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How to get verified to meet verified??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can still meet if you're not verified. Our first verification was from a club owner that we attended. If you go to any club they will verify you."
That's a bit daunting, is cam verification not possible? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You could try getting cam verifications"
You're right, it looks like I can.
"Once you have met or cammed with other verified users, they will be able to verify your profile for you." |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I attended a few socials when I joined in 2010
Got known as a good non pushy guy.
That in turn led to meeting couples then in turn single women.
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Sounds like you've done well. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Downham Market |
"That's a bit daunting, is cam verification not possible?"
Our biggest problem as a couple isn't guys not being who they say they are, or not looking like their photos (which is all cam verifications prove) but guys not turning up to meets. At least a few meet verifications prove that the person will actually turn up.
So - cam verifications are possible, but we (and lots of others) ignore them.
(Bry) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's a bit daunting, is cam verification not possible?
Our biggest problem as a couple isn't guys not being who they say they are, or not looking like their photos (which is all cam verifications prove) but guys not turning up to meets. At least a few meet verifications prove that the person will actually turn up.
So - cam verifications are possible, but we (and lots of others) ignore them.
(Bry)"
I totally understand that, if a cam verification can get me a meet with a verified person then that's ideal for me
Btw, had a peep at your profile (as you do, very nice) I noticed Langtoft Post Office, my family are from there - irrelevant but made me smile 
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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago
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Don't over-stress on the need for a veri. It's not a magic bullet. Single men here of all types struggle and most people are not compatible with most other people, thus good starting chats will largely fizzle out, once people grasp who's not a match
Look also for friendly locals, who could meet and verify you, after a coffee, etc |
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Doesn't it make you wonder though. If the very first member on fabswingers was not verified and a second member joins who is not verified and they want to play it safe by only meeting someone who is verified. Then how does anyone become verified. . . |
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"How do people make their way around the quandary of not being able to meet due to being unverified but need to meet to become verified??"
If you met one of the (I presume) many bi guys offering to give you a blowjob, you'd get some verifications!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do people make their way around the quandary of not being able to meet due to being unverified but need to meet to become verified??
If you met one of the (I presume) many bi guys offering to give you a blowjob, you'd get some verifications! "
I've only had one offer from someone relatively local  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do people make their way around the quandary of not being able to meet due to being unverified but need to meet to become verified??
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Easiest way is to get yourself to a club or social and talk to people, your only down the road from Jaydees, it's bi night there tonight put yourself out there and give it a go.
But don't think that just because you have verifications that it will be any easier then it is without, they aren't the magic ticket to getting meets. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do people make their way around the quandary of not being able to meet due to being unverified but need to meet to become verified??
Easiest way is to get yourself to a club or social and talk to people, your only down the road from Jaydees, it's bi night there tonight put yourself out there and give it a go.
But don't think that just because you have verifications that it will be any easier then it is without, they aren't the magic ticket to getting meets."
I do plan to visit Jaydees or Vanilla, I'm very lucky to have them on my doorstep. Don't worry, I know that the verification won't be a magic bullet, I'm just trying to remove barriers to entry... pardon the pun |
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Remember you don’t have to have sex to be meet verified .
Suggest a social meet on neutral ground, lot of people more willing to do that and also give you a verification after which in turn can help with future meets.
You never know the social May lead some where or you both may realise not for you ( had a both in the past, but if your nice people still happy to verify meet in person)
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Remember you don’t have to have sex to be meet verified .
Suggest a social meet on neutral ground, lot of people more willing to do that and also give you a verification after which in turn can help with future meets.
You never know the social May lead some where or you both may realise not for you ( had a both in the past, but if your nice people still happy to verify meet in person)
Good luck"
Thank you, I hadn't even thought of that. I think I assumed it was shit or bust on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do people make their way around the quandary of not being able to meet due to being unverified but need to meet to become verified??
Easiest way is to get yourself to a club or social and talk to people, your only down the road from Jaydees, it's bi night there tonight put yourself out there and give it a go.
But don't think that just because you have verifications that it will be any easier then it is without, they aren't the magic ticket to getting meets.
I do plan to visit Jaydees or Vanilla, I'm very lucky to have them on my doorstep. Don't worry, I know that the verification won't be a magic bullet, I'm just trying to remove barriers to entry... pardon the pun "
I can't comment on VA but Jaydees is awesome and the fact single guys are always welcome is a big plus for me, you just have to email the club and secure your name on the list.
Yea I get that some will only meet people that are verified so your right you will be removing a small barrier |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"I do plan to visit Jaydees or Vanilla, I'm very lucky to have them on my doorstep."
We should be at MILF Club at Vanilla Alternative on Wednesday afternoon. If you can get there, say hello and we'll verify.
You need to be a member of VA (free online application) and also get added to the single guy list by text message.
(Bry) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do plan to visit Jaydees or Vanilla, I'm very lucky to have them on my doorstep.
We should be at MILF Club at Vanilla Alternative on Wednesday afternoon. If you can get there, say hello and we'll verify.
You need to be a member of VA (free online application) and also get added to the single guy list by text message.
(Bry)"
Thanks Bry, that would be great of you. Milf club sounds like a lot of fun and I like the idea of heading out on a Wednesday afternoon to meet a bunch of likeminded folk. I look forward to hopefully seeing you there x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a Catch 22... most won't meet you without a verification... can't get a verification without a meet!
I was on here couple years ago and had a few verifications... then left. It's hard to get verified again. Even harder as there seem to be an abundance of fake profiles too. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Not being verified doesn't stop you meeting, connect with those whom you would most likely have something in common with. Remember your approach is very important. Everyone started off without being verified by another including myself and didn't take me long after I joined the site and meeting others. So try putting meets via the meet section for social without any expectations, remember you still need to find common ground while chatting on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do people make their way around the quandary of not being able to meet due to being unverified but need to meet to become verified??
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Go to a swingers club |
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