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Coming out as bi to your wife or gf
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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I'm looking to find out how it was for guys that came out as bi to their wife or gf. Also ladies how did you feel? Was time needed to process the change, did it lead to any relationship changes. Thanks for all your feedback. |
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By *irDomMan 10 weeks ago
Bristol |
It depends on how new your relationship is. I told mine during the early days of ours, 8 years now.
She liked the idea immediately but it took time for it to happen. First she was there watching, never involved, and then downstairs while we were upstairs until it evolved into her she encourages me to meet guys and then wants to hear all about it afterwards.
Perhaps you can talk about it during sex? Fantasies you want to try. Use it to gauge her reaction.
It’s different for all but that’s how I did it.
Good luck and I hope you work it out successfully
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I (husband) kind of turned bi over time as curiosity grew. But told wife at around the 13 year mark in our relationship. She was totally accepting as we had hit a really kinky time in our relationship. Last year she encouraged me to explore it so I jumped on gridr and did just that. Now fully Bi, out in the open, shared plenty of cocks with her and she loves it. |
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Told my wife straight away u was bi and she told me to as she's bi aswell we have been together 14 years married 12 still have bi play when time allows I did tell a gf before k and she broke up with me for it her loss |
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By *omRachCouple 9 weeks ago
Wirral |
I told Rach about 15 years ago who then said that she was not surprised. Over that time we have shared a guy during a 3some but she did admit that watching he and I play did absolutely nothing for her personally.
Despite this she has been very supportive and encouraging in terms of me exploring my bi side and I cannot thank her enough for this. I'm still relatively inexperienced but as my confidence grows so will my knowledge.
I have THE MOST amazing wife. |
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At the very start of our relationship, we sat down and talked about me being a bi guy. She absolutely loved the thought of me playing with guys. 15 years now, married for nearly 3. We’ve shared many a nice cock and juicy pussy together. It’s definitely been a lovely journey so far.  |
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From personal experience, I recommend being open and honest from the start ..
I guess the anxiety there is that you could potentially lose that person once you tell them .. but perhaps best early on before getting too emotionally involved .. |
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Just started as dirty talk while we were fooling around. So I brought it up I'd like to explore and she said OK. First time during a threesome she seen me sucking a fella she said it really turned her on. The last threesome we had she looks the fella in her hand and basically fed him to me. Was really got for all of us |
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