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Fabswingers a swinging site or a sex site?
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As the title suggest more and more people are coming here treating it as a sex site!
Yes sex and swinging are linked but swinging is also developing of a friendship/relationship with the person,couple or people you swing with.
Wouldn't it be better to have a sister site fabswingersII or something that when you joined you had a list of qualifying questions. So if you were looking for a sex site it would direct them one way and the genuine swingers another way. The sex site anyone could join but but the swinging version you would have to go through the validation and the content of the page could also be validated by the remember as appropriate or inappropriate similar pof dating site?
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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If you are looking for 3somes or moresomes you wouldn't find that on a dating site.
The definition of swinging is swapping partners, it doesn't say you need to be friends with the people. If you did then all the people who meet at parties or clubs and never meet again are not swingers?
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By *pmsldCouple
over a year ago
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Pointless and more work for nothing, as soon as the people who are guided to the sex site realise they will just lie to get into the swingers one..and you are back to square one except now the owners are paying for a dead site aswell as this one. Why cant this site be both like it does decent job of now? If you are not interested in someone then block them and move on. The only way you could do what you want is a invite only system but that would be awful for many reasons |
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"Honestly, I think the solution is that people need to be honest and have some manners/ respect, but that's not something Fab can control. "
I agree. Fab provide the platform and the tools, it's up to the user how they use them |
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"If you are looking for 3somes or moresomes you wouldn't find that on a dating site.
The definition of swinging is swapping partners, it doesn't say you need to be friends with the people. If you did then all the people who meet at parties or clubs and never meet again are not swingers?
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I disagree! That's not swinging thats just sex and you are looking for sex with others.
Swinging if you are genuine isn't just with an anonymous cock or pussy. Swinging is also about the friendship you develop.
If you talking about sex clubs then its as you say for sex but even within clubs you have regulars meeting each other having fun within there on little groups fun socials you could say.
This is the difference between a sex site and a swinging site.
Nothing against people looking for just sex just ruins it for genuine swingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are looking for 3somes or moresomes you wouldn't find that on a dating site.
The definition of swinging is swapping partners, it doesn't say you need to be friends with the people. If you did then all the people who meet at parties or clubs and never meet again are not swingers?
I disagree! That's not swinging thats just sex and you are looking for sex with others.
Swinging if you are genuine isn't just with an anonymous cock or pussy. Swinging is also about the friendship you develop.
If you talking about sex clubs then its as you say for sex but even within clubs you have regulars meeting each other having fun within there on little groups fun socials you could say.
This is the difference between a sex site and a swinging site.
Nothing against people looking for just sex just ruins it for genuine swingers."
Och shush and let people go about things how they please
And don't assume that people who aren't 'genuine swingers' aren't looking for friendship too |
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By *hedireCouple
over a year ago
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Many males treat dating and social networking sites as sex sites that is very clear from profile text most but not all female profiles its not welcome there . But there are also occasional profiles which say couple looking for others to join them.
As one poster said HONESTY is the best policy and labelling sites is pointless. Ive even seen profiles here looking for relationship and a fair number here just talk talk talk so to them its social networking with naughty words. |
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"If you are looking for 3somes or moresomes you wouldn't find that on a dating site.
The definition of swinging is swapping partners, it doesn't say you need to be friends with the people. If you did then all the people who meet at parties or clubs and never meet again are not swingers?
I disagree! That's not swinging thats just sex and you are looking for sex with others.
Swinging if you are genuine isn't just with an anonymous cock or pussy. Swinging is also about the friendship you develop.
If you talking about sex clubs then its as you say for sex but even within clubs you have regulars meeting each other having fun within there on little groups fun socials you could say.
This is the difference between a sex site and a swinging site.
Nothing against people looking for just sex just ruins it for genuine swingers."
And there is a big difference between sex clubs and swingers clubs.
Fab has not been a purely swingers site for many years. It is what it is to the individual. Problems arise when folk try and force their version of what the site should be on others. So no the OP is not a good idea. Use the site how you see fit (within the rules). |
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"If you are looking for 3somes or moresomes you wouldn't find that on a dating site.
The definition of swinging is swapping partners, it doesn't say you need to be friends with the people. If you did then all the people who meet at parties or clubs and never meet again are not swingers?
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Personally, we would never have sex with anyone we wouldn't want to be friends with!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The site obviously caters for both. Just go into the ''searching for'' settings. You clearly can choose whether you want to meet males females Tvs or indeed couples. If it was just a swingers site you wouldn't have those options. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take out all the members who you think are here just for sex OP, and not to make friends as you are suggesting and there will be hardly anyone left on Fab. You use it your way and let others use it their way x |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"If you are looking for 3somes or moresomes you wouldn't find that on a dating site.
The definition of swinging is swapping partners, it doesn't say you need to be friends with the people. If you did then all the people who meet at parties or clubs and never meet again are not swingers?
