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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected.

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth

Agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Agree"

I’m glad someone else thinks this. I thought there would be more people that agreed too

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By *iscean MaleMan  over a year ago

Darlaston


"Agree

I’m glad someone else thinks this. I thought there would be more people that agreed too "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely a useful feature.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Also agree, I’m only looking for Caucasian men but I get a lot of messages from other ethnicities!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected. "

I absolutely agree. Im sick of deleting guys i am not interested because they can't be bothered to read my profile and because I'm not rude I feel I have to reply and then It continues till eventually they get the message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected.

I absolutely agree. Im sick of deleting guys i am not interested because they can't be bothered to read my profile and because I'm not rude I feel I have to reply and then It continues till eventually they get the message."

This is the exact reason why it’s needed. The only way I can filter out people that are not interested in me is by clicking on their profile, seeing they are looking for black men only etc and then blocking them. And even then, they still show up on searches. I only realise I’m not in their requirements when I go to click on profile and see I’ve blocked or been blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Totally agree. As someone who adores black ladies it’s hard to search!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

this feature is a MUST!!

As an asian male, i get i’m not many women’s cup of tea which sucks but it is what it is so would be nice to be able to filter women who are into asians!

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By *arty84Man  over a year ago

Orpington


"this feature is a MUST!!

As an asian male, i get i’m not many women’s cup of tea which sucks but it is what it is so would be nice to be able to filter women who are into asians! "

Testify! I swear about 70% of the profiles I look at, all they want is white or black males only. -_-

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I guess it is what it is, i’m not mad tbh cos everyone has their own preferences and experiences…

being a guy on a site that’s dominated by other males isn’t ideal and my age doesn’t work in my favour either cos most women that I think are suitable candidates have their age settings where they don’t go for younger men so i think taking a few year hiatus would do me some good (if i’m not married off)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Better filters based on people’s preference has been sought for ages. It doesn’t discriminate as they would have been rejected anyway?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Better filters based on people’s preference has been sought for ages. It doesn’t discriminate as they would have been rejected anyway? "

Is this why it hasn’t been put in place? For fear of being accused of discrimination?..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Colour of the skin isn't everything.

For instance, I get turned on by the sight of blond Chinese females.

Following the logic of this forum thread, we should also have tick boxes for hair colour, eye colour, specific acceptable weight, specific acceptable height, oh, and perhaps even a tick box to select our swinging preference of take away ie chinky, indian, kebab, fish n chips etc...... Maybe even an option of a tick box for Rissoles?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Colour of the skin isn't everything.

For instance, I get turned on by the sight of blond Chinese females.

Following the logic of this forum thread, we should also have tick boxes for hair colour, eye colour, specific acceptable weight, specific acceptable height, oh, and perhaps even a tick box to select our swinging preference of take away ie chinky, indian, kebab, fish n chips etc...... Maybe even an option of a tick box for Rissoles?"

There are people who clearly mention that they want to meet only white/black/asian men and there are people who mention they don't want to meet white/black/asian men. It's their write to choose who they go to bed with. As of now, I have to go through a profile description to find out that or by sending a message and waiting for a reply. Providing an option to filter out makes it easy for everyone involved.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Colour of the skin isn't everything.

For instance, I get turned on by the sight of blond Chinese females.

Following the logic of this forum thread, we should also have tick boxes for hair colour, eye colour, specific acceptable weight, specific acceptable height, oh, and perhaps even a tick box to select our swinging preference of take away ie chinky, indian, kebab, fish n chips etc...... Maybe even an option of a tick box for Rissoles?

There are people who clearly mention that they want to meet only white/black/asian men and there are people who mention they don't want to meet white/black/asian men. It's their write to choose who they go to bed with. As of now, I have to go through a profile description to find out that or by sending a message and waiting for a reply. Providing an option to filter out makes it easy for everyone involved."

My point is this. Providing a tick box for each and every single kink is gonna be time consuming for the site admins. So, blackman. How black should the black be? Are we talking about Cadbury Chocolate? Galaxy? Plain Bournville?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Colour of the skin isn't everything.

For instance, I get turned on by the sight of blond Chinese females.

