I am sure I am not alone in this, I read all the profiles fully and even respond with the secret words to indicate full compliance… you write more that’s just ‘Hi’ make a real effort, behave respectfully and honestly… don’t send ‘dick’ pics as most guys seem too here. Then only to be ignored or blocked ? Is it me and am i doing something wrong … lost of words !! |
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You're not doing anything wrong, it just means they're not interested, don't take it personally. Everyone needs a thick skin to be on here, it's very common for people to send messages and not get replies. |
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They have set a bar.
You have cleared the bar
So they probably have read your message, looked at your profile (maybe stealth mode) and decided that they don’t think you are the right person for them.
The guys who didn’t clear the bar, no secret word etc, probably got deleted without reading
But getting through the filter doesn’t mean you are getting picked, just improves the chances.
My bar is pretty low (be honest, message longer than username) and people still fail.
Don’t give up, it’s hard work but worth it |
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"...Is it me and am i doing something wrong … lost of words!!"
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Dear OP, most women will look at the sender's profile first before opening the message, let alone reply. This still applies if your message is polite and well-mannered, and whether you have read their profile.
You are the common denominator if this is a recurring theme: I suspect the issue is with your profile. There is nothing that truly showcases you; very little to entice the opposite sex or anything that creates a mystique about you.
Your profile text — the first paragraph is just hollow words that say nothing whatsoever. Your second paragraph comes across as negative and resentful. The last paragraph suffuses negativity and a cop out, almost lazy-couldn't-be-bothered.
I think some introspection is required on your part. You need more creative photos, more variety.
Best of luck. ☘️ |
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