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By *bi HaiveMan 49 weeks ago
Cheeseville, Somerset |
You're in the right place to make suggestions and this is a common one thats mentioned.
My personal take on it though is that because body shape is self defined, you're reliant on what words people use to describe themselves. There's no rigid definitions for 'average', 'curvy', 'fabulous' and even 'athletic' is open to opinion - both long distance runners and shot putters are athletes after all 🤷♂️. Likewise 'large' could refer to height as much as body size.
I've always felt the most useful tools are clear photos, so as long as you give people a clear idea you're on the right track. Sure, it means you have to spend a few seconds viewing profiles but thats not a bad thing in my mind as even people who's bodies may match your preferences may be totally incompatible based on other factors visible in images and profile text. |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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This is been requested numerous times over the years and is always ignored.
It should be a simple thing to implement/filter, the data is already collected on the profile! |
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And I still don’t think I will ever get fabbed - either the ratios or my age mean I am competing with so many people.
I give detailed (perhaps too detailed) messages to events or statuses
I send women respectful messages
I used to just mostly get deleted, changed my profile and now I get read but rarely a reply
Can you kinder people please help me out with my profile
Or just say “delete your account you ugly old cunt” - I don’t mind if I get negative feedback so long as I can work on it , or accept it and stop spending so much time on here |
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