Hiya we are just wondering what the deal is with clubs
We are looking to visit one but think perhaps the first visit would just be to have a drink and look around is that allowed ?
Is there viewing rooms ? Dress code ?
Then then Lou wants to do a mmf as I watch is there private rooms to do this ?? |
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On the first night is up to you both if you feel comfortable to play if not you can just have a drink and chat to people we don’t always play when we go to the club some clubs are dress down once you go in but the one we go it’s up to you if you want to dress down or keep your clothes on |
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Any time you go to a club, it is absolutely up to you how much or how little you do there. Most clubs have both open play areas and private rooms (with some exceptions), there is always a bar (some clubs are bring your own alcohol so the bar would be to store your drinks and to buy soft drinks), often a dance floor and a place where people can socialise. Hot tubs are very good for that, as well as smokers area if you're a smoker or don't mind the smoke.
People playing in open areas are happy to be watched, just keep respectable distance. And enjoy! |
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"Many thanks will look at the clubs think we may try quest in Leeds so will see what score is with clothes x"
If I remember correctly (only been to Quest once), you are supposed to dress down if you want to go to the play areas. Quite a few clubs have that rule, but not all. |
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You can visit socially and decide for yourself how you feel.
That's probably what a lot of couples and women do I am sure.
I see it as a social evening and see where it leads myself.
No means no I would say in the community and in the clubs especially cos you should not feel any pressure at all.
Feel your way at your own pace.
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