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My FB never gets into hot photos...but had more fabs than the people on there?
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over a year ago
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"She's a new user been on the site for two days does that have anything to do with it?"
No.
Like i said depends on when pictures was uploaded starts the-count
Im sure someone from admin will confirm |
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over a year ago
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"Still had loads more than the people on there within 12 hours and still more the next day..just confused me as ive been a couple on here that had our photos featured with alot less fabs"
Like i said ask admin |
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"Still had loads more than the people on there within 12 hours and still more the next day..just confused me as ive been a couple on here that had our photos featured with alot less fabs
Like i said ask admin"
I shall await response on here as the admins never reply if directly messaged. |
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"Does she get a prize like? 
So what if it didn't make "most fabbed"
Take the compliment she got 800 likes?"
Im just querying the reasons why other people get featured for far less likes than her. It just didnt make sense to me |
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"Try page two,..
Oh wait you can't, can she?. Does she care as much about this, as you seem to do. You know it's chip paper tomorrow, don't you?."
She does care and we are mainly wondering the reasons why she doesn't seem to be included. If im being honest it helps her self esteem and whats wrong with that!? |
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It's number of fabs in a 12 hour period, obviously that's usually the first 12 hours from upload as that's when a pic usually gets most fabs on it. Overall number of fabs means nothing after 12 hours as it's the rolling 12 hours which counts. |
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"Try page two,..
Oh wait you can't, can she?. Does she care as much about this, as you seem to do. You know it's chip paper tomorrow, don't you?.
She does care and we are mainly wondering the reasons why she doesn't seem to be included. If im being honest it helps her self esteem and whats wrong with that!?"
Surely the self esteem comes from having that number of fabs rather than being on the top pics, seeing as she knows she’s got more Fabs?
Also your couples photo has to be from a couples profile to be in the couples pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try page two,..
Oh wait you can't, can she?. Does she care as much about this, as you seem to do. You know it's chip paper tomorrow, don't you?.
She does care and we are mainly wondering the reasons why she doesn't seem to be included. If im being honest it helps her self esteem and whats wrong with that!?
Surely the self esteem comes from having that number of fabs rather than being on the top pics, seeing as she knows she’s got more Fabs?
Also your couples photo has to be from a couples profile to be in the couples pics "
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"It's number of fabs in a 12 hour period, obviously that's usually the first 12 hours from upload as that's when a pic usually gets most fabs on it. Overall number of fabs means nothing after 12 hours as it's the rolling 12 hours which counts."
Yeah so we have 200 on our pic that was uploaded 3 hours ago.
Theres about 4-5 couples featured on hot photo's right now with less fabs than us. Just confused me the reason why this is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When did she upload the photo & how many Fabs did she get in the 1st 12 hour period? Also did she make it public, friends of private?
Tbh the counter can be a tad out but I wouldn’t think it was 100’a out.
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"Try page two,..
Oh wait you can't, can she?. Does she care as much about this, as you seem to do. You know it's chip paper tomorrow, don't you?.
She does care and we are mainly wondering the reasons why she doesn't seem to be included. If im being honest it helps her self esteem and whats wrong with that!?
Surely the self esteem comes from having that number of fabs rather than being on the top pics, seeing as she knows she’s got more Fabs?
Also your couples photo has to be from a couples profile to be in the couples pics "
Yes just we know if we were featured in hot photos those 800 would most likely triple in numbers. |
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"Try page two,..
Oh wait you can't, can she?. Does she care as much about this, as you seem to do. You know it's chip paper tomorrow, don't you?.
She does care and we are mainly wondering the reasons why she doesn't seem to be included. If im being honest it helps her self esteem and whats wrong with that!?
Surely the self esteem comes from having that number of fabs rather than being on the top pics, seeing as she knows she’s got more Fabs?
Also your couples photo has to be from a couples profile to be in the couples pics
Yes just we know if we were featured in hot photos those 800 would most likely triple in numbers."
That doesn’t make any sense.
If the 800 fabs were more than the other pics on top pics, why do you think being on there would triple your number?
