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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?"

This site is for everyone and it would be unfair to have singles left out. If you don’t want to be contacted by singles just place a msg filter on.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Set your message filters to block single men an unverified profiles. The forums are for every one and you can't choose who responds.

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

It great when such complicated problems have such a simple fix.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

But singles would only be left out of the couples page, not the whole forum. To compensate, there could be a singles only page, too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?

This site is for everyone and it would be unfair to have singles left out. If you don’t want to be contacted by singles just place a msg filter on. "

It’s not just being contacted by single men, it’s the thought of them looking at everything? We find it a bit creepy, to be honest, and are reluctant to post on forum topics or add photos because of it. We have attended clubs, but always go on couples only nights. It would be nice to have the same choice on FS?

We’ll adjust our filters if we can work out how, but we are new so it might take a while.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?

This site is for everyone and it would be unfair to have singles left out. If you don’t want to be contacted by singles just place a msg filter on.

It’s not just being contacted by single men, it’s the thought of them looking at everything? We find it a bit creepy, to be honest, and are reluctant to post on forum topics or add photos because of it. We have attended clubs, but always go on couples only nights. It would be nice to have the same choice on FS?

We’ll adjust our filters if we can work out how, but we are new so it might take a while."

Maybe swinging isn’t for you.

Another option is keep all your photos private and only accept friends that are couples.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?"

Fab doesn't need a couples page, what a ridiculous idea. You have been on here 2 weeks and want the site changed to suit you!!

Use your message filters or leave Fab and join a site that's just for couples.

Also half the couple's profiles are just men anyway or men whose females are no longer playing, so a fat lot of good a couples only page will be to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?

This site is for everyone and it would be unfair to have singles left out. If you don’t want to be contacted by singles just place a msg filter on.

It’s not just being contacted by single men, it’s the thought of them looking at everything? We find it a bit creepy, to be honest, and are reluctant to post on forum topics or add photos because of it. We have attended clubs, but always go on couples only nights. It would be nice to have the same choice on FS?

We’ll adjust our filters if we can work out how, but we are new so it might take a while.

Maybe swinging isn’t for you.

Another option is keep all your photos private and only accept friends that are couples. "

Mmm, maybe not....although there should be enough room for whatever people are comfortable with? I know that there are lots of couples who feel uncomfortable about single males at clubs, that’s why they stick to couples only nights. Why can’t they/we be afforded the same choice on FS? Just a question, that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?

Fab doesn't need a couples page, what a ridiculous idea. You have been on here 2 weeks and want the site changed to suit you!!

Use your message filters or leave Fab and join a site that's just for couples.

Also half the couple's profiles are just men anyway or men whose females are no longer playing, so a fat lot of good a couples only page will be to you.

"

Oh right. We should leave then, if that’s the case. Was just putting the feelers out, as newbies. Perhaps the couples that have responded on this thread are just single males? Who would know?

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?

This site is for everyone and it would be unfair to have singles left out. If you don’t want to be contacted by singles just place a msg filter on.

It’s not just being contacted by single men, it’s the thought of them looking at everything? We find it a bit creepy, to be honest, and are reluctant to post on forum topics or add photos because of it. We have attended clubs, but always go on couples only nights. It would be nice to have the same choice on FS?

We’ll adjust our filters if we can work out how, but we are new so it might take a while."

Presumably having the male half of a couple looking at your pictures is also creepy?

You might not know that a lot of people browse in private, so you have no idea who's looking at your profile half the time.

As has been said already, Fab is an inclusive site, all are welcome regardless of gender and sexual persuasion.

You could always set your filters and hide your profile and do your own searching? That may be a more comfortable position for you until you're a little more relaxed around the forums.

Hope that helps.....

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo

This section is for suggestions, telling people to leave because they suggest something isn't very helpful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?

This site is for everyone and it would be unfair to have singles left out. If you don’t want to be contacted by singles just place a msg filter on.