Following the logic of this forum thread, we should also have tick boxes for hair colour, eye colour, specific acceptable weight, specific acceptable height, oh, and perhaps even a tick box to select our swinging preference of take away ie chinky, indian, kebab, fish n chips etc...... Maybe even an option of a tick box for Rissoles?

There are people who clearly mention that they want to meet only white/black/asian men and there are people who mention they don't want to meet white/black/asian men. It's their write to choose who they go to bed with. As of now, I have to go through a profile description to find out that or by sending a message and waiting for a reply. Providing an option to filter out makes it easy for everyone involved.

My point is this. Providing a tick box for each and every single kink is gonna be time consuming for the site admins. So, blackman. How black should the black be? Are we talking about Cadbury Chocolate? Galaxy? Plain Bournville? "

Should we also remove other options on the profile like height which could have infinite number of values?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

think the whole point of this thread went right over your head pal

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Colour of the skin isn't everything.

For instance, I get turned on by the sight of blond Chinese females.

Following the logic of this forum thread, we should also have tick boxes for hair colour, eye colour, specific acceptable weight, specific acceptable height, oh, and perhaps even a tick box to select our swinging preference of take away ie chinky, indian, kebab, fish n chips etc...... Maybe even an option of a tick box for Rissoles?

There are people who clearly mention that they want to meet only white/black/asian men and there are people who mention they don't want to meet white/black/asian men. It's their write to choose who they go to bed with. As of now, I have to go through a profile description to find out that or by sending a message and waiting for a reply. Providing an option to filter out makes it easy for everyone involved."

Exactly !!!

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By *isssexysensualityCouple  over a year ago

Harrow


"Colour of the skin isn't everything.

For instance, I get turned on by the sight of blond Chinese females.

Following the logic of this forum thread, we should also have tick boxes for hair colour, eye colour, specific acceptable weight, specific acceptable height, oh, and perhaps even a tick box to select our swinging preference of take away ie chinky, indian, kebab, fish n chips etc...... Maybe even an option of a tick box for Rissoles?"

They could just add to the list of interests, we know generally how the racial preferences are cut.

Whites only

Blacks only

South Asians only

I believe racial filtering is more about social economic stereotypes, cultural comfortability, a little about physical stereotypes. Aversion to Blacks is more about socio-economic reasons, a meet with a Black guy who conforms to the ignorant/rude/lazy/aggressive stereotype is enough to put anyone off for life. Those that are Blacks only is a combination of the physical performance (which a substantial proportion of Black guys have, but statistically most still don't), and interracial kink (usually from White couples), and for 'same-race' it's for cultural reasons, we find it easy to relate to each-other, common struggle, common dreams, common interests.

Of course there are those that simply don't find a particular race of men attractive. This is mostly media conditioning your mind to find certain shapes more attractive, our brains are just giant neural networks. If it's a physical thing, then it's likely the person is in bad/wrong shape or isn't packing much which tends to reduce the quality of the sexual encounter.

The mind is fluid. If you keep watching a particular genre of porn then you're going to become attracted and more comfortable with what you see. The brain is complicated, but some parts do work on some simple mathematical principles.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Political correctness should never be forced on people’s sexual preferences. If people want a certain race that filter should be available, after all it is for gender and age.

On the other Fab site they actually have your own ethnicity in your stats on your profile, I think the same feature should be here

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By *ougie321Man  over a year ago

Milford Haven

Should also include having no preference as well as I don’t

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By *isssexysensualityCouple  over a year ago

Harrow


"Should also include having no preference as well as I don’t "

That would be normal of all hetero/bisexual men on the planet towards women. Sure we have preferences, but acceptance criteria is low. Us men are R-selected species, we go for the numbers. Quality yes, but we'll fuck any woman who fits within a wide range of normal.

Women & couples however, they come with the power of choosing. K-selection, quality. Of course the quality factor spans more than just physical performance, there's a lot of social factors, and factors inferred from racial/cultural background.

To call it all racist is dumb. Some of it may be ignorant, but at the end of the day people are looking for an experience, that experience is based on their own individual outlook & perspective of the world.