If the others have less than 800, why would you expect 2400? |
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"Try page two,..
Oh wait you can't, can she?. Does she care as much about this, as you seem to do. You know it's chip paper tomorrow, don't you?.
She does care and we are mainly wondering the reasons why she doesn't seem to be included. If im being honest it helps her self esteem and whats wrong with that!?
Surely the self esteem comes from having that number of fabs rather than being on the top pics, seeing as she knows she’s got more Fabs?
Also your couples photo has to be from a couples profile to be in the couples pics
Yes just we know if we were featured in hot photos those 800 would most likely triple in numbers.
That doesn’t make any sense.
If the 800 fabs were more than the other pics on top pics, why do you think being on there would triple your number?
If the others have less than 800, why would you expect 2400? "
Because most that get featured on there either double or triple in fabs from what ive seen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you're pictures just aren't as good as you think. I smell sour grapes, obviously people like the other people's pictures better. "
I thought that tbf |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It will be because she is new!
I had the same thing when I had a single profile but I read on here somewhere you need to be on for a certain amount of days xx |
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"Maybe you're pictures just aren't as good as you think. I smell sour grapes, obviously people like the other people's pictures better.
I thought that tbf"
Lol fairplay some of you are very bitter and not nice people |
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"It will be because she is new!
I had the same thing when I had a single profile but I read on here somewhere you need to be on for a certain amount of days xx "
Finally...thank you so much for responding like a decent human being and not a bitter judgemental fab snob  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It will be because she is new!
I had the same thing when I had a single profile but I read on here somewhere you need to be on for a certain amount of days xx
Finally...thank you so much for responding like a decent human being and not a bitter judgemental fab snob "
There’s no need to be rude. Nobody here was bitter, judgemental, and from the looks of it, fat. Can’t comment if they’re a snob or not - I know I’m not anyway, but I just agreed with comments  |
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"If it's Antonia she has a lovely cheeky bottom. Just added to your fabs mate "
Thank you for the kind words.
Im nice to people that have a mutual respect and fair to me.
I cant believe the bitchyness of some of the people commenting. |
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I never look at it, doesn’t interest me.
As a suggestion, genuinely intended, maybe if you didn’t put so much store in it, neither would she. Try to put the effort into making your girlfriend feel better about herself & help her boost her self esteem?
Sounds like she has confidence issues & working on that comes from the people closest to her, rather than gaining the approval of strangers.
Good luck x |
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"If it's Antonia she has a lovely cheeky bottom. Just added to your fabs mate
Thank you for the kind words.
Im nice to people that have a mutual respect and fair to me.
I cant believe the bitchyness of some of the people commenting."
I find it odd that your complaining about the bitchyness of some people when you've made some pretty rude remarks yourself on this thread. Mutual respect is that, mutual, and you've shown very little in this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it's Antonia she has a lovely cheeky bottom. Just added to your fabs mate
Thank you for the kind words.
Im nice to people that have a mutual respect and fair to me.
I cant believe the bitchyness of some of the people commenting."
Oh the irony |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it's Antonia she has a lovely cheeky bottom. Just added to your fabs mate
Thank you for the kind words.
Im nice to people that have a mutual respect and fair to me.
I cant believe the bitchyness of some of the people commenting."
Why don’t you contact the Daily Heil and complain about the total injustice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you're pictures just aren't as good as you think. I smell sour grapes, obviously people like the other people's pictures better.
I thought that tbf
Lol fairplay some of you are very bitter and not nice people"
Only to men. They suck up to women. |
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"Maybe you're pictures just aren't as good as you think. I smell sour grapes, obviously people like the other people's pictures better.
I thought that tbf
Lol fairplay some of you are very bitter and not nice people
Only to men. They suck up to women. "
That may be true for some men here but most women and TVs will call anyone out on the bullshit regardless of gender |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you're pictures just aren't as good as you think. I smell sour grapes, obviously people like the other people's pictures better.
I thought that tbf
Lol fairplay some of you are very bitter and not nice people
Only to men. They suck up to women.