It’s not just being contacted by single men, it’s the thought of them looking at everything? We find it a bit creepy, to be honest, and are reluctant to post on forum topics or add photos because of it. We have attended clubs, but always go on couples only nights. It would be nice to have the same choice on FS?

We’ll adjust our filters if we can work out how, but we are new so it might take a while.

Presumably having the male half of a couple looking at your pictures is also creepy?

You might not know that a lot of people browse in private, so you have no idea who's looking at your profile half the time.

As has been said already, Fab is an inclusive site, all are welcome regardless of gender and sexual persuasion.

You could always set your filters and hide your profile and do your own searching? That may be a more comfortable position for you until you're a little more relaxed around the forums.

Hope that helps....."

Yes, it does. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"This section is for suggestions, telling people to leave because they suggest something isn't very helpful. "

Thank you. That’s why we chose to post the question in this section.

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo

To the OP, even if there was a couples only forum to post in , unless it was a private forum then single men would still be able to see it.

If you are worried about single men looking at your pics or contacting you, set your filters to not get mail from them and save your pics to friends only is a good option

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"This section is for suggestions, telling people to leave because they suggest something isn't very helpful. "

Especially as they are new members and may not be familiar with Fab forums.....

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?

Fab doesn't need a couples page, what a ridiculous idea. You have been on here 2 weeks and want the site changed to suit you!!

Use your message filters or leave Fab and join a site that's just for couples.

Also half the couple's profiles are just men anyway or men whose females are no longer playing, so a fat lot of good a couples only page will be to you.

Oh right. We should leave then, if that’s the case. Was just putting the feelers out, as newbies. Perhaps the couples that have responded on this thread are just single males? Who would know?"

Well we're definitely a couple he's been trying to shake me off for years but I keep clinging on .

You won't be able to prevent men single or otherwise from looking at your profile. The suggestion of putting you photos into friends only is a good one. Maybe you could put a couple in public that you'd be happy for everyone to see.

When you say page what do you mean? A separate part of the forum?

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By *essica jamiesonWoman  over a year ago

edinburgh

It was just an idea she had! U sound so angry no need at all

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By *retty womanWoman  over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?

This site is for everyone and it would be unfair to have singles left out. If you don’t want to be contacted by singles just place a msg filter on.

It’s not just being contacted by single men, it’s the thought of them looking at everything? We find it a bit creepy, to be honest, and are reluctant to post on forum topics or add photos because of it. We have attended clubs, but always go on couples only nights. It would be nice to have the same choice on FS?

We’ll adjust our filters if we can work out how, but we are new so it might take a while."

Why is it creepy if single guys look at people's profile pics??

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Well done, you've found the filters OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Well done, you've found the filters OP. "

Yes, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?

This site is for everyone and it would be unfair to have singles left out. If you don’t want to be contacted by singles just place a msg filter on.

It’s not just being contacted by single men, it’s the thought of them looking at everything? We find it a bit creepy, to be honest, and are reluctant to post on forum topics or add photos because of it. We have attended clubs, but always go on couples only nights. It would be nice to have the same choice on FS?

We’ll adjust our filters if we can work out how, but we are new so it might take a while.

Why is it creepy if single guys look at people's profile pics??"

It’s just like the single males at clubs and spas, following and wanking over couples. That’s why we only ever do couples nights. Not saying they’re all like it, but a lot obviously are. You’ve just got to read the majority of posts on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?

Fab doesn't need a couples page, what a ridiculous idea. You have been on here 2 weeks and want the site changed to suit you!!

Use your message filters or leave Fab and join a site that's just for couples.

Also half the couple's profiles are just men anyway or men whose females are no longer playing, so a fat lot of good a couples only page will be to you.

Oh right. We should leave then, if that’s the case. Was just putting the feelers out, as newbies. Perhaps the couples that have responded on this thread are just single males? Who would know?

