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Who is at Jaydees tonight 7th Nov?
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"We've not been to a bi night there yet but are hoping too, what was wrong? Why wasn't it sexy?"
I wasn't there so can't comment on that particular night, but my experience from previous bi nights there suggests the couple probably didn't give it enough time. As SpicyMinx, the hostess, has a rule that the upstairs of the club (where most of the open play areas are) is closed until 10.30pm so people have a chance to socialise downstairs. The dance floor is still available, as well as social area, hot tubs and private rooms, but most people (when I was there) waited with play for when the upstairs opens up. By 11pm, some play may have already been starting, but it's still rather early. Also, Jaydees bi nights are not all "inclusive", they are geared towards bi men. Maybe the OP did not like that? Or, going by some threads they started previously about other bi events in clubs (green arrow), maybe the club was not "busy enough" for them? Difficult to say. I would say try the event, just give it a bit longer than 11pm. It might be worth it. Even if not, you'd be able to form your opinion rather than going by the opinion of others. |
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"We would go and form our own opinion, just wondering what this particular couple didn't like on the night. It's always interesting to hear peoples thoughts."
I agree, I would like to know, too. But we probably never will. |
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By *luefire2 OP Couple 26 weeks ago
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"We've not been to a bi night there yet but are hoping too, what was wrong? Why wasn't it sexy?
I wasn't there so can't comment on that particular night, but my experience from previous bi nights there suggests the couple probably didn't give it enough time. As SpicyMinx, the hostess, has a rule that the upstairs of the club (where most of the open play areas are) is closed until 10.30pm so people have a chance to socialise downstairs. The dance floor is still available, as well as social area, hot tubs and private rooms, but most people (when I was there) waited with play for when the upstairs opens up. By 11pm, some play may have already been starting, but it's still rather early. Also, Jaydees bi nights are not all "inclusive", they are geared towards bi men. Maybe the OP did not like that? Or, going by some threads they started previously about other bi events in clubs (green arrow), maybe the club was not "busy enough" for them? Difficult to say. I would say try the event, just give it a bit longer than 11pm. It might be worth it. Even if not, you'd be able to form your opinion rather than going by the opinion of others. "
If you read our ptofile you will see that Mr R is fully 100% bi. Which means that guy on guy play is what we enjoy.
People are allowed their own opinions and we have shared ours.
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"We've not been to a bi night there yet but are hoping too, what was wrong? Why wasn't it sexy?
I wasn't there so can't comment on that particular night, but my experience from previous bi nights there suggests the couple probably didn't give it enough time. As SpicyMinx, the hostess, has a rule that the upstairs of the club (where most of the open play areas are) is closed until 10.30pm so people have a chance to socialise downstairs. The dance floor is still available, as well as social area, hot tubs and private rooms, but most people (when I was there) waited with play for when the upstairs opens up. By 11pm, some play may have already been starting, but it's still rather early. Also, Jaydees bi nights are not all "inclusive", they are geared towards bi men. Maybe the OP did not like that? Or, going by some threads they started previously about other bi events in clubs (green arrow), maybe the club was not "busy enough" for them? Difficult to say. I would say try the event, just give it a bit longer than 11pm. It might be worth it. Even if not, you'd be able to form your opinion rather than going by the opinion of others. "
I was at the club on the 7th and after the upstairs opened at 10.30 people progressed upstairs and there's was more than enough bi play to keep anyone happy. Nobody seemed to be in a rush as they were being sociable but by 11.30 the couples room upstairs and the four poster were heaving. Unfortunately the original posters had left by then so I feel this thread is unfair to the night as had they stayed they would of seen a better representation and hopefully more of what they were looking for. |
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By *luefire2 OP Couple 26 weeks ago
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Seems you can't have an opinion on FAB these days! We can privately explain our opinions to those that really feel they need to know why.
Not that we have to explain ourselves to anyone.
We have been to many clubs and have a lot of bi experiences away from FAB and the club "circus".
Unfortunately, the club and the night in general didn't rise to the occassion and it never met standards we have experienced elsewhere.
We will never "yuk someones yum" but the environment and the club just wasn't what we look for.
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"Seems you can't have an opinion on FAB these days! We can privately explain our opinions to those that really feel they need to know why.
Not that we have to explain ourselves to anyone.
We have been to many clubs and have a lot of bi experiences away from FAB and the club "circus".
Unfortunately, the club and the night in general didn't rise to the occassion and it never met standards we have experienced elsewhere.
We will never "yuk someones yum" but the environment and the club just wasn't what we look for.
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That's fair enough everyone has different expectations, I was more leaning to the opinion of you may have missed out by leaving when you did but if you weren't happy with the dynamic then that's understandable. Sorry didn't mean to cause any offence to yourselves by how post was worded. |
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