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So we were in chameleons last night with good freinds . We entered the couples room just us four . We were in the moment playing for each other ie both couples turning each other on
.. it was getting hot then suddenly a random guy came in and jumped on the bed . At first we thought single guy attack but after two mins his partner came in
They positioned right next to us .. not unusual but we were in a moment so we moved right over .. then to our amazement they moved again . So close we were pinned against the side of the room .. we said we moved away because we wanted our time and they just laughed .. total lack of respect we say
Has this happened to you ? Also if you are that couple from last night one word ASSHOLE !! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"So we were in chameleons last night with good freinds . We entered the couples room just us four . We were in the moment playing for each other ie both couples turning each other on
.. it was getting hot then suddenly a random guy came in and jumped on the bed . At first we thought single guy attack but after two mins his partner came in
They positioned right next to us .. not unusual but we were in a moment so we moved right over .. then to our amazement they moved again . So close we were pinned against the side of the room .. we said we moved away because we wanted our time and they just laughed .. total lack of respect we say
Has this happened to you ? Also if you are that couple from last night one word ASSHOLE !!"
Agreed, no manners. |
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"So we were in chameleons last night with good freinds . We entered the couples room just us four . We were in the moment playing for each other ie both couples turning each other on
.. it was getting hot then suddenly a random guy came in and jumped on the bed . At first we thought single guy attack but after two mins his partner came in
They positioned right next to us .. not unusual but we were in a moment so we moved right over .. then to our amazement they moved again . So close we were pinned against the side of the room .. we said we moved away because we wanted our time and they just laughed .. total lack of respect we say
Has this happened to you ? Also if you are that couple from last night one word ASSHOLE !!"
Then what happened next? There's a couple that often visit AbFabs that we've seen who do this kind of thing. I've found that shouting "fuck off" is the only thing that works with them, bit of a mood killer though |
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"So we were in chameleons last night with good freinds . We entered the couples room just us four . We were in the moment playing for each other ie both couples turning each other on
.. it was getting hot then suddenly a random guy came in and jumped on the bed . At first we thought single guy attack but after two mins his partner came in
They positioned right next to us .. not unusual but we were in a moment so we moved right over .. then to our amazement they moved again . So close we were pinned against the side of the room .. we said we moved away because we wanted our time and they just laughed .. total lack of respect we say
Has this happened to you ? Also if you are that couple from last night one word ASSHOLE !!
Then what happened next? There's a couple that often visit AbFabs that we've seen who do this kind of thing. I've found that shouting "fuck off" is the only thing that works with them, bit of a mood killer though "
we left the room and went private .. if they had manners they could of watched a dammm hot show tbh xx |
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Wow. I was at a club here in the states and Inga a fwb with me. Lots of people enjoying lots of sexual deviance, but more than enough room for people.. At any rate this one guy was just trying wayyyy too hard.. 2 couples were swapping and there was a female couple next to the swapping couples one of the ladies from the female couple was alternating her attention between the ladies from the swapping couples.. Not a big deal. But she was completely nude.. Again no big deal.. She was bent over licking and this guy had the audacity to try and stick his face where it was not welcome. He got pissed started with the name calling sexual and racial slurs... I threw him out of the VIP right at the bouncers feet.. Bouncer heard what he did and the guy was forcefully removed and banned
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"So we were in chameleons last night with good freinds . We entered the couples room just us four . We were in the moment playing for each other ie both couples turning each other on
.. it was getting hot then suddenly a random guy came in and jumped on the bed . At first we thought single guy attack but after two mins his partner came in
They positioned right next to us .. not unusual but we were in a moment so we moved right over .. then to our amazement they moved again . So close we were pinned against the side of the room .. we said we moved away because we wanted our time and they just laughed .. total lack of respect we say
Has this happened to you ? Also if you are that couple from last night one word ASSHOLE !!"
I can see this from both sides to be honest. They did encroach on your space but apart from that then i don't see too much wrong with it,but from your side being pinned up the wall wouldn't have been very nice and probably the over riding factor as to why you think they lacked manners etc. Apart from that they didn't seem.to do much else that to would be disrespectful |
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"Wow. I was at a club here in the states and Inga a fwb with me. Lots of people enjoying lots of sexual deviance, but more than enough room for people.. At any rate this one guy was just trying wayyyy too hard.. 2 couples were swapping and there was a female couple next to the swapping couples one of the ladies from the female couple was alternating her attention between the ladies from the swapping couples.. Not a big deal. But she was completely nude.. Again no big deal.. She was bent over licking and this guy had the audacity to try and stick his face where it was not welcome. He got pissed started with the name calling sexual and racial slurs... I threw him out of the VIP right at the bouncers feet.. Bouncer heard what he did and the guy was forcefully removed and banned
SMH some people "
so its a worldwide problem then lol xx |
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"So we were in chameleons last night with good freinds . We entered the couples room just us four . We were in the moment playing for each other ie both couples turning each other on
.. it was getting hot then suddenly a random guy came in and jumped on the bed . At first we thought single guy attack but after two mins his partner came in
They positioned right next to us .. not unusual but we were in a moment so we moved right over .. then to our amazement they moved again . So close we were pinned against the side of the room .. we said we moved away because we wanted our time and they just laughed .. total lack of respect we say
Has this happened to you ? Also if you are that couple from last night one word ASSHOLE !!