Well we're definitely a couple he's been trying to shake me off for years but I keep clinging on .

You won't be able to prevent men single or otherwise from looking at your profile. The suggestion of putting you photos into friends only is a good one. Maybe you could put a couple in public that you'd be happy for everyone to see.

When you say page what do you mean? A separate part of the forum? "

Good suggestions. Thank you. Yes, by couples page, we mean a couples section.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"This section is for suggestions, telling people to leave because they suggest something isn't very helpful.

Especially as they are new members and may not be familiar with Fab forums.....

"

Exactly! We’re stillfinding our feet and don’t know how it works here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ok let's assume that all men are creepy and follow you everywhere and wank over, so what about single women are they creepy too? Your reason for couples only room is flawed. So, do you guys go outside your house or stay home for ever, because those creepy single men are out everywhere...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ok let's assume that all men are creepy and follow you everywhere and wank over, so what about single women are they creepy too? Your reason for couples only room is flawed. So, do you guys go outside your house or stay home for ever, because those creepy single men are out everywhere... "

We’ve never seen single women following couples around wanking at clubs or spas?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This section is for suggestions, telling people to leave because they suggest something isn't very helpful. "

Well said. Maybe OP your idea is a good one and should be an option.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?

Fab doesn't need a couples page, what a ridiculous idea. You have been on here 2 weeks and want the site changed to suit you!!

Use your message filters or leave Fab and join a site that's just for couples.

Also half the couple's profiles are just men anyway or men whose females are no longer playing, so a fat lot of good a couples only page will be to you.

Oh right. We should leave then, if that’s the case. Was just putting the feelers out, as newbies. Perhaps the couples that have responded on this thread are just single males? Who would know?

Well we're definitely a couple he's been trying to shake me off for years but I keep clinging on .

You won't be able to prevent men single or otherwise from looking at your profile. The suggestion of putting you photos into friends only is a good one. Maybe you could put a couple in public that you'd be happy for everyone to see.

When you say page what do you mean? A separate part of the forum?

Good suggestions. Thank you. Yes, by couples page, we mean a couples section."

Then no single women either. Fairs fair.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ok let's assume that all men are creepy and follow you everywhere and wank over, so what about single women are they creepy too? Your reason for couples only room is flawed. So, do you guys go outside your house or stay home for ever, because those creepy single men are out everywhere...

We’ve never seen single women following couples around wanking at clubs or spas?"

So, why you said no singles if it is only men?, you do know there are single women in here don't you?.

If you say men following couples everywhere and wanking around, I am sure your other half was also single before you both got together, so you saying even he was following poor couple everywhere with cock in his hand?. Before you say, ur partner is not like that, so as many other men in here are not like what you described.

I don't mind couple having their own space in forum, like others who are against to it, but your reasoning behind this idea was cheap and it only degrads your character..

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"This section is for suggestions, telling people to leave because they suggest something isn't very helpful.

Especially as they are new members and may not be familiar with Fab forums.....

Exactly! We’re stillfinding our feet and don’t know how it works here."

Trial and error.

Don't be afraid to post or ask questions, no matter how daft you think it sounds.

Don't take it too seriously.

Develop a thick skin.

Maintain a sense of humour at all times.

Ignore the things that upset you, embrace the things that make your face do this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But singles would only be left out of the couples page, not the whole forum. To compensate, there could be a singles only page, too?"

That's very non inclusive ... I personally think that would be a bad idea on the forums.

Like others have said, use your filters

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ok let's assume that all men are creepy and follow you everywhere and wank over, so what about single women are they creepy too? Your reason for couples only room is flawed. So, do you guys go outside your house or stay home for ever, because those creepy single men are out everywhere...

We’ve never seen single women following couples around wanking at clubs or spas?

So, why you said no singles if it is only men?, you do know there are single women in here don't you?.

