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Next FFFF @ Xtasia, Friday 29th July (pt5).
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"Think we got to part 9 last time so going well " The thread in Wales section is on part 4 I think as well this time lol. | |||
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"Think we got to part 9 last time so going well " Checking into part 5 xx | |||
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"Part 5 eh. Have you had a count up Lee how many you expecting ?" Somewhere in the region of 300 or so with a bit of luck  | |||
"Part 5 eh. Have you had a count up Lee how many you expecting ? Somewhere in the region of 300 or so with a bit of luck "Not bad mate well done yet again  | |||
"Part 5 eh. Have you had a count up Lee how many you expecting ? Somewhere in the region of 300 or so with a bit of luck
Not bad mate well done yet again "Better save that until we see how many actually turn up tomorrow night   | |||
"Part 5 eh. Have you had a count up Lee how many you expecting ? Somewhere in the region of 300 or so with a bit of luck
Not bad mate well done yet again
Better save that until we see how many actually turn up tomorrow night "True but what ever it's not for lack of effort on your part mate. I think you've done a blinding job this time and the last | |||
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"Premier inn doesn't do food till 6 pm So we are going to eat up about 3 pm and go and find a weatherspoons So anyone wanting to join us feel free "Wetherspoons is only about a 5 min walk from the hotel, through the pedestrianised part of the high street | |||
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"Is flirts not opening up early this time ?" No, 6pm this time. The last couple of times they've opened Flirts early for us hardly anyone went in until after 6pm anyway. I might of popped in for a quick diet  but not many others did. | |||
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"Is it cash only in the club or do they accept card aswell ?" As far as I know, cash only but I'm not 100% sure. Are you a member of Xtasia? | |||
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"Is it cash only in the club or do they accept card aswell ? As far as I know, cash only but I'm not 100% sure. Are you a member of Xtasia? " I've never been but have been approved last month I think it was, Kind of want to go as I enjoy the social side of it but not sure if I can afford it at the mo ha | |||
"Premier inn doesn't do food till 6 pm So we are going to eat up about 3 pm and go and find a weatherspoons So anyone wanting to join us feel free
Wetherspoons is only about a 5 min walk from the hotel, through the pedestrianised part of the high street "Thank you me lovely See you all later | |||
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"Gutted I can't come tonight but im sure you will all have a fab night xxxxx "Gutted you won't be there too xxx | |||
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"Hey Lee, it is with regret I am going to have to cancel my appearance tonight. Unfortunately I am needed elsewhere and not in a fun way! Gutted I cant go as I was really looking forward to this. Hopefully I will be at the next one. Have fun mate x" Thanks for letting me know. Hope to catch back up with you again soon! | |||
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"Looking forward to tonight xx" It's looking like it's going to be another epic night xx | |||
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"Impressive statistics 128 couples 37 single female 55 single guys" Mmmmmm..looks like a very good night. | |||
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"Guest list for tonight is now closed. See you all later " | |||
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"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x" M6 is stop start for no reason!! | |||
"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x M6 is stop start for no reason!!" Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there only meant to be a 3hr trip x | |||
"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x M6 is stop start for no reason!! Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there only meant to be a 3hr trip x"We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach. | |||
"If the list is closed can we still get in ?" You are Members so should be able to come anyway | |||
"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x M6 is stop start for no reason!! Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there only meant to be a 3hr trip x
We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach." on the plus side there's some dishy drivers  x | |||
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"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x M6 is stop start for no reason!! Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there only meant to be a 3hr trip x
We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.
on the plus side there's some dishy drivers x"Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink? | |||
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"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x M6 is stop start for no reason!! Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there only meant to be a 3hr trip x
We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.
on the plus side there's some dishy drivers x
Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink?"Pisshead | |||
"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x M6 is stop start for no reason!! Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there only meant to be a 3hr trip x
We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.
on the plus side there's some dishy drivers x
Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink?
Pisshead "Ha ha needed after that journey lol | |||
"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x M6 is stop start for no reason!! Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there only meant to be a 3hr trip x
We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.
on the plus side there's some dishy drivers x
Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink?
Pisshead
Ha ha needed after that journey lol"Decided your driving back | |||
"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x M6 is stop start for no reason!! Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there only meant to be a 3hr trip x
We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.
on the plus side there's some dishy drivers x
Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink?
Pisshead
Ha ha needed after that journey lol
Decided your driving back "Now that would be the drive of your life! White knuckle ride springs to mind xx | |||
"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x M6 is stop start for no reason!! Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there only meant to be a 3hr trip x
We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.
on the plus side there's some dishy drivers x
Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink?
