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If you could make this website better, what would you like added or removed?
For example:
Correct me if im wrong but I think watersport pics and videos should be allowed or atleast able to access on the category page.
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"If you could make this website better, what would you like added or removed?
For example:
Correct me if im wrong but I think watersport pics and videos should be allowed or atleast able to access on the category page.
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The addition of a "will host" option would help clear up the accommodate option. We'll host but nobody is staying overnight. |
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By *lan157Man 36 weeks ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
"Comments under pics optional on or off
Its been brought up many times and the general consensus is no thanks.
To be fair, a few people on a forum thread is not really a general consensus"
The day that comments are published under photos is the day it stops being a swingers site and turns into something else . |
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"Comments under pics optional on or off
Its been brought up many times and the general consensus is no thanks.
To be fair, a few people on a forum thread is not really a general consensus
The day that comments are published under photos is the day it stops being a swingers site and turns into something else . "
Exactly this. |
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"Comments under pics optional on or off
Its been brought up many times and the general consensus is no thanks.
To be fair, a few people on a forum thread is not really a general consensus
The day that comments are published under photos is the day it stops being a swingers site and turns into something else . "
If we're honest, it must be that already for a great many people who don't have much luck with meets.
You could argue that a paid membership grants you much better benefits when it comes to photo/video viewing (browsing by favourite category on a steady stream of new content)
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actual matchmaking (if you have no profile visitors, knowing who's viewed your profile is of no value to you).
Just a different way to frame it |
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By *ugby 123Couple 36 weeks ago
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"Comments under pics optional on or off
Its been brought up many times and the general consensus is no thanks.
To be fair, a few people on a forum thread is not really a general consensus
The day that comments are published under photos is the day it stops being a swingers site and turns into something else .
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To be clear, I don't have a view one way or another and couldn't implement any suggestions anyway.
I was just saying that a few people saying on a forum thread that they don't like a suggestion is not really a general consensus |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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Lots more categories for male pics.
But by far, the thing is like the most is that with the search results, being able to see if you have a note saved for the individual.
I use the notes always to keep a note of who is rude or horrible here.
If I could automatically see who has a note against them, I wouldn’t spend the time looking at their profile when they appear in a search. |
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A much better verification system.
This site now has way too many profiles that pop up and down because they don't have to verify themselves.
Every single profile should have to verify themselves to stop the on off of those fake profiles who come on, get chatting then want you to go to admire or only or another paying site to chat etc etc.
So many say about dont offer me money, but its because there are now so many fakes that are trying to take you to this.
Also the verification should be strengthened so as men cant sign up as women and visa versa.
That was all off the cuff and not fully thought through but im sure I have a few other things as I've been on and off here for 12 yrs and my god its changed, its also got very lapse and its not what it used to be for many reasons, that I csnt think of right this very moment... but I will maybe haha |
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"A much better verification system.
This site now has way too many profiles that pop up and down because they don't have to verify themselves.
Every single profile should have to verify themselves to stop the on off of those fake profiles who come on, get chatting then want you to go to admire or only or another paying site to chat etc etc.
So many say about dont offer me money, but its because there are now so many fakes that are trying to take you to this.
Also the verification should be strengthened so as men cant sign up as women and visa versa.
That was all off the cuff and not fully thought through but im sure I have a few other things as I've been on and off here for 12 yrs and my god its changed, its also got very lapse and its not what it used to be for many reasons, that I csnt think of right this very moment... but I will maybe haha"
I would actually like an additional level of verification for people who are willing to prove their real identity to the site. Maybe give them a different colour profile/badge that shows they are have gone through that enhanced verification. You obviously don’t have to show the actual identity on your profile but people will know this person is real. I think you will find genuine people will start to use it. |
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"A much better verification system.
This site now has way too many profiles that pop up and down because they don't have to verify themselves.
Every single profile should have to verify themselves to stop the on off of those fake profiles who come on, get chatting then want you to go to admire or only or another paying site to chat etc etc.
So many say about dont offer me money, but its because there are now so many fakes that are trying to take you to this.
Also the verification should be strengthened so as men cant sign up as women and visa versa.
That was all off the cuff and not fully thought through but im sure I have a few other things as I've been on and off here for 12 yrs and my god its changed, its also got very lapse and its not what it used to be for many reasons, that I csnt think of right this very moment... but I will maybe haha
I would actually like an additional level of verification for people who are willing to prove their real identity to the site. Maybe give them a different colour profile/badge that shows they are have gone through that enhanced verification. You obviously don’t have to show the actual identity on your profile but people will know this person is real. I think you will find genuine people will start to use it."
I'm genuine but there is no way I'd be sending identification information to a swingers site. |
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Make the horribly difficult job that people have of trying to search and filter through the single men here. As there are so very many men in Fab, making it simpler to find the right ones from amongst them, is a no brainer 
When we know what our tastes and preferences are, the site should make it much easier to search and filter for the type of people who we know that we want! The site has the data, that users have filled in - but the very people who the site needs are forced to look through thousands of single men, just because Fab forces us to, as our searches don't let us filter for things like body type, or whatever women, couples etc want to find.