If you say men following couples everywhere and wanking around, I am sure your other half was also single before you both got together, so you saying even he was following poor couple everywhere with cock in his hand?. Before you say, ur partner is not like that, so as many other men in here are not like what you described.

I don't mind couple having their own space in forum, like others who are against to it, but your reasoning behind this idea was cheap and it only degrads your character.."

We’ve only ever been out as a couple.

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By *orticiaWoman  over a year ago

Wirral


"Ok let's assume that all men are creepy and follow you everywhere and wank over, so what about single women are they creepy too? Your reason for couples only room is flawed. So, do you guys go outside your house or stay home for ever, because those creepy single men are out everywhere...

We’ve never seen single women following couples around wanking at clubs or spas?

So, why you said no singles if it is only men?, you do know there are single women in here don't you?.

If you say men following couples everywhere and wanking around, I am sure your other half was also single before you both got together, so you saying even he was following poor couple everywhere with cock in his hand?. Before you say, ur partner is not like that, so as many other men in here are not like what you described.

I don't mind couple having their own space in forum, like others who are against to it, but your reasoning behind this idea was cheap and it only degrads your character..

We’ve only ever been out as a couple."

You will get the Male half of couples browsing, as well as SM who are using a couples profile. There are also single guys who have couples profiles as they play as a ‘tag team’, so you will never eliminate them entirely.

As has been mentioned, setting your filters up & your photos to ‘friends only’ is a better way to go about it.

Also, not every club has an issue with ‘the wanking dead’ ... equally, not every single guy on here is likely to be doing the same!!

Bear in mind it’s not particularly pricy to use Fab, and any changes that require a lot of IT & coding are likely to be expensive ... easier & simpler to use the filters & privacy options to your benefit!!

Hope that helps OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ok let's assume that all men are creepy and follow you everywhere and wank over, so what about single women are they creepy too? Your reason for couples only room is flawed. So, do you guys go outside your house or stay home for ever, because those creepy single men are out everywhere...

We’ve never seen single women following couples around wanking at clubs or spas?

So, why you said no singles if it is only men?, you do know there are single women in here don't you?.

If you say men following couples everywhere and wanking around, I am sure your other half was also single before you both got together, so you saying even he was following poor couple everywhere with cock in his hand?. Before you say, ur partner is not like that, so as many other men in here are not like what you described.

I don't mind couple having their own space in forum, like others who are against to it, but your reasoning behind this idea was cheap and it only degrads your character..

We’ve only ever been out as a couple.

You will get the Male half of couples browsing, as well as SM who are using a couples profile. There are also single guys who have couples profiles as they play as a ‘tag team’, so you will never eliminate them entirely.

As has been mentioned, setting your filters up & your photos to ‘friends only’ is a better way to go about it.

Also, not every club has an issue with ‘the wanking dead’ ... equally, not every single guy on here is likely to be doing the same!!

Bear in mind it’s not particularly pricy to use Fab, and any changes that require a lot of IT & coding are likely to be expensive ... easier & simpler to use the filters & privacy options to your benefit!!

Hope that helps OP "

Yes, thanks for the explanation and advice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For a couple that's only been on for a few weeks, you not looking for much are you.

Change your filters.

Single guys and the rest of fab have the right to browse.

The onus is on you to filter out who can contact you etc.

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"For a couple that's only been on for a few weeks, you not looking for much are you.

Change your filters.

Single guys and the rest of fab have the right to browse.

The onus is on you to filter out who can contact you etc.

"

The OPs already sorted out their filters from earlier advice, so all good now I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This section is for suggestions, telling people to leave because they suggest something isn't very helpful. "

Well said

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By *ightboy69Man  over a year ago

Torquay


"For a couple that's only been on for a few weeks, you not looking for much are you.

Change your filters.

Single guys and the rest of fab have the right to browse.

The onus is on you to filter out who can contact you etc.

"

Couldn't agree more .

2 bloody weeks and wanting the site changed , get a grip !