Pisshead
Ha ha needed after that journey lol
Decided your driving back "Still stuck on the a1m 43 mile from home and it's taken nearly 2 hrs  see you all at 12  haha
I'm bursting for the loo xx | |||
"We've set off.....be there approx 7:30 traffic all being well x M6 is stop start for no reason!! Still on the a19 looks like an accident,an hour into the journey and sat nav says still over 3 hrs till we get there only meant to be a 3hr trip x
We just made that journey. Set off from Manchester 1pm arrived Premier Inn 4.30pm. Not bad once you get past Sandbach.
on the plus side there's some dishy drivers x
Just arrived at the premier, anyone fancy a drink?
Pisshead
Ha ha needed after that journey lol
Decided your driving back
Still stuck on the a1m 43 mile from home and it's taken nearly 2 hrs see you all at 12 haha
I'm bursting for the loo xx"Awch | |||
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"We will get toone of these events eventually. But sadly not tonight.. Jiggle has had an issue at work and not got back yet, and not looking like he will be back soon.. Sorry we can't make it. But sure everyone one will have a great night. " There's a thread started for the Sat night couples and single females on Sept 3rd ...
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"We will get to one of these events eventually. But sadly not tonight.. Jiggle has had an issue at work and not got back yet and not looking like he will be back soon.. Sorry we can't make it. But sure everyone one will have a great night. There's a thread started for the Sat night couples and single females on Sept 3rd ...
xx"Thanks for the info, I'll check the diary and find the thread. hopefully we are free! #fingers crossed. | |||
Lots of very lovely looking people and I'm sure there's a few sore heads this morning ha
Had a very quiet drive home last night hence the no drinks but was a very lovely night indeed !
Anyone who I spoke to feel free to drop me a verification and onto the next event | |||
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"Massive thanks to Lee for yet again pulling together such great numbers for our FFFF event. Team here also worked their butts off, well done guys and gals. The invite only approach to the playrooms worked for those serious about playing...they made an effort elsewhere first and were rewarded by a play invite, rather than just loitering and hoping! Was an amazing night, with some amazing folks...thank you all, don't think we dealt with a single incident all night! Just type in FFFF to search for the next one in Sept, however that is couples and single ladies only on a Saturday night this time. "Yes a great night indeed. Unfortunately we didn't experience this with the playrooms. There was a small group that gathered (very similar to the ones at the previous ffff) and one in particular managed to join in sneakily without consent, which we nipped in the bud very quickly. That's by no means any bad reflection on _tasia or the staff, who excelled as always. And wouldn't even blame the organisers. This small minority of men really do need to understand some basic concepts, because swinging is so varied, we all have different journeys and their actions do invade space that really shouldn't with some simple courtesy at the beginning. I did feel sorry for one chap who left the club next to us saying "I'm scum". I believe he was tarnished with the single male brush. Like I said, no bad reflection on the club or the staff, which we will continue to champion and endorse every time we meet new people. No bad reflection to the organiser (as it is a good night) and none to the majority of single men, who actually are pleasant, respectful and worthy and welcome to be part of the swinging community, but this small minority your actions really let yourselves down and make it harder for the other guys. Aside the small incident, which we didn't report as we sorted it, but know if we did Xtasia would have dealt with it professionally as always, it was a great, successful night with great couples, great men and great females. A suggestion for the next mixed night is a ticket system (a bit like when you go to a shop and try clothes on, they give you a card with a number to denote how many items you are taking). It might be worth implementing that if a single male is invited, that they leave with that couple. Handing out a 1 (female), 2 (couple), 3 (couple + a male) ticket to come in and handing it back on the way out. All in all, thank Lee, Paul & Flirt, the Xtasia crew for a fantastic night! We look forward to the next one. xx | |||
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"I agree. As a couple we like to see single guys come in and join us.somwtimes it's fun even if they join without being invited.ut adds to the spice. That's our journey.thats what we like.every one has there journey and preferences. My advice is find a couple only party if u gonna whine about little issues as this.its a night were single guys are allowed.so instead of bringing sissy especially to tarnish a good night. Avoid coming for the nxt one.or wait there is a couple one coming up soon.attend that and avoid every party that allows single guys. What u indirectly saying is _tasia couldn't control or organise a party and the idea of given a card to every guy is the silliest thing I hv ever heard. Just a question.do u guys hv a life or is swinging ur life cos if u really think cos of u there would be a card system then u living in a world of ur own" To the above comments the 1st comment about single guys being in and around the playrooms is completely warranted and doesn't need to be slated by petty narrow mindedness of others! We all have our preferences and it was stated that single guys were only allowed around the play areas if invited? The initial comment was in no way negative and merely pointing out that an issue occurred and was dealt with and in no way was slating a fantastic night that the club and organiser put a hell of effort into. I for one had a cracking night and will be back and thank Lee and the club and staff for all the effort and work they put into making a very very enjoyable night xx | |||
