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By *ongR OP Man
over a year ago
leamington |
Hi!
So I have been on this site for some time now, and after recently relocating decided to step out from behind that voyeur curtain and aspire to have my first meet.
However, I am struggling to get any response from you fine people of fab! I always try and personalise the 1st message to the person I am messaging: I only suggest I will be gentlemanly and that I would like a social meet 1st and always send a face picture with the message too.
So the reason for my post is, how do you good folks go about making that 1st impression?
Much love
Jx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Short profile.....? Poor pics......?
Most people you message will look at your profile before replying. It's not exactly much of an advert for you is it? |
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By *ongR OP Man
over a year ago
leamington |
"Go to clubs and socials.
Maybe the reason you're not getting replies is because they either don't find you attractive or you're not verified "
Good advice, thank you! However a little nervous about going to a club alone, and unable to become verified without meeting so stuck a little between a rock and a hard place. I appreciate that I wont be everyone's cup of tea and that's more than ok  |
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By *ongR OP Man
over a year ago
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"Short profile.....? Poor pics......?
Most people you message will look at your profile before replying. It's not exactly much of an advert for you is it?"
I shall aim to improve them also |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to clubs and socials.
Maybe the reason you're not getting replies is because they either don't find you attractive or you're not verified
Good advice, thank you! However a little nervous about going to a club alone, and unable to become verified without meeting so stuck a little between a rock and a hard place. I appreciate that I wont be everyone's cup of tea and that's more than ok "
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"Hi!
So I have been on this site for some time now, and after recently relocating decided to step out from behind that voyeur curtain and aspire to have my first meet.
However, I am struggling to get any response from you fine people of fab! I always try and personalise the 1st message to the person I am messaging: I only suggest I will be gentlemanly and that I would like a social meet 1st and always send a face picture with the message too.
So the reason for my post is, how do you good folks go about making that 1st impression?
Much love
Jx"
You should seriously consider deleting this profile and starting a new one because having been on the site for yeah without a meeting will be working against you now. You have explained it in this post but the lack of meets it's not explained on your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go on a social night
I honestly didn't know they were a thing done in groups... I shall look into it more!"
Some clubs have an open night where anyone can go along and just socialise. Some won't allow you to attend the club without going to the social evening and its a minimal charge so won't break the bank |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Go on a social night
I honestly didn't know they were a thing done in groups... I shall look into it more!"
Usually advertised in the forums so keep any eye out...not always in clubs, sometimes in normal pubs, and ive never been to one that has charged though some do to cover room hire/nibbles etc
I do think your age may be your downfall though...i wouldn't personally meet someone my daughters age |
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