If anyone called me any of those names it would be an instant block, if anyone who I was playing with said that then I would stop and ask them to leave or leave my self depending on where we were. In the nearly 5 years I’ve been with my partner he’s never once called me or referred to me as any of those names not even in jest.
It’s all individual preference. I’m really wary of using misogynistic terms in the bedroom. It’s not good to perpetuate discrimination, however I do understand that people roleplay with things that feel taboo.
As with any part of sex, consent is key and asking someone’s boundaries beforehand is super important.