I disagree! That's not swinging thats just sex and you are looking for sex with others.
Swinging if you are genuine isn't just with an anonymous cock or pussy. Swinging is also about the friendship you develop.
If you talking about sex clubs then its as you say for sex but even within clubs you have regulars meeting each other having fun within there on little groups fun socials you could say.
This is the difference between a sex site and a swinging site.
Nothing against people looking for just sex just ruins it for genuine swingers."
Not all people at clubs meet repeatedly. Why does it spoil anything for "genuine" swingers? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"If you are looking for 3somes or moresomes you wouldn't find that on a dating site.
The definition of swinging is swapping partners, it doesn't say you need to be friends with the people. If you did then all the people who meet at parties or clubs and never meet again are not swingers?
Personally, we would never have sex with anyone we wouldn't want to be friends with! "
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"If you are looking for 3somes or moresomes you wouldn't find that on a dating site.
The definition of swinging is swapping partners, it doesn't say you need to be friends with the people. If you did then all the people who meet at parties or clubs and never meet again are not swingers?
I disagree! That's not swinging thats just sex and you are looking for sex with others.
Swinging if you are genuine isn't just with an anonymous cock or pussy. Swinging is also about the friendship you develop.
If you talking about sex clubs then its as you say for sex but even within clubs you have regulars meeting each other having fun within there on little groups fun socials you could say.
This is the difference between a sex site and a swinging site.
Nothing against people looking for just sex just ruins it for genuine swingers."
Swinging is whatever you want it to be. What works for some doesn't for others. |
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"If you are looking for 3somes or moresomes you wouldn't find that on a dating site.
The definition of swinging is swapping partners, it doesn't say you need to be friends with the people. If you did then all the people who meet at parties or clubs and never meet again are not swingers?
I disagree! That's not swinging thats just sex and you are looking for sex with others.
Swinging if you are genuine isn't just with an anonymous cock or pussy. Swinging is also about the friendship you develop.
If you talking about sex clubs then its as you say for sex but even within clubs you have regulars meeting each other having fun within there on little groups fun socials you could say.
This is the difference between a sex site and a swinging site.
Nothing against people looking for just sex just ruins it for genuine swingers."
Sex clubs are where people pay for sex
Swingers clubs are where people go because they are a part of the lifestyle. They includes singles, couples, TV/TS & CD’s, gay, straight, bi, poly and whatever else you can think of.
I’ve made some amazing friends in the world of clubs as well as on Fab. Some I’ve played with. Some I haven’t. There are people I’ve played with who’s name I didn’t even know and others that I’ve got to know so well that they have been friend zoned before we ever got the chance to play!!
I’ve experienced things I would never had the chance to experience outside of this wonderful lifestyle of ours and met some incredible people.
Swinging isn’t an action. It’s an attitude. Yes, some people have joined this site for a quick shag, and no they’re not swingers. Just ignore them.
“Genuine Swingers” are a whole range of people, but I find that they’re the ones who are open minded & accepting about how others want to live their lives.
It’s the single guys who call you a slag for saying no to them, or the couples who look down their nose at anyone who is single that spoil it for me. Block them & move on!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are looking for 3somes or moresomes you wouldn't find that on a dating site.
The definition of swinging is swapping partners, it doesn't say you need to be friends with the people. If you did then all the people who meet at parties or clubs and never meet again are not swingers?
I disagree! That's not swinging thats just sex and you are looking for sex with others.
Swinging if you are genuine isn't just with an anonymous cock or pussy. Swinging is also about the friendship you develop.
If you talking about sex clubs then its as you say for sex but even within clubs you have regulars meeting each other having fun within there on little groups fun socials you could say.
This is the difference between a sex site and a swinging site.
Nothing against people looking for just sex just ruins it for genuine swingers.
Sex clubs are where people pay for sex
Swingers clubs are where people go because they are a part of the lifestyle. They includes singles, couples, TV/TS & CD’s, gay, straight, bi, poly and whatever else you can think of.
I’ve made some amazing friends in the world of clubs as well as on Fab. Some I’ve played with. Some I haven’t. There are people I’ve played with who’s name I didn’t even know and others that I’ve got to know so well that they have been friend zoned before we ever got the chance to play!!
I’ve experienced things I would never had the chance to experience outside of this wonderful lifestyle of ours and met some incredible people.
Swinging isn’t an action. It’s an attitude. Yes, some people have joined this site for a quick shag, and no they’re not swingers. Just ignore them.
“Genuine Swingers” are a whole range of people, but I find that they’re the ones who are open minded & accepting about how others want to live their lives.
It’s the single guys who call you a slag for saying no to them, or the couples who look down their nose at anyone who is single that spoil it for me. Block them & move on! "
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Same personality type as twue doms and twue subs.
Our way is the only way.
We know people that have been on the swinging scene for years and very rarely fuck the same people twice, other than each other, obviously. |
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