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What's wrong with me?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been on this site for a while now and don't chat to every single person that posts a meet as I have a particular type of women in after generally, I have more success with couple than single women. I have tried all sorts of pics and text but nothing seems to work? Have I been cursed by the fab gods or am I just shit ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need patience lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that let their man know they want something bigger and younger !!!"
Ah, so as in, disrespect and make their man feel humiliated by his age and size of manhood . . .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Big black cock" is all well and good, but show a little class along with it and you may have some luck.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see your point thank you it's abit rude |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Haha thanks though it does not say that, just a little crass humour |
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Unpleasant profile.......
No face pictures,
Too many cock shots........
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a great profile and off putting pics especially with what look like bareback shots. The cock profile pic would put me off from even clicking on it. Sorry to be harsh. Try some body shots, bum, torso etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks all been noted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps add in your profile why you can't accommodate. .and sell yourself ...I agree , nice torso pic for the profile would be good ..xx best of luck |
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That's a load of crap I been on here about 2-3 years now met one person and the majority of the time my messages don't get read or deleted straight away so patience got nothing to do with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a load of crap I been on here about 2-3 years now met one person and the majority of the time my messages don't get read or deleted straight away so patience got nothing to do with it "
You're right. But what have you done about it?
And to get back to the OP, have you tried / thought about socials or clubs? |
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Well I tried changing pics profile everything about it and no joy I understand that there a lot more single guys than women but it only takes 2 minutes to just say sorry not my type instead of being ignorant |
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"That's a load of crap I been on here about 2-3 years now met one person and the majority of the time my messages don't get read or deleted straight away so patience got nothing to do with it "
Might have something to do with the whiny status as that makes the first impression your giving people of you is a negative one from the get go. Woe is me posts are never attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I tried changing pics profile everything about it and no joy I understand that there a lot more single guys than women but it only takes 2 minutes to just say sorry not my type instead of being ignorant "
How does that help? An ignored message and a no thanks achieve the same thing - no meet. |
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Maybe so but it's nice to be polite manners cost nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe so but it's nice to be polite manners cost nothing "
Are you aware why some women don't reply? Would you rather log onto an inbox full of no thanks messages? |
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If I get a message which is very very rare it's usually off a guy and even tho I'm not into guys I always reply just to be polite |
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It wouldn't both me I have more respect for women who are honest and just say not interested than ones that ignore |
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As for the OP as others have aid cock shots just don't cut it for most you can still be discreet with your pics by using a torso, bum, legs etc just don't show any tattoos and your profiles already improved by that alone
Bravo for added suggested changes to your profile text though most ask for advice but then don't take it so your already giving a good impression |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I get a message which is very very rare it's usually off a guy and even tho I'm not into guys I always reply just to be polite "
So if you got 50 similar messages a day would you reply to them all and then be happy to get abuse from some in return? Your time on here will be much better if you accept a no reply as a no thanks, its life on here. |
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But again it's ignorant and I'm sure the majority of you women on here were brought up not dragged up well sometimes I wonder and if people give abuse just block them |
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And as for accepting a no reply as a no thanks I have done that quite a lot and it don't make it any better |
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"It wouldn't both me I have more respect for women who are honest and just say not interested than ones that ignore "
You do realise if your not a site supporter you can only send 100 messages in a 24hr period. If you don't have message filters set as a woman you can get more than 100+ messages in a day alone so if she logs in to even just 101 messages everyday there's no logically way to respond to everyone is there? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But again it's ignorant and I'm sure the majority of you women on here were brought up not dragged up well sometimes I wonder and if people give abuse just block them "
No its not. I can give a polite no thanks then get a torrent of personal abuse and name calling, I don't need that. I can't give you profile advice as you haven't asked for it but I'd say it was the main reason you get ignored. All the best my lovely  |
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Nah how can profile be the main reason I get ignored when people don't even look at profile just the profile pic the problem is that too many people who are shallow and think they gods gift |
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"But again it's ignorant and I'm sure the majority of you women on here were brought up not dragged up well sometimes I wonder and if people give abuse just block them "
