"Compatibility.
It can be the best written profile, have jaw dropping pics but if they’re not what you’re looking for and vice versa, you pass it by.
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This. My single profile EllenGT gets lots of praise, but our couple profile is completely different but still gets attention. |
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"Compatibility.
It can be the best written profile, have jaw dropping pics but if they’re not what you’re looking for and vice versa, you pass it by.
V
This. My single profile EllenGT gets lots of praise, but our couple profile is completely different but still gets attention. "
I’m not surprised, they are both very good profiles 
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We try to balance with both informative words and enticing pictures.
Hopefully a slightly longer text than most avoids wasted time for all, we think it’s pretty clear we are entirely genuine, what we like and who we are looking for.
We edit regularly too, dormant profile text and old photos don’t show much enthusiasm or attention.
Our biggest issue is ageism. We’ve just clicked into our 50’s but don’t feel it and hopefully don’t look it. But for many irrespective of how ‘good’ our profile is we’re past it! Their time will hopefully come!
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"We try to balance with both informative words and enticing pictures.
Hopefully a slightly longer text than most avoids wasted time for all, we think it’s pretty clear we are entirely genuine, what we like and who we are looking for.
We edit regularly too, dormant profile text and old photos don’t show much enthusiasm or attention.
Our biggest issue is ageism. We’ve just clicked into our 50’s but don’t feel it and hopefully don’t look it. But for many irrespective of how ‘good’ our profile is we’re past it! Their time will hopefully come!
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Your photos are stunning! |
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I think that it's all of it to be fair, pictures draw a person in and wanna know more about you, the written part let's them know if it seems like you are after the same sort of then and then the messages show if it seems like personality wise you'd be compatable |
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A good balance of photos.
If it’s a couples profile and then both play then some photos of him too!
Single guys that have variation in their pics stand out. Not 17 pics of their cock.
We don’t really like profiles that are longer than an page. If We have to scroll and scroll one of us usually get bored.
We also find it a huge turnoff when someone says you have to include a particular word in your first message.
Makes us feel like a performing monkeys and the spontaneity is lost.
Then just a good balance of what that person is looking for themselves, and what they are looking for from those that message them. |
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"The profile is just the start, it's the messaging that creates the attraction. "
This  nothing worse than thinking someone is totally compatible from the profile then when messaging starts there’s just nothing behind it  |
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The majority of my messages are about my pictures and how I look. Very rarely get someone mention something I’ve written.
So I’d say pictures for the majority is the biggest selling point and for a few, the written part which emphasises the compatibility between yourself and the person who you’re interested in, isn’t as important, unfortunately. |
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"We try to balance with both informative words and enticing pictures.
Hopefully a slightly longer text than most avoids wasted time for all, we think it’s pretty clear we are entirely genuine, what we like and who we are looking for.
We edit regularly too, dormant profile text and old photos don’t show much enthusiasm or attention.
Our biggest issue is ageism. We’ve just clicked into our 50’s but don’t feel it and hopefully don’t look it. But for many irrespective of how ‘good’ our profile is we’re past it! Their time will hopefully come!
X"
So many people say that when they hit 50 they become invisible but the best meets I have had are with people in their 50s! Much more relaxed and comfortable with who they are, less judgemental and more respectful it's the age range I look for |
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Profiles with good pics. If its a couples profile, pics of both not just the female!
Profiles with a status looking to meet before restrictions are fully lifted in June, puts me right off & people meeting during Covid.
Blank profiles are pointless. Too many boring/blank profiles without photo verification & verifications or pics.
A good profile should tempt you to want to find out more... |
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