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"For a couple that's only been on for a few weeks, you not looking for much are you.

Change your filters.

Single guys and the rest of fab have the right to browse.

The onus is on you to filter out who can contact you etc.

Couldn't agree more .

2 bloody weeks and wanting the site changed , get a grip ! "

If youd read all of the thread you'd have noticed that the OP now has a firm grip of the situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"For a couple that's only been on for a few weeks, you not looking for much are you.

Change your filters.

Single guys and the rest of fab have the right to browse.

The onus is on you to filter out who can contact you etc.

Couldn't agree more .

2 bloody weeks and wanting the site changed , get a grip ! "

Thanks for your constructive feedback......

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

For anyone else who doesn’t read too well, the initial post was a question. We’re ‘wondering’ why there isn’t a couples only section and ‘wondering’ if it might be a good idea.....or not?

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"For anyone else who doesn’t read too well, the initial post was a question. We’re ‘wondering’ why there isn’t a couples only section and ‘wondering’ if it might be a good idea.....or not?"

Don't worry about it, this is a forum standard. Usually goes like this;

Read the opening post.

Be outraged and seek immediate superiority.

Post negative comments.

Fail to read the entire thread and realise that there really is no issue.

Just ignore.......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"We find it a bit creepy,.."

So why did you join ?

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


""We find it a bit creepy,.."

So why did you join ? "

I suspect the OP didn't expect elements of Fab to be uncomfortable or unsettling at first.

Is that hard to comprehend?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple  over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"But singles would only be left out of the couples page, not the whole forum. To compensate, there could be a singles only page, too?"

forums are just that "places to discuss and chat" why preclude anyone from making a comment? by all means block singles and unverified from messaging you, but you will be surprised quite a few males on here can actually hold and intelligent conversation! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


""We find it a bit creepy,.."

So why did you join ? "

How do you know what it’s like until you join? Thankfully, there are still people on here that make it worthwhile. Sorry, but you’re not one of them.

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


""We find it a bit creepy,.."

So why did you join ?

How do you know what it’s like until you join? Thankfully, there are still people on here that make it worthwhile. Sorry, but you’re not one of them."

Nice burn.

You're going to fit right in.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Whilst I can’t see a separate page working, I do think the OP has a point.

Swinging from a singles point of view is very different from swinging for singles. The forums tend to attract singles who all chase other singles.

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Whilst I can’t see a separate page working, I do think the OP has a point.

Swinging from a singles point of view is very different from swinging for singles. The forums tend to attract singles who all chase other singles."

I'd agree on part of that.

What about the singles looking for couples and the couples looking for single men or single women?

That's 3 more forums.....

Where would it end?

In practice I think it's doable, there would have to some code written in that certain types of profile could only access certain forums. I suspect that would just result in more fake profiles though.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Absolutely Sting, I agree. I think to often though, the forums are about singles looking for singles.

I know the only reason many single guys contact us is because they want the good lady and think they will be able to put up with me as an embuggerance.

As I said, I’m not sure how it would work in practice though.

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Absolutely Sting, I agree. I think to often though, the forums are about singles looking for singles.

I know the only reason many single guys contact us is because they want the good lady and think they will be able to put up with me as an embuggerance.

As I said, I’m not sure how it would work in practice though."

My idea of a couples meet is where both gentlemen make the lady the centre of our attention.

Obviously I don't mind if the husband sits and watches, I don't see him as being an embuggerance.

Great word by the way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Absolutely Sting, I agree. I think to often though, the forums are about singles looking for singles.

I know the only reason many single guys contact us is because they want the good lady and think they will be able to put up with me as an embuggerance.

As I said, I’m not sure how it would work in practice though."

Thanks you people, for being understanding and sympathetic to our position.