That may be true for some men here but most women and TVs will call anyone out on the bullshit regardless of gender"
the BS is strong with this one |
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In think we are on the top pages of most catergories at the minute and all we did was put dicks in our mouths lol . It doesn’t make our experience here any different . If you want prizes join a cam/photo site
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"If it's Antonia she has a lovely cheeky bottom. Just added to your fabs mate
Thank you for the kind words.
Im nice to people that have a mutual respect and fair to me.
I cant believe the bitchyness of some of the people commenting.
I find it odd that your complaining about the bitchyness of some people when you've made some pretty rude remarks yourself on this thread. Mutual respect is that, mutual, and you've shown very little in this thread. "
They drew first blood.
If you notice the people that have been nice ive thanked and been decent back.
I dont appreciate when im querying a straight forward logical question peoppe have to pick holes in it and twist what i say and turn it into questioning the reasons why i want the photo to be featured in hot photos...just answer the orginal question if not then dont bother commenting something bitchy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it's Antonia she has a lovely cheeky bottom. Just added to your fabs mate
Thank you for the kind words.
Im nice to people that have a mutual respect and fair to me.
I cant believe the bitchyness of some of the people commenting.
I find it odd that your complaining about the bitchyness of some people when you've made some pretty rude remarks yourself on this thread. Mutual respect is that, mutual, and you've shown very little in this thread.
They drew first blood.
If you notice the people that have been nice ive thanked and been decent back.
I dont appreciate when im querying a straight forward logical question peoppe have to pick holes in it and twist what i say and turn it into questioning the reasons why i want the photo to be featured in hot photos...just answer the orginal question if not then dont bother commenting something bitchy lol"
They deserve everything they go. They should know by now what happens when they are bitches to new men (they don't do it to women often). Careful, because they will try to wind you up so you get a ban. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you're pictures just aren't as good as you think. I smell sour grapes, obviously people like the other people's pictures better.
I thought that tbf
Lol fairplay some of you are very bitter and not nice people
Only to men. They suck up to women.
That may be true for some men here but most women and TVs will call anyone out on the bullshit regardless of gender"
What planet have you been on? |
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"If it's Antonia she has a lovely cheeky bottom. Just added to your fabs mate
Thank you for the kind words.
Im nice to people that have a mutual respect and fair to me.
I cant believe the bitchyness of some of the people commenting.
I find it odd that your complaining about the bitchyness of some people when you've made some pretty rude remarks yourself on this thread. Mutual respect is that, mutual, and you've shown very little in this thread.
They drew first blood.
If you notice the people that have been nice ive thanked and been decent back.
I dont appreciate when im querying a straight forward logical question peoppe have to pick holes in it and twist what i say and turn it into questioning the reasons why i want the photo to be featured in hot photos...just answer the orginal question if not then dont bother commenting something bitchy lol
They deserve everything they go. They should know by now what happens when they are bitches to new men (they don't do it to women often). Careful, because they will try to wind you up so you get a ban. "
Yeah ive noticed there wind up game and unfortunatley resorted to lowering myself to there level in retaliation.  |
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"Would you like a badge .... if I makes you feel better
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What was the need for that remark? "
Thats a prime example of the type of comment im referring too ha. Thanks for being decent and sticking up for me haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She's a new user been on the site for two days does that have anything to do with it?"
your opening message suggested she had been here a while...
2 days is nothing but if she isn't verified herself then she wont make it onto most fabbed |
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over a year ago
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"Would you like a badge .... if I makes you feel better
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What was the need for that remark?
Thats a prime example of the type of comment im referring too ha. Thanks for being decent and sticking up for me haha. "
You're welcome and I'm glad you had the sense to not get too involved. |
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"She's a new user been on the site for two days does that have anything to do with it?
your opening message suggested she had been here a while...
2 days is nothing but if she isn't verified herself then she wont make it onto most fabbed"
4 days in total after checking.
And yeah shes photo verified and verified by me personally.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She's a new user been on the site for two days does that have anything to do with it?
your opening message suggested she had been here a while...
2 days is nothing but if she isn't verified herself then she wont make it onto most fabbed
4 days in total after checking.
