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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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What do people think should be done about timewasters I mean people who agree to meet organise it then either don't answer the phone or messages or say they forgot they were chatting to you |
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I don't see that anything can be done. But they're damn annoying and unfortunately no one can be trusted anymore. It completely spoils the whole experience, I don't allow myself to get the pre meet excitement until I hear that bell ring |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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"I don't see that anything can be done. But they're damn annoying and unfortunately no one can be trusted anymore. It completely spoils the whole experience, I don't
allow myself to get the pre meet excitement until I hear that bell ring"
Personally I think if you can prove with screenshots etc and report it to the admin here their account should be blocked for a week to start with |
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"I don't see that anything can be done. But they're damn annoying and unfortunately no one can be trusted anymore. It completely spoils the whole experience, I don't
allow myself to get the pre meet excitement until I hear that bell ring
Personally I think if you can prove with screenshots etc and report it to the admin here their account should be blocked for a week to start with "
Not sure that would deter them that much. If they are the kind of person who enjoys playing those kind of games, then they will just create a new profile |
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By *ndrew CareyMan 20 weeks ago
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"What do people think should be done about timewasters I mean people who agree to meet organise it then either don't answer the phone or messages or say they forgot they were chatting to you "
Can be frustrating, especially when I first joined the site. I'm better at detecting them now.
Not sure any punishment will be effective as they'll just create new profiles and start again. |
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"I don't see that anything can be done. But they're damn annoying and unfortunately no one can be trusted anymore. It completely spoils the whole experience, I don't
allow myself to get the pre meet excitement until I hear that bell ring
Personally I think if you can prove with screenshots etc and report it to the admin here their account should be blocked for a week to start with "
So in other words you want to remove the "changing your mind" option?
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"So in other words you want to remove the "changing your mind" option?
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I don't mind people changing their minds. It's ghosting that is rude. We're all adults, just send a message, saying it's not going to happen.
When people go silent at the last minute.
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"What do people think should be done about timewasters I mean people who agree to meet organise it then either don't answer the phone or messages or say they forgot they were chatting to you "
I think what should be done is you accept it and move on tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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No but at least any person should do is have a bit of manners and respect and let you know they have changed their minds a simple text is not much to ask instead of having ppl drive some distance to nothing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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"What do people think should be done about timewasters I mean people who agree to meet organise it then either don't answer the phone or messages or say they forgot they were chatting to you
I think what should be done is you accept it and move on tbh. "
Just sayin it's wrong and to waste ppl time if you have nothing good to say just keep quiet |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"What do people think should be done about timewasters I mean people who agree to meet organise it then either don't answer the phone or messages or say they forgot they were chatting to you
I think what should be done is you accept it and move on tbh.
Just sayin it's wrong and to waste ppl time if you have nothing good to say just keep quiet "
How about you show sone of the manners and respect you just mentioned and don’t be rude to people in the forums? |
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Too many time wasters destroying this site.
I'm feed up of people taking the pleasure outta this site with no come back at all.
Can we please have a way off black listing time wasters for all site users to see.
Maybe just a X that appears on their profile. The more Xs the more people they have let down and people know to avoid them.
This way not 1 person can damage a members rep as your would only be able to leave a single negative strike but if they let several people down in a 12 month period user would know to avoid them.
Admin please look at doing something like this as after the last few months I have started using different means to arranged meets. |
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By *ild-mWoman 18 weeks ago
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I've been messed about with timewasters. Drove over 30 minutes to meet someone for them not to turn up, I see the point with the X, but a lot of women get reported on here, if they just say politely there not interested, would this give those people the opportunity to put an X on your account because your not interested, could cause more upset I think. |
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"Too many time wasters destroying this site.
I'm feed up of people taking the pleasure outta this site with no come back at all.
Can we please have a way off black listing time wasters for all site users to see.
Maybe just a X that appears on their profile. The more Xs the more people they have let down and people know to avoid them.
This way not 1 person can damage a members rep as your would only be able to leave a single negative strike but if they let several people down in a 12 month period user would know to avoid them.
Admin please look at doing something like this as after the last few months I have started using different means to arranged meets. "
Yes! This would be great. |
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This happened to me was a 2nd meeting i turned up he didn't and hasn't even looked at the messages i sent he seemed so keen as well, possibly only for the veri but could have said didn't want to meet again x please no inboxes x |
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"If someone changes their mind I'd rather they did that than meet someone whose not keen to be there "
Agree, but sending a message to say they have changed their mind is preferable to leave people sitting in a cafe or pub on their own waiting.  |
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"Too many time wasters destroying this site.
I'm feed up of people taking the pleasure outta this site with no come back at all.
Can we please have a way off black listing time wasters for all site users to see.
Maybe just a X that appears on their profile. The more Xs the more people they have let down and people know to avoid them.
This way not 1 person can damage a members rep as your would only be able to leave a single negative strike but if they let several people down in a 12 month period user would know to avoid them.
