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VA Bi Night Friday 7th March 2025 !
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By *emember OP Man 15 weeks ago
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Get Ready for Our Next Bi-Night!
Our hugely successful event keeps growing—thanks to you!
Join us for another incredible evening with the vibrant LGBT community at our exclusive, members-only bi-night.
When: Friday, March 7th, 8 PM - 2:30 AM
Where: VA
This is where connections are made—don’t miss out! |
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By *emember OP Man 13 weeks ago
St Neots |
Get Ready for Our Next Bi-Night!
Our hugely successful event keeps growing—thanks to you!
Join us for another incredible evening with the vibrant LGBT community at our exclusive, members-only bi-night.
When: Friday, March 7th, 8 PM - 2:30 AM |
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By *emember OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Booked for tomorrow 7th
I imagine (know) there will be a few guys woukld like to get involved with that tool too!
They might be very disappointed as he is straight, according to his profile!  "
Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.
Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi) |
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By *emember OP Man 13 weeks ago
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Not to mention some cultures frown on the lgbt community ...
We welcome all as long as they are club members and understand the event .
It wasn't that many years ago being gay was illegal...
Let's not stay in that bigoted mindset.
Oddly it's the older generation that seem to be stuck on the notion that Bi Night is only for Bi people ..
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"Booked for tomorrow 7th
I imagine (know) there will be a few guys woukld like to get involved with that tool too!
They might be very disappointed as he is straight, according to his profile!
Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.
Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi)"
Thank you for pointing it out. I have never attended a bi night at VA, have been mostly basing my understanding on another bi night that I used to go to regularly that was very much bi-male orientated. I would still prefer bi nights to remain as bi nights in a more "traditional" sense (as those are very rare) but I understand why hosts choose to go for more inclusive options. |
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"Not to mention some cultures frown on the lgbt community ...
We welcome all as long as they are club members and understand the event .
It wasn't that many years ago being gay was illegal...
Let's not stay in that bigoted mindset.
Oddly it's the older generation that seem to be stuck on the notion that Bi Night is only for Bi people ..
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Whole I agree with inclusivity, I think calling people bigots is a bit unfair...people come to bi nights for the potential for bi male play because it us sometimes frowned upon at regular club nights...we've been to bi nights inundated with straight single males where the atmosphere isn't conducive, there are difficulties with open bi male play because the straight guys don't want to witness it and they didn't respect boundaries and personal space...if there isn't the emphasis on bi sexuality, they may as well just be normal nights...
We travel quite a distance for the speciality of these nights and you do seem to get the balance right whereas in the past it wasn't...but having a preference for the opportunities bi nights offer doesn't make us bigots...
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By *emember OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Booked for tomorrow 7th
I imagine (know) there will be a few guys woukld like to get involved with that tool too!
They might be very disappointed as he is straight, according to his profile!
Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.
Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi)
Thank you for pointing it out. I have never attended a bi night at VA, have been mostly basing my understanding on another bi night that I used to go to regularly that was very much bi-male orientated. I would still prefer bi nights to remain as bi nights in a more "traditional" sense (as those are very rare) but I understand why hosts choose to go for more inclusive options. "
Yeah standard...never been but wants to comment negatively...
Seen it before not new...Next
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"Are Bi events only for Bi men?
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No, but they are supposed to be geared towards bi, bi-curious and gay men. They're supposed to be a "safe haven" for those men to "get it on" in a supportive environment full of like-minded people. That's my understanding of a bi night, and that's why I like to attend a proper bi night, to watch men openly play with each other within the fear of being judged. But I guess that option no longer provides the levels of attendance required to keep the event afloat.
However, as long as everyone at a bi night event is aware of, and ok with, the possibility of seeing same-sex open play, particularly male on male play, then that's all fine. |
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"Booked for tomorrow 7th
I imagine (know) there will be a few guys woukld like to get involved with that tool too!
They might be very disappointed as he is straight, according to his profile!
Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.
Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi)
Thank you for pointing it out. I have never attended a bi night at VA, have been mostly basing my understanding on another bi night that I used to go to regularly that was very much bi-male orientated. I would still prefer bi nights to remain as bi nights in a more "traditional" sense (as those are very rare) but I understand why hosts choose to go for more inclusive options.
Yeah standard...never been but wants to comment negatively...
Seen it before not new...Next
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Please note, just because I have never been to the bi night run by you, or in the club you are currently running the event in, it does not mean I have no right to comment and express my opinion. It is an open forum. It also does not mean I am "bigoted", "close minded" or whatever other adjectives you'd like to throw at me. I very much enjoy watching men play and it saddens me that more and more "bi nights" are becoming so by name only as they are getting "inclusive".
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By *emember OP Man 13 weeks ago
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Basically the days of Bi events only being for Bi men are over.
That's why you don't see them so much.
Even hetro people in the lifestyle are exploring beyond the vanilla hetro wife swap...
The scene is changing....this is due to a more accepting generation stepping up.
It's so wonderful to see and be a part of....
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By *emember OP Man 13 weeks ago
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Today, we party... 
We have two DJs for the night, and I, along with a dominatrix, will be in the club ensuring everyone is not behaving...
There are no other nights like a VA Bi Night!
Unlike other bi events, we are not male-heavy, as we believe that sexual fluidity is for everyone, not just men.
At VA Bi events, 75% of attendees are couples, and we have an ever-growing female & trans presence…
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By *emember OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Well, that was just a bloody hot AF night! Loved the whole vibe, thanks for the welcome. We’ll definitely be attending a few more VA Bi nights this year.
X"
Glad you enjoyed the evening!
It was an absolute pleasure having you there, and we look forward to seeing your gorgeous selves back soon. Have a wonderful weekend
James x. |
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