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How to tell your wife or gf you are Bi
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We had that conversation within a few days of hooking up. We had a long chat over wine about fantasies and sexual exploits etc. So we were honest with each other from the start and it's worked out REALLY well |
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Honestly, she probably knows! I'm convinced each of the guys I've been in relationships with were bi and 3 of the 4 have admitted it, usually during sex, I love rimming and playing with the rusty sheriffs badge and every guy I've encountered that way have enjoyed it immensely
Can't remember how I started the conversation with my husband but was definitely during sex and had him telling me about his previous encounters while we were having the most incredible foreplay and sex.
Still love to hear about it and on the verge of possibly setting something up so I can watch.
The idea of him him flirting with a guy, being desired, lusted after kissing and ultimately being slowly and intimately fucked by a guy or t girl turns me on to the max!
I'd just try and get a bit freaky with her and have her rim you, maybe a bit of pegging and let the "in sex dirty talk" leave some open suggestions for her to figure it out herself.
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By *ohn 66Man 8 weeks ago
South Birmingham |
Does a woman playing with a guy's arse really mean that he's bi? How does that work 
For what it's worth, I like men or women playing with my arse, just as long as they have short fingernails  |
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"Does a woman playing with a guy's arse really mean that he's bi? How does that work
For what it's worth, I like men or women playing with my arse, just as long as they have short fingernails "
I don't think so but it opens up the way to enquiring if that particular guy has ever entertained the idea.
I've found most have at least thought about it and felt aroused and I believe some feel too ashamed to admit it too unfortunately.
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I told my now wife at the very start of our relationship that I was bisexual. It intrigued her so much that she decided she wanted to see me with a guy. 16 years now and we’ve never looked back. It’s her bigger turn on. |
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By *anctoMan 7 weeks ago
Holywood/Weston super Mare |
I had a couple here some years ago. He was bi but was terrified that his wife would find out!. After sex she asked me if I would fuck her in the bottom, to which I was delighted to do. She asked her hubby to hold a condom that she insisted that I wear. I loved the experience as I expect he did.
He phoned me later and I told him that his wife was aware of his bi sexuality. He never phoned me again! Oh well... |
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Quite often our awareness and understanding of our sexuality doesn't appear until we'll beyond adolescence. If we're partnered, it's probably better to discuss potential and actual interests and fantasies, maintaining a judgement free attitude, that you can agree to.
We don't have to reveal everything in one go - we can do it progressively, as trust is built and established.
Obviously, some interests would involve other people, especially of a different gender - so having acceptance of a more open relationship would be needed.
Communication is key, alongside building trust |
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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I told my ex I was bi. She wasn’t bothered said it always turned her on thinking about two men playing together. We played a few times with other males and she was so turned on watching me sucking cock. A very horny time. |
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