Ideally, Fab would let us search and filter by every data field that users have filled in |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Incognito mode. think it's would be a great idea if we could turn off the little green light whenever we want so others wouldn't expect us to be ready to shag the whole site just bc we're online. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Comments under pics optional on or off
Its been brought up many times and the general consensus is no thanks. "
If something is optional it's available for those that want it; for those that don't it doesn't make any difference to them.
Saying no is you saying I don't want that feature so it shouldn't be available to anyone that does.
Just our observation but almost as many people complain about the lack of updates as those that support a site that still says "new" against features implemented over 5yrs ago.
If Fab was being launched today would it be with this look and feel or a bit more modern? Answers on a postcard.
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"If you could make this website better, what would you like added or removed?
For example:
Correct me if im wrong but I think watersport pics and videos should be allowed or atleast able to access on the category page.
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Ban me from the forums would definitely be a step in the right direction I feel !
Really ? No water sports pics allowed that’s weird with the videos on here |
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By *piceyMan 34 weeks ago
your marital bed given the chance |
I would have embraced the clubs. Given the legal clubs with SEV licenses a platform to promote and they have a different FAB membership.
That in turn, would have given a really good interaction to those attendees and it would have naturally grown.
As clubs have been discouraged, so has the individuals/attendees of those clubs so it appears the FAB traffic has declined.
Of course, FAB still earns a decent whack, so there's no need to update/improve is seemingly the reality. |
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By *ugby 123Couple 34 weeks ago
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As clubs have been discouraged,
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Clubs are not discouraged, they are allowed to advertise their events on site ( as long as they follow the rules of course )and their reviews are shown in the club section
Certain types of events are not allowed though |
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By *ugby 123Couple 34 weeks ago
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Every single profile should have to verify themselves to stop the on off of those fake profiles who come on, get chatting then want you to go to admire or only or another paying site to chat etc etc.
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People who break the rules this way have been known to be photo verified too, a PV alone won't stop them breaking rules this way
If you can report any profiles doing this please do as you are helping Admin |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Stop events hosts using another of their profiles to boost events or comment "can i be added?" Or "looking forward to this" When its their event, then they reply "cant wait to see you" |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Not sure if you can even do this. Profiles are two a penny.
I guess any organiser can do this. But the reality is if they promote an event and hardly any one turns up they're just going to make it more difficult to get people to attend next time.
Hardly think it's worth worrying about. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Bring back the subject title box when sending a message.
Sounds silly but I got so much more reaction from women and couples when they could see I'd read their profile and but their subject line in, or their second hidden subject line.
It's a simple way of letting people filter people out from those who allegedly read the profile, literally a CTRL F as one woman told me last time I was on.
Saves requesting ID verification or anything.
Also, minimum character count of profiles before they can message anyone or get verified?
If you're on this site I'm sure you can come up with 300 words, rather than, "just having a look".
Like that gives people nothing to prompt them with an initial message |
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Put a decent chat interphase in where people can't constantly interrupt while you type and one where the user you are chatting too doesn't disappear behind a new one that is interrupting your thread. |
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By *ugby 123Couple 34 weeks ago
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"Stop events hosts using another of their profiles to boost events or comment "can i be added?" Or "looking forward to this" When its their event, then they reply "cant wait to see you" "
Do you mean on threads? If you think hosts are using multiple profiles to do this then please report so it can be looked at. |
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"WE WANT ITALICS
WE WANT ITALICS!
WE WANT ITALICS!!
Tell us how you really feel 
Why do we want italics?"
I'd like it for emphasis occasionally. All caps is aggressive and ** gives me 90s leetspeek vibes. |
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Better Regions when you search rather than north east or northwest. So Cheshire. Yorkshire. Teeside etc etc this would make things simpler to navigate finding and posting meets.
Brits don’t typically like travelling too far for meets as in time taken in York a mile can take over half an hour to drive. Such a pain in the butt. So maybe a filter that can do a travel time filter would be awesome too. |
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"If you could make this website better, what would you like added or removed?
For example:
Correct me if im wrong but I think watersport pics and videos should be allowed or atleast able to access on the category page.
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You're wrong as that would be illegal |
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Two for me
As soon as somebody mentioned Telegram or Whatsapp in a public forum to try and take people off site - instant ban. DMs with people arranging meet is fine
Gifs - I know they will be annoying as fuck, but sometimes somebody just needs a big applause gif |
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"Two for me
As soon as somebody mentioned Telegram or Whatsapp in a public forum to try and take people off site - instant ban. DMs with people arranging meet is fine
Gifs - I know they will be annoying as fuck, but sometimes somebody just needs a big applause gif"
It's not allowed to mention Telegram, WhatsApp etc with the intention of taking people off site but we can miss the threads. If anyone sees them it helps if they report |
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I'd really like to know the age range and M/F/MF etc preference people are seeking, shown as part of their posts in the forum.
If someone sounds interesting in what they say/their views, like as not I'll take a peek to see more and it's often pointless.
