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For member verification, there's a female on here I have known for years and I can't verify her cos I'm not verified by a meet/cam. This is a vicious circle. I knew I shouldn't have left my old verified account.
Anyone know how to actually break the circle of non verification? |
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"For member verification, there's a female on here I have known for years and I can't verify her cos I'm not verified by a meet/cam. This is a vicious circle. I knew I shouldn't have left my old verified account.
Anyone know how to actually break the circle of non verification?"
Is she not verified? If so, get her to verify you first.
If not, one of you will have to meet someone who is verified and receive a verification from them, then you can verify each other. The other option is for one of you to get a quick cam verification then verify the other.
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"For member verification, there's a female on here I have known for years and I can't verify her cos I'm not verified by a meet/cam. This is a vicious circle. I knew I shouldn't have left my old verified account.
Anyone know how to actually break the circle of non verification?
Is she not verified? If so, get her to verify you first.
If not, one of you will have to meet someone who is verified and receive a verification from them, then you can verify each other. The other option is for one of you to get a quick cam verification then verify the other.
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Unfortunately she's not, she only joined on my recommendation. We have known eachother for years through AFF.
I think she will have an easier time getting verified as a single female.
Thank you for your help, very much appreciated  |
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"For member verification, there's a female on here I have known for years and I can't verify her cos I'm not verified by a meet/cam. This is a vicious circle. I knew I shouldn't have left my old verified account.
Anyone know how to actually break the circle of non verification?"
Get verified, it's so easy to go to an organised social. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"For member verification, there's a female on here I have known for years and I can't verify her cos I'm not verified by a meet/cam. This is a vicious circle. I knew I shouldn't have left my old verified account.
Anyone know how to actually break the circle of non verification?
Get verified, it's so easy to go to an organised social."
I'm not sure I'm confident enough for a group meeting like that just yet. Lol |
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"For member verification, there's a female on here I have known for years and I can't verify her cos I'm not verified by a meet/cam. This is a vicious circle. I knew I shouldn't have left my old verified account.
Anyone know how to actually break the circle of non verification?
Get verified, it's so easy to go to an organised social.
I'm not sure I'm confident enough for a group meeting like that just yet. Lol"
Please don't think I'm being nasty but if you don't have the confidence to go for a drink with people you haven't met before has it occured to you that maybe swinging isn't for you? |
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"For member verification, there's a female on here I have known for years and I can't verify her cos I'm not verified by a meet/cam. This is a vicious circle. I knew I shouldn't have left my old verified account.
Anyone know how to actually break the circle of non verification?"
Have a read here
https://www.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ#neither_verified |
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"For member verification, there's a female on here I have known for years and I can't verify her cos I'm not verified by a meet/cam. This is a vicious circle. I knew I shouldn't have left my old verified account.
Anyone know how to actually break the circle of non verification?
Get verified, it's so easy to go to an organised social.
I'm not sure I'm confident enough for a group meeting like that just yet. Lol"
It's just a night out. There are loads of local socials north and south of the border, including ones for those with no verifications - have a look in there, get involved. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"For member verification, there's a female on here I have known for years and I can't verify her cos I'm not verified by a meet/cam. This is a vicious circle. I knew I shouldn't have left my old verified account.
Anyone know how to actually break the circle of non verification?
Get verified, it's so easy to go to an organised social.
I'm not sure I'm confident enough for a group meeting like that just yet. Lol
Please don't think I'm being nasty but if you don't have the confidence to go for a drink with people you haven't met before has it occured to you that maybe swinging isn't for you?"
I've had meets before on my old profile and when I was on AFF. I don't really drink much, and I have never been in a massive group setting with other swingers. It's not I don't like meeting people, it's just a new step I haven't taken. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"For member verification, there's a female on here I have known for years and I can't verify her cos I'm not verified by a meet/cam. This is a vicious circle. I knew I shouldn't have left my old verified account.
Anyone know how to actually break the circle of non verification?
Get verified, it's so easy to go to an organised social.
I'm not sure I'm confident enough for a group meeting like that just yet. Lol
It's just a night out. There are loads of local socials north and south of the border, including ones for those with no verifications - have a look in there, get involved. Good luck "
Thank you, that's great. I will look into those.  |
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"For member verification, there's a female on here I have known for years and I can't verify her cos I'm not verified by a meet/cam. This is a vicious circle. I knew I shouldn't have left my old verified account.
Anyone know how to actually break the circle of non verification?
Get verified, it's so easy to go to an organised social.
I'm not sure I'm confident enough for a group meeting like that just yet. Lol
It's just a night out. There are loads of local socials north and south of the border, including ones for those with no verifications - have a look in there, get involved. Good luck
Thank you, that's great. I will look into those. "
That should have been "have a look in the Irish forum" - sorry! |
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