I know it's tough for single men here
If you're not judgemental, happy to share and experience new things
Then do get in touch
I'm not a time waster. I really want to have an experience here
It's not all about sex..I'm happy to meet for coffee and chat..
I'd anyone willing to take a punt and meet for coffee?
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"I suggest you try clubs and group socials."
Definitely next option
I think once people talk to me they know I'm decent person but it's the initial interaction that's not happening
At clubs the vibe will be different people more open to talking |
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"I suggest you try clubs and group socials.
Definitely next option
I think once people talk to me they know I'm decent person but it's the initial interaction that's not happening
At clubs the vibe will be different people more open to talking "
If you're not ready to go there yet, then consider why those you're messaging might not be replying - are you presenting yourself in the best way possible? |
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asking for non judgemental ?? or are you saying people that are not fussy ? there has to be a attraction no matter what weather that is looks or mind ... no swingers go with anybody they all have a type of sorts .. sorry but when picking a play partner everyone is judgemental ...
sadly it will always be hard for men on this scene not all some will succeed with ease but the bulk will alway struggle .... the maths is simple the percentages are stacked against you ...its one scene where there is simply not someone for everyone ..
the only advice i can give is get yourself out there go to a club meet people or another way some seem to get on the ladder is dogging or outdoor fun meet people thats does not mean your going to get sex or fun tho people will always be picky and want what they want ..... thick skin needed and understand rejection is part of the scene and accept alot wont get any meets at all ..
im glad im not a man on this scene
there no such thing as sex on a plate in life lets alone swinging |
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No offence but ....You've been on here 6 weeks and have no public pics other than your profile pic.
Your profile is like your Amazon page .... gotta present yourself the best way possible and maybe give it a little longer
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By *esi70Man
over a year ago
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"I know it's tough for single men here
If you're not judgemental, happy to share and experience new things
Then do get in touch
I'm not a time waster. I really want to have an experience here
It's not all about sex..I'm happy to meet for coffee and chat..
I'd anyone willing to take a punt and meet for coffee?
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Same !!!
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