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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
I'd absolutely appreciate any feedback on my profile. You can be brutally honest 
So "Tumble", is this what springs to mind when you see my profile?
I've been on here for a good number of months but I struggle to even get a reply to messages which are a mix or long and short depending on the profile I'm interested in.
I'm always polite and try it be somewhat engaging.
It could be the mere fact I'm just not anybodies cup of tea facially in which case no amount of advice can help... Lol
Thank you in advance for any tips...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile says: I drive so distance is not an issue and more than happy to accommodate. But further down your profile says cannot travel & cannot accomodate.
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Thanks for that. I missed that. Now updated. |
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You should consider putting up some better quality pics. The two you have on your profile are out of focus and do not help to show you in a good light.
Also, negative status updates are usually a red flag for people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some public pics would help op, don't know if you've made them friends only since asking for advice.
You have a good verification which can take some ages to get. "
Hiya,
Yes I've made them friends only since yesterday. I will make a pic public though... |
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I personally don't even look at messages if there's no profile photo & no public photos at all is definitely a no go for me
But you've had one meet that is more than most guys on here so you're obviously doing better than you think |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Profile pic up now.
Managed to meet someone after 7 months of hard graft.
It's absolutely nuts thats some women get up to 500 messages a day.  . It's no wonder messages are left unread. |
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"Profile pic up now.
Managed to meet someone after 7 months of hard graft.
It's absolutely nuts thats some women get up to 500 messages a day. . It's no wonder messages are left unread. "
Don't worry.. I don't get many messages... So I know how you feel  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"About 50% of your profile is about hygiene. Seems a bit excessive to me
Congratulations on your meet "
absolutely.
Some people think it's OK not to have a shower. I'm not afraid to call off meetings half way. I've had bad experiences before. Its not a big ask for someone just to have a shower before a meet or brushing your teeth and buying maybe a packet of chewing gum.
Any bad odour for me is the biggest turn off. I'd rather spend the time with someone who smells nice over an attractive lass who smells bad. Just my preference. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I appreciate it is your preference, as I'm sure it is also most people's. I was just pointing out that some women will find it offputting that your profile goes on about it at such length. "
I appreciate your comment. Thank you. |
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