Looking for some tips on updating my profile,
Updated it a few times in the past but felt it was a time for a shake up.
Can i have some constructive advice?
Some of the advice ive seen on other threads has been pretty....well rude/unhelpful to be honest. Things like "i wouldnt message you back" maybe true, however that kind of feedback doesnt help me better my profile and make it more alluring 
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"Looking for some tips on updating my profile,
Updated it a few times in the past but felt it was a time for a shake up.
Can i have some constructive advice?
Some of the advice ive seen on other threads has been pretty....well rude/unhelpful to be honest. Things like "i wouldnt message you back" maybe true, however that kind of feedback doesnt help me better my profile and make it more alluring
Thanks in advance "
Got to ask, do you honestly think that your status is attractive?
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It’s not always about the profile, it’s how you use the site and other options like socials and clubs.
Your profile is fine, nothing special but it’s better than....’will update later’ or ‘ask me’ with a couple of cock pictures and a moaning status that nobody replies to their messages.
Compared to those guys you’ve put in an effort.
However the site isn’t about just a profile it’s about getting it seen. There’s chat rooms and forums, in the real world some clubs are doing socials. These are your real chances of getting a meet or interest on here.
So my advice, contribute to the forums even if it’s to tell others your favourite film, someone may look at your profile and think he’s interesting. Go in the chat rooms, be respectful but try to get seen or chatting to someone. If there’s a social in your area, go to it.
This site for guys is hard work, look at other guys profiles get ideas but don’t copy, if you’re still not getting any interest.
More effort in, more chances to succeed.  |
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"It’s not always about the profile, it’s how you use the site and other options like socials and clubs.
Your profile is fine, nothing special but it’s better than....’will update later’ or ‘ask me’ with a couple of cock pictures and a moaning status that nobody replies to their messages.
Compared to those guys you’ve put in an effort.
However the site isn’t about just a profile it’s about getting it seen. There’s chat rooms and forums, in the real world some clubs are doing socials. These are your real chances of getting a meet or interest on here.
So my advice, contribute to the forums even if it’s to tell others your favourite film, someone may look at your profile and think he’s interesting. Go in the chat rooms, be respectful but try to get seen or chatting to someone. If there’s a social in your area, go to it.
This site for guys is hard work, look at other guys profiles get ideas but don’t copy, if you’re still not getting any interest.
More effort in, more chances to succeed. "
Thank you for such honest feedback. I'm going to push to make more of an effort on the forums. I'm admittedly a bit of lurker so that needs to change |
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I like it, if anything a tad more about you in nilla , so if you're passionate about rock climbing or parasailing etc add that so it's not all about your preference for older ladies.
A couple of interests helps start a conversation when people can connect with something they also enjoy |
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