"how about being able to specify, and search for others that would like to find a fwb?"
What happens though if you find someone who wants to be a fwb... Then you get attached because they end up being too good a "friend" with benefits... 
Rhetorical question... But I do struggle though. I find sex is SO much better with a regular partner. But by then you know more about them, get to enjoy their company, the sex becomes absolutely amazing.. 
I know there are many more things worse to worry about tho x |
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"how about being able to specify, and search for others that would like to find a fwb?
What happens though if you find someone who wants to be a fwb... Then you get attached because they end up being too good a "friend" with benefits...
Rhetorical question... But I do struggle though. I find sex is SO much better with a regular partner. But by then you know more about them, get to enjoy their company, the sex becomes absolutely amazing..
I know there are many more things worse to worry about tho x"
This is exactly what happened to me. Sex was amazing and then it became more amazing as the feelings I had developed. Lines that were drawn became harder and harder to adhere to, until one day it was no more. Lesson learnt. |
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"how about being able to specify, and search for others that would like to find a fwb?
What happens though if you find someone who wants to be a fwb... Then you get attached because they end up being too good a "friend" with benefits...
Rhetorical question... But I do struggle though. I find sex is SO much better with a regular partner. But by then you know more about them, get to enjoy their company, the sex becomes absolutely amazing..
I know there are many more things worse to worry about tho x This is exactly what happened to me. Sex was amazing and then it became more amazing as the feelings I had developed. Lines that were drawn became harder and harder to adhere to, until one day it was no more. Lesson learnt. "
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The most common comment though is that they don't want a relationship, they like what they've got right now.....
But...
That's all the best bits that have led to the amazing sex..! |
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In my experience its always the men that end up wanting more. The sex becomes amazing because we meet often, then they say we may as well just be a couple as we practically are. I'm then back here searching for someone else as I don't want more. |
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By *aucy88Woman
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In my experience its always the men that end up wanting more. The sex becomes amazing because we meet often, then they say we may as well just be a couple as we practically are. I'm then back here searching for someone else as I don't want more.
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Think its hard you need the connection to make it more but you need to be prepared and ready to handle the feelings that come with the connection yes makes for good sex but also need to respect the wishes of the others involved. Its a fine line one I've never had a problem with... |
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