You’re absolutely right in your assessment, from what we’ve seen so far. There seems to be a lot of single men looking for....absolutely anything! That’s what we find creepy. Add to that, that a lot of them are probably attached and doing this in secret, makes it even more creepy? When you see so many ‘look at my profile’, ‘look at my cock’ posts, you can’t help but think that way.

We’ve seen the same thing at the few spas and clubs we’ve been to. You almost have to tell them to fuck off before they get the hint, it’s as if they think everyone is as desperate as they are?

Anyway, rant over, lol. We’re slowly learning who is who and what is what. It might take us a while, but we’ll work it out one way or another. Thanks for all the good and constructive advice from people. It’s appreciated.

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Absolutely Sting, I agree. I think to often though, the forums are about singles looking for singles.

I know the only reason many single guys contact us is because they want the good lady and think they will be able to put up with me as an embuggerance.

As I said, I’m not sure how it would work in practice though.

Thanks you people, for being understanding and sympathetic to our position.

You’re absolutely right in your assessment, from what we’ve seen so far. There seems to be a lot of single men looking for....absolutely anything! That’s what we find creepy. Add to that, that a lot of them are probably attached and doing this in secret, makes it even more creepy? When you see so many ‘look at my profile’, ‘look at my cock’ posts, you can’t help but think that way.

We’ve seen the same thing at the few spas and clubs we’ve been to. You almost have to tell them to fuck off before they get the hint, it’s as if they think everyone is as desperate as they are?

Anyway, rant over, lol. We’re slowly learning who is who and what is what. It might take us a while, but we’ll work it out one way or another. Thanks for all the good and constructive advice from people. It’s appreciated."

It's a cliché, but it really is a journey.

Once you get into the swing (no pun intend) of the Forums you'll find that in the main they're full of lovely sincere helpful and supportive people.

The Lounge is a good place to see the lighter side of Fab. Mostly fun, the occasional argument, but very much the place to find people having a giggle.

Not always for the faint hearted, but great folk.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Erm, Sting, this thing about the husband sitting and watching....does it matter if he buggers off for an hour two to watch the cricket!!

Anyway OP, you’re more than welcome to make your way down to Kent and we will meet you at Pleasures or the like!

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Erm, Sting, this thing about the husband sitting and watching....does it matter if he buggers off for an hour two to watch the cricket!!

Anyway OP, you’re more than welcome to make your way down to Kent and we will meet you at Pleasures or the like!"

A Cricket breaks OK.

If the footies on I might join him....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can you imagine? There she is, all in best lingerie waiting to be spoiled and we clear off to watch sport.

She’d kill us both

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Can you imagine? There she is, all in best lingerie waiting to be spoiled and we clear off to watch sport.

She’d kill us both "

She could always serve refreshments.

Great opportunity for the old "getting pulled off at half time" joke.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Whilst I can’t see a separate page working, I do think the OP has a point.

Swinging from a singles point of view is very different from swinging for singles. The forums tend to attract singles who all chase other singles."

and couples chasing single women, loads of threads on that.

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By *wo4FemCouple  over a year ago

Birmingham


"We’re new here, but just wondering why there isn’t a couples only page, where just verified couples can’t communicate without worrying about being bothered by single men?"

And what about couples who are looking for a single lady or a single guy? Or singles who are looking for singles? Are they going to be pages/forums Just for them as well?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Erm, Sting, this thing about the husband sitting and watching....does it matter if he buggers off for an hour two to watch the cricket!!

Anyway OP, you’re more than welcome to make your way down to Kent and we will meet you at Pleasures or the like!"

We’ve been to silverleigh. Went on the 23td of December, a couples only night, and booked a rooms. We got there early and decided to have a look at the spa. We only lasted 5 minutes before we were out of by a couple of zombies. Went back to the room for a snooze and came out after they cleared the singles out, when it was couples only.

It was quiet, being just before Christmas, so didn’t get to chat to many.

We did find, even when it was only couples in there, that the wives seemed disappear, leaving a lot of men lurking around on their own.

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