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VA bi night May 2nd
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"We'll be there
Been waiting to meet you guys for ages
Something came up at the weekend, we might have to miss, but will call it in the next day or 2.
Been wanting to meet you both too  "
Right, all sorted and ticket booked. See you both there |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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We have tickets, club and hotel but due to reasons, can't use them. Been trying to contact them since Monday so they can resell or whatever, absolutely nothing from them. Was to be our 1st visit, gutted we aren't going but not over the moon at how impossible it is to get in touch. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Hi... can you DM me please and I'll get hold of the club for you.
The club policy does not usually allow refunds but let's get you in contact with them.
James x"
will do, understand there's no refunds, seems a waste of a hotel room when it's sold out. Honestly, I've emailed twice, called, and sent a text to the number the answer machine gives you. |
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The event is only sold out for single men....
We keep the ratio to circa 30% single men..to ensure the atmosphere that this event has remains.
Couples ,single women and trans can still book if they are members.
See you all tonight .
James x
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By *c73Man 13 weeks ago
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This is a BI even and i find really annoyed that Men can no take part and have limit number
I was agreed to meet up with mix of people male and female but my attend is been refuse
I no call this even a BI night but a Cpl and Female party with limited for men
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"This is a BI even and i find really annoyed that Men can no take part and have limit number
I was agreed to meet up with mix of people male and female but my attend is been refuse
I no call this even a BI night but a Cpl and Female party with limited for men
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Hi..
Thank you for your message — I do understand your frustration. Traditional bi events have often been more male-heavy, and those still exist for those who prefer that dynamic. However, we’ve seen a real shift with younger generations embracing a more fluid and inclusive approach. Our aim is to reflect that, creating a balanced space that welcomes couples, single women, trans individuals, and a limited number of single men — and recently, we’ve actually seen a growing number of single women attending, which is really encouraging.
The quota for single men is simply in place to maintain that balance and ensure a welcoming environment for everyone. That said, we truly value feedback like yours and always keep these conversations in mind as we evolve.
James x  |
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"This is a BI even and i find really annoyed that Men can no take part and have limit number
I was agreed to meet up with mix of people male and female but my attend is been refuse
I no call this even a BI night but a Cpl and Female party with limited for men
Hi..
Thank you for your message — I do understand your frustration. Traditional bi events have often been more male-heavy, and those still exist for those who prefer that dynamic. However, we’ve seen a real shift with younger generations embracing a more fluid and inclusive approach. Our aim is to reflect that, creating a balanced space that welcomes couples, single women, trans individuals, and a limited number of single men — and recently, we’ve actually seen a growing number of single women attending, which is really encouraging.
The quota for single men is simply in place to maintain that balance and ensure a welcoming environment for everyone. That said, we truly value feedback like yours and always keep these conversations in mind as we evolve.
James x "
Great post. We find the ratio balance just about right. Single males outweigh single females, but that is beginning to narrow. It's a tough balance to get as too many men and the vibe changes. For a bi night it's really good to get the mix right for everyone to have fun, embrace inclusivity, and MUCH more importantly have a big pile of bodies where everyone is comfortable playing with a mix of all genders.
On that note, better pack the bag for later tonight  |
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"This is a BI even and i find really annoyed that Men can no take part and have limit number
I was agreed to meet up with mix of people male and female but my attend is been refuse
I no call this even a BI night but a Cpl and Female party with limited for men
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A bit like what you are seeking in your profile women and couples only no men.....lol..
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