Adding some race categories to the interests would perhaps make it feel less personal than someone writing in their profile:

"NO BLACKS. THEY ARE RUDE, INSULT ME, AND DON'T EAT PUSSY "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah I totally get where you’re coming from here and I think it would be super useful, as long as they listed all ethnicities.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I really like this idea. Has any recommendations made by users been added before?

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By *ongmanXXXMan  over a year ago

south wales

%100 agree

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Better filters based on people’s preference has been sought for ages. It doesn’t discriminate as they would have been rejected anyway?

Is this why it hasn’t been put in place? For fear of being accused of discrimination?.. "

I would guess they’re more worried of losing the custom of those likely to be not searched for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

It would make searching for people so much easier. If you’re not to someone’s taste, you don’t appear in their search and they don’t appear in yours…

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Should also include having no preference as well as I don’t

That would be normal of all hetero/bisexual men on the planet towards women. Sure we have preferences, but acceptance criteria is low. Us men are R-selected species, we go for the numbers. Quality yes, but we'll fuck any woman who fits within a wide range of normal.

Women & couples however, they come with the power of choosing. K-selection, quality. Of course the quality factor spans more than just physical performance, there's a lot of social factors, and factors inferred from racial/cultural background.

To call it all racist is dumb. Some of it may be ignorant, but at the end of the day people are looking for an experience, that experience is based on their own individual outlook & perspective of the world.

Adding some race categories to the interests would perhaps make it feel less personal than someone writing in their profile:

"NO BLACKS. THEY ARE RUDE, INSULT ME, AND DON'T EAT PUSSY ""

Meeting the wrong ones then if thats their status hahahs

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By *ensual -lover69Man  over a year ago

Blackburn


"Also agree, I’m only looking for Caucasian men but I get a lot of messages from other ethnicities! "

I'd be up for rimming you for sure xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Totally agree, it's easier relating on here if you know the preference of whoever you find attractive. Swinging should be of varieties of option.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Better filters based on people’s preference has been sought for ages. It doesn’t discriminate as they would have been rejected anyway?

Is this why it hasn’t been put in place? For fear of being accused of discrimination?..

I would guess they’re more worried of losing the custom of those likely to be not searched for. "

On the gay apps there was huge pressure to remove ethnicity filters, with those vocal people accusing discrimination otherwise. It is the only thing that can no longer be filtered. If it had happened there, matter of time before the rest of apps and sites get the same pressure. I do not agree with this political correctness when it comes to sex and dating, dangerous ground.

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By *hocCock1Man  over a year ago

Hampshire

Definitely a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected. "

Some time i feel it is absurd, if someone mentioned they like size and girth, stamina, communication ability so on so forth, that make some sense to me, but can't fathom how colour plays pivtol role? I am not here to judge just trying to find the logic.

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By *hocCock1Man  over a year ago

Hampshire


"This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected.

Some time i feel it is absurd, if someone mentioned they like size and girth, stamina, communication ability so on so forth, that make some sense to me, but can't fathom how colour plays pivtol role? I am not here to judge just trying to find the logic. "

It's just preference is all, we can't all like the same type,color height etc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected.

Some time i feel it is absurd, if someone mentioned they like size and girth, stamina, communication ability so on so forth, that make some sense to me, but can't fathom how colour plays pivtol role? I am not here to judge just trying to find the logic.

Thats because it is not your preference. There is logic to everything. I put black because I have no desire to fuck white men.

Black is beautiful the colour contrast. Great lovers. That makes sense to have what you desire. Its a fantasy world. We choose black. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected.

Some time i feel it is absurd, if someone mentioned they like size and girth, stamina, communication ability so on so forth, that make some sense to me, but can't fathom how colour plays pivtol role? I am not here to judge just trying to find the logic. "

Because for some of us our kink is the contrast!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected.

Some time i feel it is absurd, if someone mentioned they like size and girth, stamina, communication ability so on so forth, that make some sense to me, but can't fathom how colour plays pivtol role? I am not here to judge just trying to find the logic.

Thats because it is not your preference. There is logic to everything. I put black because I have no desire to fuck white men.