I can see this from both sides to be honest. They did encroach on your space but apart from that then i don't see too much wrong with it,but from your side being pinned up the wall wouldn't have been very nice and probably the over riding factor as to why you think they lacked manners etc. Apart from that they didn't seem.to do much else that to would be disrespectful "
I suppose you had to be there to realise how bad it was ....they had the rest of the room to use anD when we all moved away they should have took it as a hint we didn't want them near us so to move even closer so we had no space very disrespectful and then when we mentioned it to laugh in our faces again total lack of etiquette and manners xx |
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"So we were in chameleons last night with good freinds . We entered the couples room just us four . We were in the moment playing for each other ie both couples turning each other on
.. it was getting hot then suddenly a random guy came in and jumped on the bed . At first we thought single guy attack but after two mins his partner came in
They positioned right next to us .. not unusual but we were in a moment so we moved right over .. then to our amazement they moved again . So close we were pinned against the side of the room .. we said we moved away because we wanted our time and they just laughed .. total lack of respect we say
Has this happened to you ? Also if you are that couple from last night one word ASSHOLE !!
I can see this from both sides to be honest. They did encroach on your space but apart from that then i don't see too much wrong with it,but from your side being pinned up the wall wouldn't have been very nice and probably the over riding factor as to why you think they lacked manners etc. Apart from that they didn't seem.to do much else that to would be disrespectful
I suppose you had to be there to realise how bad it was ....they had the rest of the room to use anD when we all moved away they should have took it as a hint we didn't want them near us so to move even closer so we had no space very disrespectful and then when we mentioned it to laugh in our faces again total lack of etiquette and manners xx"
Welcome to chams lol |
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"What can you expect at such places?
They are for everyone??
Go to a hotel instead if you want to have space to your selves"
lol point missed totally we were with freinds we met there why pay hotel fees when its our local club ? |
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If they was playing in a open room. (Assumptions they was)
Then if you are going in you respect other people and not shove them out.
Chams occasionally has people who does not understand it or lack of manners.
And no they want to use chams to see meet play then good on the op |
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"What can you expect at such places?
They are for everyone??
Go to a hotel instead if you want to have space to your selves lol point missed totally we were with freinds we met there why pay hotel fees when its our local club ? "
We go there every week to enjoy what we like to do ....play with freinds and exibishonism so put on a show shall we say ...not something we can do in a hotel room ....then you get someone with no manners or respect doing that ...certain rules should be followed and certain people let the scene down ....we've had wandering hands before its expected we politely say no and they stop all is fine but to move even closer when we already moved away then laugh when we mention it then that to us is not good ...xx |
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"Sounds abit like you think you own the place!!
Not at all we just feel people should have more respect no means no wherever you are x"
Can't understand how some people are implying OP is at fault! Moving away from the couple would've been a clear sign that they weren't interested, and should've been respected. Playing in an open area doesn't mean you have to put up with whatever anyone else there wants to do to you! The OP wasn't being unreasonable at all. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Sounds abit like you think you own the place!!
Not at all we just feel people should have more respect no means no wherever you are x
Can't understand how some people are implying OP is at fault! Moving away from the couple would've been a clear sign that they weren't interested, and should've been respected. Playing in an open area doesn't mean you have to put up with whatever anyone else there wants to do to you! The OP wasn't being unreasonable at all."
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Posts like this dont really achieve anything as we only have one side of the story, but yes I agree from what YOU have said it was inappropriate of them.
I'm only apprehensive after a post a few days ago by an older female member slagging off some other members - anyway a long story short she was lying about the whole situation and was just after a bit if attention.
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Op didn’t you think to mention it to staff?
In our experience, staff at chams and every other club we’ve been to are excellent and would usually have a word with them to make sure they don’t behave like that in future. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Op didn’t you think to mention it to staff?
In our experience, staff at chams and every other club we’ve been to are excellent and would usually have a word with them to make sure they don’t behave like that in future. "
This is a good point, they could have had a word with them. |
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Totally understand were your coming from but one thing we will say is m has attended chams for 13 years and were both well known so we dont really need any attention tbh we have a lot of friends on the scene xx |
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"Op didn’t you think to mention it to staff?
In our experience, staff at chams and every other club we’ve been to are excellent and would usually have a word with them to make sure they don’t behave like that in future.
This is a good point, they could have had a word with them."
yes it was mentioned the staff are our friends and we handled it ourselves point was and still is .. no respect |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Op didn’t you think to mention it to staff?
In our experience, staff at chams and every other club we’ve been to are excellent and would usually have a word with them to make sure they don’t behave like that in future.
This is a good point, they could have had a word with them.yes it was mentioned the staff are our friends and we handled it ourselves point was and still is .. no respect "
Hopefully it won't happen again then x |
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Not condoning the behaviour but why not just go in a private room?