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"I agree. As a couple we like to see single guys come in and join us.somwtimes it's fun even if they join without being invited.ut adds to the spice. That's our journey.thats what we like.every one has there journey and preferences. My advice is find a couple only party if u gonna whine about little issues as this.its a night were single guys are allowed.so instead of bringing sissy especially to tarnish a good night. Avoid coming for the nxt one.or wait there is a couple one coming up soon.attend that and avoid every party that allows single guys. What u indirectly saying is _tasia couldn't control or organise a party and the idea of given a card to every guy is the silliest thing I hv ever heard. Just a question.do u guys hv a life or is swinging ur life cos if u really think cos of u there would be a card system then u living in a world of ur own To the above comments the 1st comment about single guys being in and around the playrooms is completely warranted and doesn't need to be slated by petty narrow mindedness of others! We all have our preferences and it was stated that single guys were only allowed around the play areas if invited? The initial comment was in no way negative and merely pointing out that an issue occurred and was dealt with and in no way was slating a fantastic night that the club and organiser put a hell of effort into. I for one had a cracking night and will be back and thank Lee and the club and staff for all the effort and work they put into making a very very enjoyable night xx" | |||
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" As for the single guys that have been mentioned we spoke to a few and guess what... They're not serial killers or aliens they're are just normal guys once you get chatting .. We admit we have had issues previously but we felt last night they were respectful and majority did respect the invite only rule although we didn't mind being watched sometimes .. One even asked to touch and guess what... The good lady said yes gently... And he did so...P&B " Totally agree with you! I believe we acknowledged this and by no means would we tarnish everyone with the same brush. And before anyone says, yes we know there are bad eggs of couples and single females too. And you hit the nail on the head. He asked and for that I commend him | |||
"I agree. As a couple we like to see single guys come in and join us.somwtimes it's fun even if they join without being invited.ut adds to the spice. That's our journey.thats what we like.every one has there journey and preferences. My advice is find a couple only party if u gonna whine about little issues as this.its a night were single guys are allowed.so instead of bringing sissy especially to tarnish a good night. Avoid coming for the nxt one.or wait there is a couple one coming up soon.attend that and avoid every party that allows single guys. What u indirectly saying is _tasia couldn't control or organise a party and the idea of given a card to every guy is the silliest thing I hv ever heard. Just a question.do u guys hv a life or is swinging ur life cos if u really think cos of u there would be a card system then u living in a world of ur own To the above comments the 1st comment about single guys being in and around the playrooms is completely warranted and doesn't need to be slated by petty narrow mindedness of others! We all have our preferences and it was stated that single guys were only allowed around the play areas if invited? The initial comment was in no way negative and merely pointing out that an issue occurred and was dealt with and in no way was slating a fantastic night that the club and organiser put a hell of effort into. I for one had a cracking night and will be back and thank Lee and the club and staff for all the effort and work they put into making a very very enjoyable night xx" Thank you for reading. That's exactly the point I was making. xx | |||
"Wow !!! What a great experience FFFF night was we were lucky enough to go with friends and every intention of playing with them for the first after all they are neighbours (literally...well a stones throw ...who'd have guessed) the atmosphere was amazing the organiser (Lee) did a fantastic job, and huge thanks to the owners and the staff who we felt were friendly polite and professional... We met many new couples and were given lots of names and Fab names we can't remember them all... A suggestion for may be some small cards along the bar or lounge area in order to take names etc ... Not sure where you'd keep the completed cards although I have a few ideas he he !! As for the single guys that have been mentioned we spoke to a few and guess what... They're not serial killers or aliens they're are just normal guys once you get chatting .. We admit we have had issues previously but we felt last night they were respectful and majority did respect the invite only rule although we didn't mind being watched sometimes .. One even asked to touch and guess what... The good lady said yes gently... And he did so... I could hardly complain I was with another gorgeous lady at the time!! Can't wait for another FFFF night we for one will be signing up again and will be endorsing the event to our other FAB friends ... If you remember our names and managed to get to the bottom of this feel free to wink and message us..... We don't bite... Unlike some !!! You know who you are !!!! ???????????????? P&B " Well said | |||
