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What they are looking for

By *eddyboy972 OP Man 4 days ago

Birmingham

Hi site developers something to Tweek is to maybe change what your into as people tick every box Chang that to what your using the site for this way if it gives people more of an idea what that person wants ie straight sex - ie no romance just sex, no strings relationship, short term fun ie wont be here very long, swinging relationship with other couples, club meets Only -ie guys know they won’t meet socially, Kinky Fun ask for those with fetishes this way when you view a profile you know if it’s actually worth messaging or not also a tick box for not available or available for messages so only Freinds can message that person so the profile owner can decide if they want fresh people to chat to or jhst chat to Freinds only

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By *bi HaiveMan 3 days ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

" this way when you view a profile you know if it’s actually worth messaging or not "

Tick boxes are all well and good, but that would assume that everyone wanted to do the same things with anyone and everyone. Even if people have certain interests ticked at present, it doesn't mean that's something guaranteed to happen or that they'll want to do that at any given time.

Reducing everything to tick boxes removes any element of individuality and gives people the impression that people are always looking for rhe same thing rather than specific interactions that may vary between different people and dynamics.

Plus.....people can easily write info in profile text. Of course that would require people to read it, which can often appear difficult for some. A well written profile usually gives others a clear idea of what the person/people is/are looking for.

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