Black is beautiful the colour contrast. Great lovers. That makes sense to have what you desire. Its a fantasy world. We choose black. "

People shouldn’t have to explain their preferences! I don’t ask a guy to explain every time he says he wants to meet BBWs or those with blonde hair or petite girls! I like the contrast too but in the opposite direction lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected.

Some time i feel it is absurd, if someone mentioned they like size and girth, stamina, communication ability so on so forth, that make some sense to me, but can't fathom how colour plays pivtol role? I am not here to judge just trying to find the logic.

Because for some of us our kink is the contrast!"

Thanks for adding your view, sure colour add contrast, however according to psychology, red is associated with passion and eroticism, pink is sexy as per man, these are just contrast and increase kink. But in general perception people are behind black or snow white doesnt add up to my knowledge, that being said i am not convinced.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected.

Some time i feel it is absurd, if someone mentioned they like size and girth, stamina, communication ability so on so forth, that make some sense to me, but can't fathom how colour plays pivtol role? I am not here to judge just trying to find the logic.

Because for some of us our kink is the contrast!

Thanks for adding your view, sure colour add contrast, however according to psychology, red is associated with passion and eroticism, pink is sexy as per man, these are just contrast and increase kink. But in general perception people are behind black or snow white doesnt add up to my knowledge, that being said i am not convinced. "

No one is trying to convince you . Its who we choose. If thats your opinion then fine. But my choice is my choice and Black is my choice as every other person who loves black. But if you feel you need to voice your opinion its freedom of speech so crack on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected.

Some time i feel it is absurd, if someone mentioned they like size and girth, stamina, communication ability so on so forth, that make some sense to me, but can't fathom how colour plays pivtol role? I am not here to judge just trying to find the logic.

Because for some of us our kink is the contrast!

Thanks for adding your view, sure colour add contrast, however according to psychology, red is associated with passion and eroticism, pink is sexy as per man, these are just contrast and increase kink. But in general perception people are behind black or snow white doesnt add up to my knowledge, that being said i am not convinced.

No one is trying to convince you . Its who we choose. If thats your opinion then fine. But my choice is my choice and Black is my choice as every other person who loves black. But if you feel you need to voice your opinion its freedom of speech so crack on"

Thanks for not trying to convince me, however is there rationale behind choice or just whim, if it is latter one than i am convinced.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected.

Some time i feel it is absurd, if someone mentioned they like size and girth, stamina, communication ability so on so forth, that make some sense to me, but can't fathom how colour plays pivtol role? I am not here to judge just trying to find the logic.

Because for some of us our kink is the contrast!

Thanks for adding your view, sure colour add contrast, however according to psychology, red is associated with passion and eroticism, pink is sexy as per man, these are just contrast and increase kink. But in general perception people are behind black or snow white doesnt add up to my knowledge, that being said i am not convinced.

No one is trying to convince you . Its who we choose. If thats your opinion then fine. But my choice is my choice and Black is my choice as every other person who loves black. But if you feel you need to voice your opinion its freedom of speech so crack on

Thanks for not trying to convince me, however is there rationale behind choice or just whim, if it is latter one than i am convinced. "

A whim is something you do on the spare of the moment. A choice and a preference is having a black partner for 4 years and enjoying that person and not wishing to turn back. Simple really. A choice not a whim

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By *isssexysensualityCouple  over a year ago

Harrow


"This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected.

Some time i feel it is absurd, if someone mentioned they like size and girth, stamina, communication ability so on so forth, that make some sense to me, but can't fathom how colour plays pivtol role? I am not here to judge just trying to find the logic.

Because for some of us our kink is the contrast!"

Don't forget Asians, some are pretty light too, and Black albinos. And on the flip side I don't see too many white women seeking dark skin Indian/Sri Lankans along with their BBC hunting. But yeah, I'm sure there are colour contrast fetish reasons too.

That said there are a lot of reasons.

For X minority:

Colour contrast

Physical contrast (particularly for those men/women with significant Sub-Saharan ancestry)

Social status contrast (e. g. The Black/white socio-economic dichotomy in Western countries)

Exotic contrast (every biological organism likes to try something different. Evolution)

Against X minority: (applies almost exclusively to the males)

Colour difference uncomfortable

Physical difference uncomfortable

Social-economic/cultural issues

General difference uncomfortable

Some may be based on a combination of bad experiences, stereotypes and to some extent objective reality.