And yeah shes photo verified and verified by me personally.
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well Ive no idea then, I only rejoined a week and a half ago, didn't get photo verified straight away but one of my pics is on page 5 of most fabbed this month  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She's a new user been on the site for two days does that have anything to do with it?
your opening message suggested she had been here a while...
2 days is nothing but if she isn't verified herself then she wont make it onto most fabbed
4 days in total after checking.
And yeah shes photo verified and verified by me personally.
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Why doesn’t she (as it’s your friend we’re discussing) upload a new photo tomorrow, say lunchtime for optimum fab time opportunity and see how it does in the 12 hours. She can then click contact Admin and ask the question if it like you day receives 100’s and doesn’t make Hot Pics.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabbed 230 times in last 3 hours and still not in hot photos lol i just dont understand why. Theres so many with 100 less but still featured on there currently right now"
Does her username begin with A..there’s a women on Page 2 who looks like the one in your dick pic..? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At title says...why is this happening? She had over 800 fabs more than the people on there but still she doesn't get featured on there. Why is this?"
I shouldn't worry ... Fabs aren't a sign of anything ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP the same happened with one of my pics last month. I contacted admin and around an hour or so later my pic was showing where it should have logically been.
I think the contact to admin may need to come from your friend though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the grand scale of things.
Does it matter??
We don't even get fabbed on our pics, let alone make the hotlist.
It's not the be all and end all.
Don't worry about it |
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"In the grand scale of things.
Does it matter??
We don't even get fabbed on our pics, let alone make the hotlist.
It's not the be all and end all.
Don't worry about it "
No it doesnt im just questioning why the system seems flawed and we seem to be left out? Thats is all. |
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"OP the same happened with one of my pics last month. I contacted admin and around an hour or so later my pic was showing where it should have logically been.
I think the contact to admin may need to come from your friend though x"
Thank you. Where could i potentially speak to an admin? |
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"Fabbed 230 times in last 3 hours and still not in hot photos lol i just dont understand why. Theres so many with 100 less but still featured on there currently right now
Does her username begin with A..there’s a women on Page 2 who looks like the one in your dick pic..?"
That is correct. |
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"Fabbed 230 times in last 3 hours and still not in hot photos lol i just dont understand why. Theres so many with 100 less but still featured on there currently right now
Does her username begin with A..there’s a women on Page 2 who looks like the one in your dick pic..?
That is correct. "
So she’s made Page 2, that’s great isn’t it? |
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over a year ago
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"Fabbed 230 times in last 3 hours and still not in hot photos lol i just dont understand why. Theres so many with 100 less but still featured on there currently right now
Does her username begin with A..there’s a women on Page 2 who looks like the one in your dick pic..?
That is correct.
So she’s made Page 2, that’s great isn’t it?"
He lowest Page 1 currently stands at 391 so she needs an additional 161 to get there right now ~ remember these numbers are always changing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs does it really matter. I’ve got 765 paper clips in my office draw. The other girl only has 457,, so Wat ,, "
Exactly, seems the ultimate “look at me” thread |
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The guy asked a simple question, why wasn't a photo with more fans than others in top photos included in the top photos? In piles a load of comments like he's needy, he needs to work on his relationship more so his girlfriend has more self esteem and the same things said over and over in slightly different ways....and then HE is called rude. Some of you people are just so cynical and should try to remember what it was like to be newly on here and not bored with the same old threads. |
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"The guy asked a simple question, why wasn't a photo with more fans than others in top photos included in the top photos? In piles a load of comments like he's needy, he needs to work on his relationship more so his girlfriend has more self esteem and the same things said over and over in slightly different ways....and then HE is called rude. Some of you people are just so cynical and should try to remember what it was like to be newly on here and not bored with the same old threads."
Thank you |
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over a year ago
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"The guy asked a simple question, why wasn't a photo with more fans than others in top photos included in the top photos? In piles a load of comments like he's needy, he needs to work on his relationship more so his girlfriend has more self esteem and the same things said over and over in slightly different ways....and then HE is called rude. Some of you people are just so cynical and should try to remember what it was like to be newly on here and not bored with the same old threads."
