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Can only send one message before the person opens it
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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Do we think this could work? Say if someone sends me a message they can’t send another one until I’ve opened it. Thought it would be a good way to stop the spam ones and give everyone a more fair chance of getting their message seen 🤔 |
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It could work, literally blocking the person from sending another.
This should improve the quality of messages, knowing you basically have one initial chance to make an impression.
What would be the suggestion be should the message be deleted without being read? |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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It could work but don't forget that some women want the repeated messages. Ego inflating or whatever it is. Then they get off on the amount of mail they have.
The easiest way is to set your messages to viewing friends only and then you don't have to worry about the other lots. |
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"It could work but don't forget that some women want the repeated messages. Ego inflating or whatever it is. Then they get off on the amount of mail they have.
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I hardly see that as a positive good/thing, and certainly not a good reason for a change. |
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"Just out of interest, if you are not interested, do you not block the profile?"
They may do and I usually attempt to remember to do it but this scenario is likely to relate to those who haven't got around to seeing the message yet, before the sender sends even more. It's impossible for them to have been even studied as a potential partner and blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Just out of interest, if you are not interested, do you not block the profile?
They may do and I usually attempt to remember to do it but this scenario is likely to relate to those who haven't got around to seeing the message yet, before the sender sends even more. It's impossible for them to have been even studied as a potential partner and blocked. "
Exactly my point yeah it’s not to block people it just makes things a bit fairer for the patient people who send the one message and end up not getting read |
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It would be good as an optional setting We don't mind people sending a follow up message if we haven't opened their previous one, we've had good meets with people who's initial message had gotten buried and it can take a ridiculous amount of time to go through them, so a second follow up message from someone who has read our profile, who has similar interests isnt always a bad thing.
We just block people who send message after message. The ones who repeatedly send a whole script detailing what they want to do, like as if it's actually going to happen and we are just going to message straight back delighted that some bloke wants a wank. "I'll let you suck my cock" is a personal favourite, as a first message, then continue with various things as if people on fab are sat around waiting for any man who wants his dick sucking.
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