptation is one of a number of hugely popular events run by independent hosts who are given the right to use the club by the owners. Check out Flaunt and FOMO as examples - it’s a great club worth visiting.
Temptation is upfront about its selective guest list and they will know who they’re looking for.
It’s sensible for anyone who has an issue with any host to contact the club owners. But if that issue is they turned me down then didn’t respond to my request to understand why, I’m not sure how much traction you’ll get.
It would be a shame to penalise the club itself if they haven’t been made aware of or given chance to respond to allegations being made about someone independent. "
Exactly my point club owners need to be made aware of party hosts issues if any and also how good the events are
Never penalise a club if they not actually running event |
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By *rayon OP Man 19 weeks ago
Northampton |
I understand what your saying but Club Alchemy are on Temptation Event Thread and on Club Alchemy website there saying Temptation Event is there Flagship event so obviously the club and the event owners
are working together for them to state what I said .I have contacted the event owners directly as they contacted me after I went on there thread as when I directly contacted them they never responded and when I did hear from them they was seemingly happy with my face pics but then requested full length pictures of myself which I sent of myself very smartly dressed and well prepresented which then they told me I dont hit there target I inquired to them regarding there reply they read my reply and never responded. |
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By *attoedMan 19 weeks ago
Aldershot |
"I understand what your saying but Club Alchemy are on Temptation Event Thread and on Club Alchemy website there saying Temptation Event is there Flagship event so obviously the club and the event owners
are working together for them to state what I said .I have contacted the event owners directly as they contacted me after I went on there thread as when I directly contacted them they never responded and when I did hear from them they was seemingly happy with my face pics but then requested full length pictures of myself which I sent of myself very smartly dressed and well prepresented which then they told me I dont hit there target I inquired to them regarding there reply they read my reply and never responded. "
Not replying is very ignorant of them unfortunately and a bad practice in my eyes |
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By *rayon OP Man 19 weeks ago
Northampton |
oh wow sorry to hear that again that action was rude and again shows what some of these people are like.You say clubs are for couples if that be the case they shouldn't advertise events asking single males to apply or attend a event I see they don't have any issues when it comes to single ladies also we suppose to leave in a place where everyone suppose to be equal but obviously that's not so as single women get in free or pay a very low price like £10 to attend a club/event then couples pay slightly more than a single women but single guys have to pay way more mostly from £50 upwards how is that fair and equal. |
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By *rayon OP Man 14 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Sooooo excited for this  xx
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Hi there excited for what?
If you mean excited for attending temptation event then all the best and fully enjoy majority of single women dont get turn down from being excepted and attending the event so I find out x  |
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By *G85Woman 14 weeks ago
Harrogate |
I see your frustration and you should follow up with manangers but from experience alchemy is a great club and you should deffo try a flaunt or dark velvet.
Sorry you experineced that with the other hosts. Its not on. |
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By *rayon OP Man 13 weeks ago
Northampton |
"I see your frustration and you should follow up with manangers but from experience alchemy is a great club and you should deffo try a flaunt or dark velvet.
Sorry you experineced that with the other hosts. Its not on."
Hi thankyou for your message and I do get to understand Alchemy is a great club and im not saying it isn't but by going to them to express myself and experience with Temptation Events doesn't make any sense because likelihood is there not really going to do anything as im just a single male also it might work out bad for me where I won't be able to attend any events they have there which im hoping to attend one and experience the club |
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By *rayon OP Man 13 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Sadly I think you might find other clubs have a similar attitude to single gents applying to attend especially on popular nights"
Thankyou for your message time will tell on that but I hear you and unfortunately single men unfortunately get a real bad deal when we are supposed to be living in a equal world |
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