Admin please look at doing something like this as after the last few months I have started using different means to arranged meets. "
I've got 100 friends as I'm a social butterfly. I'll get a few of my friends to give you an X as we met and I didn't like you. You will then complain to admin that you didn't meet all these people or didn't agree to meet and then admin has a big job sifting through and trying to decide what is genuine and what isn't. Or perhaps we did meet and we just want to be malicious so give you an X saying we didn't and you then complain to admin that you really did meet and are not a timewaster - if was just that the person who gave you the X behaved badly.
How much extra would you pay to staff such a function or is it just a free for all? |
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"If someone changes their mind I'd rather they did that than meet someone whose not keen to be there
Agree, but sending a message to say they have changed their mind is preferable to leave people sitting in a cafe or pub on their own waiting. "
Yep that is just plain rude. Sadly it will never change. Very rarely happens to me now. After years of this place think I'm better at spotting people who might do this and also quicker at cutting losses and not spending time with people who might be flakey. |
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"What do people think should be done about timewasters I mean people who agree to meet organise it then either don't answer the phone or messages or say they forgot they were chatting to you "
We have been let down.. stood up 20+ times over years and in with that 6 hotels gone to waste at out expence .. we won't book no more .. its give us a fuck you attitude .. any meets its on our terms or they can simply fook off .. |
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Why do so many people think that it's someone else's job to make everything perfect in life for them?
Some people are dicks. Always been true, always will be true. So get over it, and treat it as a learning experience.
The mods have more than enough to do. Well unless you're proposing to pay them to look into it. |
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We once arranged to meet a 24 yr old stunning female in pontefract .. arrived and parked on cobbled street out side train stn .. message came through saying that she was just getting her Baby to sleep .. we just looked at each other n laughed .. 10 mins later another message saying her boyfriend had come home early and would like to come meet us .. by this time we're giggling .. yes send him we said .. 15 mins later wife seen some thing moved I bushes near to train stn ,, out walked a guy with a long Mac on .. by this time we're Rolling about car in a fit of laughter .. he x wanked past car 2..3 times .. we set of n stopped car and asked how he was doing . We took one look at him and his big fucking chin .. got back home n did a searchon single guys, around 50 .. BANG .. there he was the sad fuck . Left him a few weeks and wife (me really) invited him over to ours in Skipton as I (she) was alone .. he got train..bus taxi to ours in Skipton... or fit fuck sake we don't live in Skipton. He messaged when he got back n home screaming at us .. then had cheek to report us to admin . We told em why we did it n no action was taken
Bloody fruit loops done of em on here  |
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"We once arranged to meet a 24 yr old stunning female in pontefract .. arrived and parked on cobbled street out side train stn .. message came through saying that she was just getting her Baby to sleep .. we just looked at each other n laughed .. 10 mins later another message saying her boyfriend had come home early and would like to come meet us .. by this time we're giggling .. yes send him we said .. 15 mins later wife seen some thing moved I bushes near to train stn ,, out walked a guy with a long Mac on .. by this time we're Rolling about car in a fit of laughter .. he x wanked past car 2..3 times .. we set of n stopped car and asked how he was doing . We took one look at him and his big fucking chin .. got back home n did a searchon single guys, around 50 .. BANG .. there he was the sad fuck . Left him a few weeks and wife (me really) invited him over to ours in Skipton as I (she) was alone .. he got train..bus taxi to ours in Skipton... or fit fuck sake we don't live in Skipton. He messaged when he got back n home screaming at us .. then had cheek to report us to admin . We told em why we did it n no action was taken
Bloody fruit loops done of em on here "
Excellent Your initial mistake was assuming a hot 24 year lady was real mind you. Presumably not verified? |
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"We once arranged to meet a 24 yr old stunning female in pontefract .. arrived and parked on cobbled street out side train stn .. message came through saying that she was just getting her Baby to sleep .. we just looked at each other n laughed .. 10 mins later another message saying her boyfriend had come home early and would like to come meet us .. by this time we're giggling .. yes send him we said .. 15 mins later wife seen some thing moved I bushes near to train stn ,, out walked a guy with a long Mac on .. by this time we're Rolling about car in a fit of laughter .. he x wanked past car 2..3 times .. we set of n stopped car and asked how he was doing . We took one look at him and his big fucking chin .. got back home n did a searchon single guys, around 50 .. BANG .. there he was the sad fuck . Left him a few weeks and wife (me really) invited him over to ours in Skipton as I (she) was alone .. he got train..bus taxi to ours in Skipton... or fit fuck sake we don't live in Skipton. He messaged when he got back n home screaming at us .. then had cheek to report us to admin . We told em why we did it n no action was taken
Bloody fruit loops done of em on here
Excellent Your initial mistake was assuming a hot 24 year lady was real mind you. Presumably not verified? "
Don't think she was .. still get let down of verified folk |
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