It's a range, but generally if people are anti something. It's usually due to bad experiences of socio-economic/cultural nature than anything inherent to a particular racial group. Also the Media is a powerful tool that influences us all.

Anyway. Getting back to the original topic, which is easier to talk about.

The skin colour gives me an idea.

Fabs could make every physical attribute searchable. From skin colour to eye colour, body proportions, cock size.

Btw, with all this data. Does fabs use the data for anything. A la pornhub's yearly statistics updates. The views/friends/verifications/fabbed images (with tags) would likely yield some fascinating social insights that other population surveys would struggle to capture. Just a thought for the admin...

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By *isssexysensualityCouple  over a year ago

Harrow

Would be cool if you could search for e. g. Pics/videos with Asian woman/couple female height 5', body: slim, Black male height 6', skin colour: Pitch Black.

And for people in general to seek out whatever kink contrast/sameness/random fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This has probably been asked before but wouldn’t it be easier to have a box to tick for the type of person you’re looking for?

Lots of profiles I look on but then see they are looking for black or mixed race only. If there was a box to tick like there is for ‘not looking for men’ then only the people in their criteria would be able to view..

And would make it easier for us not in the categories selected.

Some time i feel it is absurd, if someone mentioned they like size and girth, stamina, communication ability so on so forth, that make some sense to me, but can't fathom how colour plays pivtol role? I am not here to judge just trying to find the logic.

Because for some of us our kink is the contrast!

Don't forget Asians, some are pretty light too, and Black albinos. And on the flip side I don't see too many white women seeking dark skin Indian/Sri Lankans along with their BBC hunting. But yeah, I'm sure there are colour contrast fetish reasons too.

That said there are a lot of reasons.

For X minority:

Colour contrast

Physical contrast (particularly for those men/women with significant Sub-Saharan ancestry)

Social status contrast (e. g. The Black/white socio-economic dichotomy in Western countries)

Exotic contrast (every biological organism likes to try something different. Evolution)

Against X minority: (applies almost exclusively to the males)

Colour difference uncomfortable

Physical difference uncomfortable

Social-economic/cultural issues

General difference uncomfortable

Some may be based on a combination of bad experiences, stereotypes and to some extent objective reality.

It's a range, but generally if people are anti something. It's usually due to bad experiences of socio-economic/cultural nature than anything inherent to a particular racial group. Also the Media is a powerful tool that influences us all.

Anyway. Getting back to the original topic, which is easier to talk about.

The skin colour gives me an idea.

Fabs could make every physical attribute searchable. From skin colour to eye colour, body proportions, cock size.

Btw, with all this data. Does fabs use the data for anything. A la pornhub's yearly statistics updates. The views/friends/verifications/fabbed images (with tags) would likely yield some fascinating social insights that other population surveys would struggle to capture. Just a thought for the admin..."

Thanks misssensuality, you have really elucidate nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Discrimination has been a big issue with everything black live matter and all that it's gone stupid Web sites can't be seen putting anything in place that can be seen as discrimination like no white men, no bbws it's not pc what you like is up to you but they have to be seen to be above all that.

Soon everyone will have to avoid saying things like no white men and black men only because it is decriminalisation

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *9alMan  over a year ago

Bridgend

I think in time this sort of discussion will be seen to be as unacceptable as " "No blacks no Irish no dogs" signs were in the past .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think in time this sort of discussion will be seen to be as unacceptable as " "No blacks no Irish no dogs" signs were in the past . "
I think you find the time is now you cant say anything without someone taking offence or taking it to far

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think in time this sort of discussion will be seen to be as unacceptable as " "No blacks no Irish no dogs" signs were in the past . I think you find the time is now you cant say anything without someone taking offence or taking it to far

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Yes you're probably correct "I think you find the time is now you cant say anything without someone taking offence"

I personally don't have a preference for ethnicity...

I maybe be Irish but I actually prefer other nationalities than my own.

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