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Disappearing members.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Perhaps it's me, but a few women on here reply to my messages, we get on well, then she disappears, never to be seen on the site again.
Are they bots? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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happens a lot its time wasters |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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On a year. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
If the mails have gone too I am guessing they just left. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has happened to us about four times in 3 months |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's hard enough to get a reply on here, so when you do, then to just see their absence grow on their status, it really is frustrating. |
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Not bots, usually ppl who for whatever reason decide to leave the site.
I would recommend not reading too much into any message exchanges unless you know the individuals for real.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, men |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't object to them leaving, but a short note explaining would be nice. |
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"I don't object to them leaving, but a short note explaining would be nice. "
People have busy lives away from here. They don't owe you an explanation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A simple 'No thanks' would be nice. It's easy for the female members to reply like you have done, when you don't have to go looking for replies. It's different for the men, which explains why some get angry on here. |
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Don't be too naive. Plenty of fake profiles, either men pretending to be women, but also people trying to hook you into signing up for other dodgy dating/sex sites. |
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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago
Arse end of the universe |
Have they actually gone or have they blocked you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A simple 'No thanks' would be nice. It's easy for the female members to reply like you have done, when you don't have to go looking for replies. It's different for the men, which explains why some get angry on here. "
Women receive so many messages on here every day, we have our real lives to live and don't owe strangers a reply or even an acknowledgement. Anyone getting angry that a stranger hasn't replied to them has issues, often women can tell these kind of men from a mile away which might explain why they stop the communication. Also often men take a polite "thanks but no thanks" as an indication that you are indeed interested as you took the time to reply |
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"I don't object to them leaving, but a short note explaining would be nice. "
You're expecting too much from Fab then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m pleased to say my member stays and still stands proud on command  |
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"which explains why some get angry on here. "
No it doesn't. Angry men are just that, angry entitled horrible men, and they deserve to be ignored |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has happened to us all lol
I suspect a lot of these people join up when they've had a bit to drink but after sobering up freak out and leave
Xxx |
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"Has happened to us all lol
I suspect a lot of these people join up when they've had a bit to drink but after sobering up freak out and leave
Xxx"
January is looming too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has happened to us all lol
I suspect a lot of these people join up when they've had a bit to drink but after sobering up freak out and leave
Xxx
January is looming too "
Oh god yeah when they sober up after Christmas... |
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"Oh god yeah when they sober up after Christmas... "
And think signing up will guarantee they get laid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh god yeah when they sober up after Christmas...
And think signing up will guarantee they get laid "
You mean it doesn't? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh god yeah when they sober up after Christmas...
And think signing up will guarantee they get laid "
Wait! There’s no guarantee? |
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Not just women men are the same and seems mostly timewasters who seem to get off on messing people about |
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pic collectors or time wasters! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A simple 'No thanks' would be nice. It's easy for the female members to reply like you have done, when you don't have to go looking for replies. It's different for the men, which explains why some get angry on here.
Women receive so many messages on here every day, we have our real lives to live and don't owe strangers a reply or even an acknowledgement. Anyone getting angry that a stranger hasn't replied to them has issues, often women can tell these kind of men from a mile away which might explain why they stop the communication. Also often men take a polite "thanks but no thanks" as an indication that you are indeed interested as you took the time to reply "
I agree, when we politely decline usually because the sender hasn't bothered to read our profile the sender often keeps messaging or sends petulant responses. We then end up blocking. Far easier if people go with the guidelines- no reply = not interested! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A simple 'No thanks' would be nice. It's easy for the female members to reply like you have done, when you don't have to go looking for replies. It's different for the men, which explains why some get angry on here.
Women receive so many messages on here every day, we have our real lives to live and don't owe strangers a reply or even an acknowledgement. Anyone getting angry that a stranger hasn't replied to them has issues, often women can tell these kind of men from a mile away which might explain why they stop the communication. Also often men take a polite "thanks but no thanks" as an indication that you are indeed interested as you took the time to reply "
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