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"The guy asked a simple question, why wasn't a photo with more fans than others in top photos included in the top photos? In piles a load of comments like he's needy, he needs to work on his relationship more so his girlfriend has more self esteem and the same things said over and over in slightly different ways....and then HE is called rude. Some of you people are just so cynical and should try to remember what it was like to be newly on here and not bored with the same old threads."
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"Fabbed 230 times in last 3 hours and still not in hot photos lol i just dont understand why. Theres so many with 100 less but still featured on there currently right now
Does her username begin with A..there’s a women on Page 2 who looks like the one in your dick pic..?
That is correct.
So she’s made Page 2, that’s great isn’t it?
He lowest Page 1 currently stands at 391 so she needs an additional 161 to get there right now ~ remember these numbers are always changing."
Im referring to the mf couple photo of her and me with another guy. 240 likes in 4 hours.
There is a few single females with couple photos currently featured on hot photos with alot less fabs than that.
Just for example. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"The guy asked a simple question, why wasn't a photo with more fans than others in top photos included in the top photos? In piles a load of comments like he's needy, he needs to work on his relationship more so his girlfriend has more self esteem and the same things said over and over in slightly different ways....and then HE is called rude. Some of you people are just so cynical and should try to remember what it was like to be newly on here and not bored with the same old threads."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s happened to some of our pics too , think it probably is flawed .. but we don’t care really because you just end up with hundreds of messages you can’t be bothered reading  |
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"Fabbed 230 times in last 3 hours and still not in hot photos lol i just dont understand why. Theres so many with 100 less but still featured on there currently right now
Does her username begin with A..there’s a women on Page 2 who looks like the one in your dick pic..?
That is correct.
So she’s made Page 2, that’s great isn’t it?
He lowest Page 1 currently stands at 391 so she needs an additional 161 to get there right now ~ remember these numbers are always changing.
Im referring to the mf couple photo of her and me with another guy. 240 likes in 4 hours.
There is a few single females with couple photos currently featured on hot photos with alot less fabs than that.
Just for example. "
Okay I’m a little confused.
Is this MF photo uploaded from her profile at the same time as the current one of just her?
If so you can’t have more than one photo in the hot pic pages 1 through to 10. |
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Just had great idea. Why not ask the girl who’s got the profile on here to come forward so she can tell us why she feels it’s not fair that her photos have not been put on the hot list , I’ve got a couple of pics of my arse stuck up and my sexy heels on , all I want is one comment saying “sexy heels nice bottom” that will do me thanks xxxx or at least five likes |
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"Try page two,..
Oh wait you can't, can she?. Does she care as much about this, as you seem to do. You know it's chip paper tomorrow, don't you?.
She does care and we are mainly wondering the reasons why she doesn't seem to be included. If im being honest it helps her self esteem and whats wrong with that!?
Surely the self esteem comes from having that number of fabs rather than being on the top pics, seeing as she knows she’s got more Fabs?
Also your couples photo has to be from a couples profile to be in the couples pics "
Not it doesn't, it just needs 2 people in it.
This is my single profile, if I upload a pic with me and another person in it I would click the couple button.
Just like if I uploaded a pic from my couples profile that only had me in, I would click the F button as there is only a Fem (me) in it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't know if it's already been posted, but brand new users don't appear on most fabbed for a while... At least that's what we found when we started our couples profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't know if it's already been posted, but brand new users don't appear on most fabbed for a while... At least that's what we found when we started our couples profile. "
Thing is she does appear, on Page 2 when last looked. |
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"Just had great idea. Why not ask the girl who’s got the profile on here to come forward so she can tell us why she feels it’s not fair that her photos have not been put on the hot list , I’ve got a couple of pics of my arse stuck up and my sexy heels on , all I want is one comment saying “sexy heels nice bottom” that will do me thanks xxxx or at least five likes "
Why should she? This comment has no relevance nor of any help...rather is seems just snide and spiteful at best. If she did would you then turn your spite and snide comments towards her? |
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