As at least one other person has said, you shouldn't be able to leave your ager preferences as 18-99 either.  |
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By *lan157Man 32 weeks ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
"Here's an idea. If you could upload a few longer videos it could be fun. Say upto 10 minutes, even if restricted to 1 every 3 months. We could properly show off our talents that way."
I think there are other websites that do that. Is this not a swingers site? . Giving it more video and voyeur focus could change it's dynamic undesirably. |
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"If you could make this website better, what would you like added or removed?
For example:
Correct me if im wrong but I think watersport pics and videos should be allowed or atleast able to access on the category page.
You're wrong as that would be illegal "
Except it’s not illegal so you’re wrong law was updated in 2019 |
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"Here's an idea. If you could upload a few longer videos it could be fun. Say upto 10 minutes, even if restricted to 1 every 3 months. We could properly show off our talents that way.
I think there are other websites that do that. Is this not a swingers site? . Giving it more video and voyeur focus could change it's dynamic undesirably. "
I think you'll find we're already way beyond that. Have you seen how many self tittilators are on here these days? |
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By *rriusMan 32 weeks ago
Andover |
"A much better verification system.
This site now has way too many profiles that pop up and down because they don't have to verify themselves.
Every single profile should have to verify themselves to stop the on off of those fake profiles who come on, get chatting then want you to go to admire or only or another paying site to chat etc etc.
So many say about dont offer me money, but its because there are now so many fakes that are trying to take you to this.
Also the verification should be strengthened so as men cant sign up as women and visa versa.
That was all off the cuff and not fully thought through but im sure I have a few other things as I've been on and off here for 12 yrs and my god its changed, its also got very lapse and its not what it used to be for many reasons, that I csnt think of right this very moment... but I will maybe haha
I would actually like an additional level of verification for people who are willing to prove their real identity to the site. Maybe give them a different colour profile/badge that shows they are have gone through that enhanced verification. You obviously don’t have to show the actual identity on your profile but people will know this person is real. I think you will find genuine people will start to use it."
I agree with all of this |
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"If you could make this website better, what would you like added or removed?
For example:
Correct me if im wrong but I think watersport pics and videos should be allowed or atleast able to access on the category page.
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It seems strange but you can categorise photos as "squirting" but if you post a squirting photo it's deleted as too dirty.
What's all that about? |
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By *errywildWoman 32 weeks ago
Close, watch your back! |
More filters, more privacy settings. it already exists for messaging but I would welcome this for viewing my photos, to be able to choose who can view my gallery, or more like who cannot. |
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By *atinagirlWoman 32 weeks ago
Over The Rainbow Next to the Pot of Gold |
"To be able to set my profile to appear offline, so many messages when all i want to do is browse the forums
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I’d like this option also. The amount of grief I get from ppl seeing I’m online and not reading their messages they think I’m ghosting them when really I’m either chatting in the forums or in the chat rooms so an offline button would be good |
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"If you could make this website better, what would you like added or removed?
For example:
Correct me if im wrong but I think watersport pics and videos should be allowed or atleast able to access on the category page.
The addition of a "will host" option would help clear up the accommodate option. We'll host but nobody is staying overnight."
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By *oradMan 31 weeks ago
South Central Dublin |
A little outside the box... but maybe A block on new a/cs being able to receive more than a dozen messages for the first three days unless gold/silver. The exception being replies to any messages they send.
I say this only semi-seriously as a contraceptive cure to the tsunami of day one messages women get in their first few days, something driving many off the site.
Its not the ideal solution, but there is a serious spam problem. And yes we are all adults etc etc, but its so excessive. |
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I think I would add a banner on peoples profile in big red outline saying you cannot message this person. The amount of times I’ve spent 5/10 mins reading a massive account to only go to message them and it says you can not message this person |
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"A little outside the box... but maybe A block on new a/cs being able to receive more than a dozen messages for the first three days unless gold/silver. The exception being replies to any messages they send."
Having witnessed this, I'd go even further. I think new users should have filters turned on by default, and have to turn them off when they're ready.
Of course, another option would be to remove the ability to search for new profiles. I don't think that's a particularly helpful function, and causes a lot of problems. |
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A maybe delete your account or hide it at least after a set period , maybe 6 months at least if not been accessed,there’s a possibility people who are in charge of account,god forbid should pass,there profile left on forever,I know I wouldn’t want ours left on and only I,,male is in charge,login etc, I’m pretty sure a lot of folk wouldn’t want there partner left on here without access ,,anyway there’s a thought for you  |
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"We get to see people's hotlist "
Oh that would be interesting or even if you got a notification if you have hotlisted each other.
Another one I'd like is mainly for the stories and fantasies forum, but to filter a thread to the authors comment only |
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Not to sure that the Regions work.
Would love an option to set up a custom region where I can include postcodes that are easiest to travel to from house.
For example I would include those in NW, W London, Surrey, Berkshire, Buckinghamshire and Oxfordshire. |
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The forums would be a lot easier to read if people could react to posts without adding a reply to the thread.
Would love to give a like or a thumbs up, without having to do so by adding a new post to thread |
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