See Jaydees is reopening, which is great but why on Earth do Jaydees and VA, only a short drive from one another, insist on having their monthly bi nights on the same night of the month?
The clubs will have largely the same potential clientele given proximity to one another, therefore halving their potential attendance each, whereas if they did the bi nights on different evenings many people would go to both.
Seems daft to me. |
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"See Jaydees is reopening, which is great but why on Earth do Jaydees and VA, only a short drive from one another, insist on having their monthly bi nights on the same night of the month?
The clubs will have largely the same potential clientele given proximity to one another, therefore halving their potential attendance each, whereas if they did the bi nights on different evenings many people would go to both.
Seems daft to me."
My Bi Nights have always been the first Friday of the month for over 10 years that's why the Jaydees Bi Night is on the 1st Friday of the month. |
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We hear a lot of good things about your nights, for sure. It's just a shame that, given proximity to one another, both clubs choose the same Friday of the month for their bi nights, thus splitting the potential attendees at both in half. If the nights were on different Fridays, both clubs would likely get a lot more attendees.
Some might see it as healthy competition - we just see it as limiting our opportunities. |
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"Also to add. They are both very different nights x "
Would be interested to know the difference.
Have been to VA's a number of times over the years but never attended Jaydees and its on our list now reopened . |
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"Also to add. They are both very different nights x "
As bi female play isn’t much of a taboo in the swinging world, would one night more geared towards bi males than the other?
I’m aware that at bi parties at Penthouse Playrooms they have dedicated male only cruise/ play areas.
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"Also to add. They are both very different nights x
As bi female play isn’t much of a taboo in the swinging world, would one night more geared towards bi males than the other?
I’m aware that at bi parties at Penthouse Playrooms they have dedicated male only cruise/ play areas.
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Spicy has always had a stipulation that all single men attending her nights need to be at least bi-curious, whereas men in couples need to be at least bi-friendly. Both VA and Penthouse advertise their nights as "inclusive" so everyone is welcome. |
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"We hear a lot of good things about your nights, for sure. It's just a shame that, given proximity to one another, both clubs choose the same Friday of the month for their bi nights, thus splitting the potential attendees at both in half. If the nights were on different Fridays, both clubs would likely get a lot more attendees.
Some might see it as healthy competition - we just see it as limiting our opportunities. "
VA used to do them on the last Friday of the month but moved them to the first. I can only get the 1st Friday of the month so have no option to change it. |
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"Also to add. They are both very different nights x
As bi female play isn’t much of a taboo in the swinging world, would one night more geared towards bi males than the other?
I’m aware that at bi parties at Penthouse Playrooms they have dedicated male only cruise/ play areas.
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All single guys must be Bi for my event and I vet this very strictly ,most couples are both parts bi. Otherwise, as said previously the male must be very bi friendly. Straight single fems are also welcome looking for bi males, tgirls.
When I started the bi nights at VA this was the original criteria although it's covering a broader spectrum now as its such a popular night. Both nights are great but dynamics different. |
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By *andSCouple 7 weeks ago
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"See Jaydees is reopening, which is great but why on Earth do Jaydees and VA, only a short drive from one another, insist on having their monthly bi nights on the same night of the month?
The clubs will have largely the same potential clientele given proximity to one another, therefore halving their potential attendance each, whereas if they did the bi nights on different evenings many people would go to both.
Seems daft to me."
For us Jaydees is BYOB and has lots of private play areas whereas VA has a paid bar and is predominantly, if not solely, open play.
This is what puts Jaydees ahead of VA for us. |
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Having done multiple spicy bi nights at jaydees prior to the refurb and then subsequently having tried Va while jaydees was closed I can say the difference is night and day. Attending with my partner at Va it was clear most of the single men on the bi night were straight. Constantly following single women round and only paying attention to females in couples. You will not find that at jaydees, everyone is also a lot more welcoming at jaydees too |
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"Also to add. They are both very different nights x
As bi female play isn’t much of a taboo in the swinging world, would one night more geared towards bi males than the other?
I’m aware that at bi parties at Penthouse Playrooms they have dedicated male only cruise/ play areas.
All single guys must be Bi for my event and I vet this very strictly ,most couples are both parts bi. Otherwise, as said previously the male must be very bi friendly. Straight single fems are also welcome looking for bi males, tgirls.
When I started the bi nights at VA this was the original criteria although it's covering a broader spectrum now as its such a popular night. Both nights are great but dynamics different. "
We're very interested in these bi nights at Jaydees. We've tried a few clubs where it's bi night, but unfortunately they bring a lot of straight guys just hovering around.
Does the male of the couple needs to be fully bi? As my partner is only orally bi. S x |
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"Also to add. They are both very different nights x
As bi female play isn’t much of a taboo in the swinging world, would one night more geared towards bi males than the other?
I’m aware that at bi parties at Penthouse Playrooms they have dedicated male only cruise/ play areas.
All single guys must be Bi for my event and I vet this very strictly ,most couples are both parts bi. Otherwise, as said previously the male must be very bi friendly. Straight single fems are also welcome looking for bi males, tgirls.
When I started the bi nights at VA this was the original criteria although it's covering a broader spectrum now as its such a popular night. Both nights are great but dynamics different.
We're very interested in these bi nights at Jaydees. We've tried a few clubs where it's bi night, but unfortunately they bring a lot of straight guys just hovering around.
Does the male of the couple needs to be fully bi? As my partner is only orally bi. S x"
No orally bi is fine
It’s whatever people are comfortable with
Just as a single guy Spicy makes sure they are comfortable with some degree of bi play, they ain’t expected to bend over and be used by a line of guys ga |
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"Also to add. They are both very different nights x
As bi female play isn’t much of a taboo in the swinging world, would one night more geared towards bi males than the other?
I’m aware that at bi parties at Penthouse Playrooms they have dedicated male only cruise/ play areas.
All single guys must be Bi for my event and I vet this very strictly ,most couples are both parts bi. Otherwise, as said previously the male must be very bi friendly. Straight single fems are also welcome looking for bi males, tgirls.
When I started the bi nights at VA this was the original criteria although it's covering a broader spectrum now as its such a popular night. Both nights are great but dynamics different.
We're very interested in these bi nights at Jaydees. We've tried a few clubs where it's bi night, but unfortunately they bring a lot of straight guys just hovering around.
Does the male of the couple needs to be fully bi? As my partner is only orally bi. S x"
Nope that's would be great. You would certainly fit in  |
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