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" As for the single guys that have been mentioned we spoke to a few and guess what... They're not serial killers or aliens they're are just normal guys once you get chatting .. We admit we have had issues previously but we felt last night they were respectful and majority did respect the invite only rule although we didn't mind being watched sometimes .. One even asked to touch and guess what... The good lady said yes gently... And he did so...P&B Totally agree with you! I believe we acknowledged this and by no means would we tarnish everyone with the same brush. And before anyone says, yes we know there are bad eggs of couples and single females too. And you hit the nail on the head. He asked and for that I commend him "well ur initial post didn't say something as reasonable as this so I wonder why u agreeing. They hv a life n hv moved on.u pls move on now | |||
" As for the single guys that have been mentioned we spoke to a few and guess what... They're not serial killers or aliens they're are just normal guys once you get chatting .. We admit we have had issues previously but we felt last night they were respectful and majority did respect the invite only rule although we didn't mind being watched sometimes .. One even asked to touch and guess what... The good lady said yes gently... And he did so...P&B Totally agree with you! I believe we acknowledged this and by no means would we tarnish everyone with the same brush. And before anyone says, yes we know there are bad eggs of couples and single females too. And you hit the nail on the head. He asked and for that I commend him well ur initial post didn't say something as reasonable as this so I wonder why u agreeing. They hv a life n hv moved on.u pls move on now"Maybe just maybe your the sad f**k that needs to move on here as we've all said what a great night it was and that this incident was dealt with without involving staff and management and that they all did a tremendous job not just on the night but the planning that also went into it and that we thank them all for the great job that they've done and that the majority of us who have a vanilla (will explain what it is) life along with a swinging life are looking forward to the next FFFF | |||
" As for the single guys that have been mentioned we spoke to a few and guess what... They're not serial killers or aliens they're are just normal guys once you get chatting .. We admit we have had issues previously but we felt last night they were respectful and majority did respect the invite only rule although we didn't mind being watched sometimes .. One even asked to touch and guess what... The good lady said yes gently... And he did so...P&B Totally agree with you! I believe we acknowledged this and by no means would we tarnish everyone with the same brush. And before anyone says, yes we know there are bad eggs of couples and single females too. And you hit the nail on the head. He asked and for that I commend him well ur initial post didn't say something as reasonable as this so I wonder why u agreeing. They hv a life n hv moved on.u pls move on now
Maybe just maybe your the sad f**k that needs to move on here as we've all said what a great night it was and that this incident was dealt with without involving staff and management and that they all did a tremendous job not just on the night but the planning that also went into it and that we thank them all for the great job that they've done and that the majority of us who have a vanilla (will explain what it is) life along with a swinging life are looking forward to the next FFFF"wow. Now is anger and swearing.not surprised there considering ur type. Just surprised u know what being a sad f..k is cos u seem to be the one.complaining about nonsense.guess u got no shame and sulk about swinging.no wonder u been on the scene for ages. I hv moved on. Have u? We shall find out cos I understand the anger as u can't stand being put in check | |||
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" As for the single guys that have been mentioned we spoke to a few and guess what... They're not serial killers or aliens they're are just normal guys once you get chatting .. We admit we have had issues previously but we felt last night they were respectful and majority did respect the invite only rule although we didn't mind being watched sometimes .. One even asked to touch and guess what... The good lady said yes gently... And he did so...P&B Totally agree with you! I believe we acknowledged this and by no means would we tarnish everyone with the same brush. And before anyone says, yes we know there are bad eggs of couples and single females too. And you hit the nail on the head. He asked and for that I commend him well ur initial post didn't say something as reasonable as this so I wonder why u agreeing. They hv a life n hv moved on.u pls move on now
Maybe just maybe your the sad f**k that needs to move on here as we've all said what a great night it was and that this incident was dealt with without involving staff and management and that they all did a tremendous job not just on the night but the planning that also went into it and that we thank them all for the great job that they've done and that the majority of us who have a vanilla (will explain what it is) life along with a swinging life are looking forward to the next FFFF wow. Now is anger and swearing.not surprised there considering ur type. Just surprised u know what being a sad f..k is cos u seem to be the one.complaining about nonsense.guess u got no shame and sulk about swinging.no wonder u been on the scene for ages. I hv moved on. Have u? We shall find out cos I understand the anger as u can't stand being put in check"Pmsl as yes I know what swingings all about and know how much effort the club and organisers put into a night like last night unlike you miss 1 veri 3 years ago! And once again a big thanks to Lee and Xtasia and staff for a cracking night xx | |||
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An even bigger thank you goes out to Paul, Toni and all the Xtasia team who do such a great job helping us to have so much fun.
Hope to catch up with lots of you again very soon,
Lee | |||
