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What's wrong with my profile
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"I don't seem to have any luck here, any advice? "
We don't know you or what (if anything) you've been doing.
Read one of the numerous and many advice threads from men. Do a search in the forum for 'profile advice'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is your opening sentence on your profile deliberately ironic?
Try searching the forum for 'profile advice'
There are numerous threads on the subject and you may find some of the advice given to others very helpful.
Most will tell you that two lines of profile text just isn't going to cut it here.
It demonstrates a complete lack of effort - not to mention telling the reader absolutely nothing about you - or perhaps, more importantly, what you have to offer a potential meet.
Why should anyone meet you over someone else?
What makes you stand out?
Currently, absolutely nothing.
You can't accommodate, but by not explaining why, people will automatically assume you are attached and playing without a partners knowledge or consent.
Your profile is your shop window and you only get one chance to make a first impression.
Effort in = rewards out
Currently you are getting the success your effort so far deserves. Sorry to be so harsh, but it's true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jaysus everyday I log on here lately there's someone asking what's wrong with my profile,any advice.... What's it all about? Personally I think its attention seeking..if I'm wrong I apologise   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jaysus everyday I log on here lately there's someone asking what's wrong with my profile,any advice.... What's it all about? Personally I think its attention seeking..if I'm wrong I apologise "
Yep, you're absolutely right.
Strangely enough, some of us had to work things out for ourselves when it came to our own profiles |
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"Jaysus everyday I log on here lately there's someone asking what's wrong with my profile,any advice.... What's it all about? Personally I think its attention seeking..if I'm wrong I apologise "
It is attention seeking, they think when they join there's going to be loads of horny women gagging for their amazing cock.
Then IF they're lucky they realise they're nothing special so have to actually make an effort and listen to the advice given.
They write a decent profile, get a good variety of pictures up, stop sending one liners, get themselves out there to socials to meet people and things change.
But most just keep doing what they're doing because their ego can't accept the fact they're nothing special, at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought introductions was to say something about yourself? lol."
Keep up Shag. Admin took the decision to group all 'profile advice' threads and similar together and stick them in the Introductions section - as they were popping up all over the place.
This one, in particular, originated in 'Swingers Chat' but has been moved by Admin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought introductions was to say something about yourself? lol.
Keep up Shag. Admin took the decision to group all 'profile advice' threads and similar together and stick them in the Introductions section - as they were popping up all over the place.
This one, in particular, originated in 'Swingers Chat' but has been moved by Admin."
I see, must of missed when they said it lol and yes thats a better idea to have all profile advises in one section as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought introductions was to say something about yourself? lol.
Keep up Shag. Admin took the decision to group all 'profile advice' threads and similar together and stick them in the Introductions section - as they were popping up all over the place.
This one, in particular, originated in 'Swingers Chat' but has been moved by Admin.I see, must of missed when they said it lol and yes thats a better idea to have all profile advises in one section as well. "
You would think that maybe guys would read the ones already here rather than posting the same rubbish AGAIN....and then failing to take any advice AGAIN. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You would think that maybe guys would read the ones already here rather than posting the same rubbish AGAIN....and then failing to take any advice AGAIN. "
Well, of course, that is the logical thing to do.
I was wondering if perhaps within the 'forum rules' that pop up whenever you're about to make a post, perhaps there should b an additional line recommending searching for your topic first. Just a thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And when they get advice they dont return for days or if at all,like the previous poster said,its getting very desperate on here and it doesnt look good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just asked for some credible advice yet a lot of negative people "
For the record, I was attempting to be helpful by way of constructive criticism, aimed at getting you to think about your profile.
You should also appreciate that such threads appear many times on a daily basis, from people in very similar positions with very similar profiles and there is a slim possibility that many are growing tired of posting up the same response time after time when the information is already very readily available.
We've also noticed that some of those asking for profile advice, or why they're not getting meets tend to crop up with a similar thread about a week or so later asking pretty much the same thing, having taken on board nothing that has been suggested to them.
I'm not for one moment suggesting that you are likely to do the same, but perhaps trying to offer some suggestions as to why many of the comments on your thread may appear to be negative in their tone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't seem to have any luck here, any advice? "
be prepared to get slated lol....some of them just love to ridicule people...they cant help themselves lol....just be patient buddy....thats what ive been told anyway lol
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Can people please leave the threads like this for what they are intended for. If you don't like reading these threads avoid them rather than complain people are starting them.
This is an advice section for profiles after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't seem to have any luck here, any advice? "
You live all things sexual and want to be pushed to your limits?
So guessing that means you want to start with cucumbers and work your way up to a butternut squash being rammed wide end first up you? |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Folk can only offer generic advice, its for you to intsrpret that and construct a profile that helps rather than hinders,
Its often my aay of thinki.g that if you need to ask advice about how best to describe yourself.. its likely you're not going to figure it out.
Be lucky op... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't seem to have any luck here, any advice? "
it's very dull and boring fella u need to sell ur self ! As there more men on this site than woman . Be a bit more open minded sexy pics invest in some sexy boxers too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I am a TV and it should say TV from Birmingham on my profile but it's says man from Birmingham how I can change this thanks "
Report your profile and admin will change it for you |
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its as much to say ahhhhhh look at me I'm hereeeee 
