As the previous poster has said, all depends on the single men's expectations of what's going to happen. If they are expecting a fully-blown orgy they'd get dragged into as soon as they step foot into the club, they'd be highly disappointed. It's best to treat it as a social opportunity in a much more relaxed setting than a pub. Behave like you'd behave in public, be friendly, look with your eyes not your hands, be chatty and polite, and you may get somewhere. Just because you are a paying customer, it doesn't guarantee you anything apart from the access to the facilities. Women and couples there are paying customers, too, and consent still applies. |
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"As the previous poster has said, all depends on the single men's expectations of what's going to happen. If they are expecting a fully-blown orgy they'd get dragged into as soon as they step foot into the club, they'd be highly disappointed. It's best to treat it as a social opportunity in a much more relaxed setting than a pub. Behave like you'd behave in public, be friendly, look with your eyes not your hands, be chatty and polite, and you may get somewhere. Just because you are a paying customer, it doesn't guarantee you anything apart from the access to the facilities. Women and couples there are paying customers, too, and consent still applies. "
Oh 100%
I have no expectations of anything and am always polite and courteous |
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The club’s I have been to some of the best times I have spent chatting with people and like people are saying treat it as a nice bar and chill. If I didn’t get invited to take part in any fun that would be fine as I would be happy and having a great time anyway x |
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Been to a couple of clubs with my ex. Neither of us were particularly confident people and we experienced some not so gentlemanly behaviour on a couple of occasions which was enough to put us off and only go to couples only venues.
Now I'm single, I've got a whole new dynamic to explore, |
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Guys can make or break the atmosphere/vibe in a club. There are some really good guys on the scene. In our experience some clubs seem to attract better guys than others (I suspect that has a lot to do with how the club is managed and its persona).
Personally I started off in clubs as a single guy and still would and do go alone. Don't let the actions/perceptions of a few put you off going alone. The club scene is always enhanced by the addition of some more good lone/single guys. Naturally you get a different experience going alone as you do as a couple. I think there is some value to your own experience and personal grow going alone at times, as well as experiences you may not have going as a couple.
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Agree with what mrs devil says ,most single guys are well behaved , and wife has played with several , but I would rather say all guys be on best behaviour at club , even if me and wife are playing seperately , be respectful to married or singles you meet , you will get a lot more fun that way |
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I’ve had some great experiences. I’ve also had single men touch without asking - but then I’ve had the men, and women, from couples do the same.
Main advice would be - read the room. Don’t let your dick make the decisions.
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I go to Rios on Sundays 12-4. There are always loads of single guys. I am quite friendly and welcoming, but if there are too many following me I tell them to give me some space and they tend to be respectful xx
At VA and PP there are fewer single men xx
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I’ve been to 9 clubs as a single guy, and 3 as a couple.
I’m the same person whether solo, or as one half of a couple, although it is easier to feel confident in unfamiliar surroundings, in the company of a friend.
Out of a total of 19 visits as a solo guy, I shared 3 good experiences.
I’m down to visit a new (to me) club in June, as a solo guy, and hope it’s a positive experience. Ordinarily, I wouldn’t recommend the club scene to a mate  |
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By *ara DosCouple 3 weeks ago
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"I’ve had some great experiences. I’ve also had single men touch without asking - but then I’ve had the men, and women, from couples do the same.
Main advice would be - read the room. Don’t let your dick make the decisions.
L"
For me I’ve experienced men from couples touch me without asking.
Just because I know a couple, it doesn’t give the guy Carte Blanche to start touching me. I find it extremely rude and disrespectful to my partner
I have never experienced this with a single guy 🤷♀️ |
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