Maybe they thought that playing in the couples room you'd be receptive to them joining you amd thus was a (very, very) clumsy attempt at joining in?
I stress I'm not cond9n8ng their behaviour amd they certainly should have taken the hint the first to e you moved away but this is always the risk when playing in an open room |
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"Not condoning the behaviour but why not just go in a private room?
Maybe they thought that playing in the couples room you'd be receptive to them joining you amd thus was a (very, very) clumsy attempt at joining in?
Because we are exibishonists too so we like to be watched hense an open room that isn't an invitation to touch without asking x
I stress I'm not cond9n8ng their behaviour amd they certainly should have taken the hint the first to e you moved away but this is always the risk when playing in an open room"
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"Not condoning the behaviour but why not just go in a private room?
Maybe they thought that playing in the couples room you'd be receptive to them joining you amd thus was a (very, very) clumsy attempt at joining in?
I stress I'm not cond9n8ng their behaviour amd they certainly should have taken the hint the first to e you moved away but this is always the risk when playing in an open room"
Even in an open room people should ask before attempting to join in. Playing in an open area isn't an invite for a free for all.
By moving away the OP sent a clear signal that they weren't interested and this was ignored.
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"What can you expect at such places?
They are for everyone??
Go to a hotel instead if you want to have space to your selves"
Talking rubbish. Clubs are generally frequented by people who understand how to behave in those circumstances.
OP is right to be annoyed, luckily this type of behaviour isn't too common. |
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"Posts like this dont really achieve anything as we only have one side of the story, but yes I agree from what YOU have said it was inappropriate of them.
I'm only apprehensive after a post a few days ago by an older female member slagging off some other members - anyway a long story short she was lying about the whole situation and was just after a bit if attention.
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Cool story bro 
Do you have both sides of that particular story? |
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"Sounds abit like you think you own the place!!
Not at all we just feel people should have more respect no means no wherever you are x
Can't understand how some people are implying OP is at fault! Moving away from the couple would've been a clear sign that they weren't interested, and should've been respected. Playing in an open area doesn't mean you have to put up with whatever anyone else there wants to do to you! The OP wasn't being unreasonable at all."
OP were they trying to join in? That's incredibly rude. |
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"Sounds abit like you think you own the place!!
Not at all we just feel people should have more respect no means no wherever you are x
Can't understand how some people are implying OP is at fault! Moving away from the couple would've been a clear sign that they weren't interested, and should've been respected. Playing in an open area doesn't mean you have to put up with whatever anyone else there wants to do to you! The OP wasn't being unreasonable at all."
absolutely.....
lack of club etiquette ... if you don't see this then you have no business in a club
Sending hugs xxxx
Dont let it get to you... you two are awesome....
ps mwah xxx lol |
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"Posts like this dont really achieve anything as we only have one side of the story, but yes I agree from what YOU have said it was inappropriate of them.
I'm only apprehensive after a post a few days ago by an older female member slagging off some other members - anyway a long story short she was lying about the whole situation and was just after a bit if attention.
Cool story bro
Do you have both sides of that particular story?"
we put both sides up thats what happened |
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"Posts like this dont really achieve anything as we only have one side of the story, but yes I agree from what YOU have said it was inappropriate of them.
I'm only apprehensive after a post a few days ago by an older female member slagging off some other members - anyway a long story short she was lying about the whole situation and was just after a bit if attention.
Cool story bro
Do you have both sides of that particular story? we put both sides up thats what happened "
In regards to your original post, I saw that and had no issue.
It was this comment about the alleged attention seeking that seemed one sided, like someone had an axe to grind. |
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I have been upstairs playing with a guy and a lady slapped my hand away saying he's too good for you we just moved to a private room jealousy does not belong in a swingers club x |
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"So we were in chameleons last night with good freinds . We entered the couples room just us four . We were in the moment playing for each other ie both couples turning each other on
.. it was getting hot then suddenly a random guy came in and jumped on the bed . At first we thought single guy attack but after two mins his partner came in
They positioned right next to us .. not unusual but we were in a moment so we moved right over .. then to our amazement they moved again . So close we were pinned against the side of the room .. we said we moved away because we wanted our time and they just laughed .. total lack of respect we say
Has this happened to you ? Also if you are that couple from last night one word ASSHOLE !!"
Show some respect??? |
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"You all sound like ten year old s in the playground if this is the most lack of respect you have encountered in life I'd say your bloody lucky !! "
You've not been to a club have you....
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"So we were in chameleons last night with good freinds . We entered the couples room just us four . We were in the moment playing for each other ie both couples turning each other on
.. it was getting hot then suddenly a random guy came in and jumped on the bed . At first we thought single guy attack but after two mins his partner came in
They positioned right next to us .. not unusual but we were in a moment so we moved right over .. then to our amazement they moved again . So close we were pinned against the side of the room .. we said we moved away because we wanted our time and they just laughed .. total lack of respect we say
Has this happened to you ? Also if you are that couple from last night one word ASSHOLE !!
Show some respect???"
Profound when you think about it |
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