Another good way to look at it is do you reply to every piece of junk mail that get posted through your letter box at home to say no thanks to the sender? Or do you just throw it in the bin if your not interested? |
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And they say don't judge a book by its cover lol |
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"Nah how can profile be the main reason I get ignored when people don't even look at profile just the profile pic the problem is that too many people who are shallow and think they gods gift "
I've just figured out your problem it's your sense on entitlement, assumption and general attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah how can profile be the main reason I get ignored when people don't even look at profile just the profile pic the problem is that too many people who are shallow and think they gods gift "
How do you know they don't look? |
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Junk mail at home is totally different that's not sending a specific message to a specific person cos you would like a chance of meeting them |
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Cos it says on the home page if someone has viewed profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cos it says on the home page if someone has viewed profile "
You do realise people can view in stealth mode? I've looked but don't show do I? |
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My attitude is fine I just get fed up of making an effort to send a message just to get blanked |
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"Junk mail at home is totally different that's not sending a specific message to a specific person cos you would like a chance of meeting them "
Some junk mail comes with your name in so yes the analogy works very well so get out you pen and start replying to them as you shouldn't be ingnorant manners cost nothing |
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"Nah how can profile be the main reason I get ignored when people don't even look at profile just the profile pic the problem is that too many people who are shallow and think they gods gift "
Many, including myself, use stealth mode to look at profiles so you may well not be aware that people you message do look at your profile and make their decision to reply or not.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My attitude is fine I just get fed up of making an effort to send a message just to get blanked "
I think this is the wrong site for you. |
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I don't know I'm not a site supporter so can't see who or who hasn't viewed my profile it just says how many people have viewed it |
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"My attitude is fine I just get fed up of making an effort to send a message just to get blanked "
Well it doesn't come across as your attitude is fine and sorry to be blunt if you can't handle the rejection in any form your in the wrong place. I send messages and they can get ignored too I just choose to move on gracefully instead of bitching about it |
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Why is it wrong site for me I just want the same as everybody else on here and thats a bit of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know I'm not a site supporter so can't see who or who hasn't viewed my profile it just says how many people have viewed it "
So you have no idea if someone has viewed you or not so can't say they haven't. |
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Yeah but I bet you don't get ignored 99 times out of 100 like I do |
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"I don't know I'm not a site supporter so can't see who or who hasn't viewed my profile it just says how many people have viewed it "
Yes but as mentioned that figure doesn't include the people that choose to opt out of who's looked at me via the privacy options in the account settings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but I bet you don't get ignored 99 times out of 100 like I do "
If it makes you this depressed why bother? |
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"Yeah but I bet you don't get ignored 99 times out of 100 like I do "
You would be surprised it's just a no thanks nothing more you need to stop taking it so personally or leave |
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As far as I know it just says a certain number of people have viewed my profile and then I send a message and then it's deleted and the number don't change so as far as I'm concerned that person who has just deleted the message has not seen profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As far as I know it just says a certain number of people have viewed my profile and then I send a message and then it's deleted and the number don't change so as far as I'm concerned that person who has just deleted the message has not seen profile "
Or they view in stealth mode? |
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Who said anything about being depressed at times I get fed up with up with it but that's it |
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I've never seen an option to view in stealth mode before when I'm viewing a profile |
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"As far as I know it just says a certain number of people have viewed my profile and then I send a message and then it's deleted and the number don't change so as far as I'm concerned that person who has just deleted the message has not seen profile "
Your just not getting this are you? They could have read the profile but opted out of showing on who's looked at me aka viewing in stealth mode so there for will not add to the figures shown |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never seen an option to view in stealth mode before when I'm viewing a profile "
In the privacy settings hide on looked at me.
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"Who said anything about being depressed at times I get fed up with up with it but that's it "
You don't have to specifically say it but reading between the lines it's how it comes across |
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No your not getting my point too many people on here are ignorant and got no manners that's all I was trying to say but people saying my attitude etc and leave why should I leave I have just as much right as anybody else to come on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who said anything about being depressed at times I get fed up with up with it but that's it
You don't have to specifically say it but reading between the lines it's how it comes across "
I'm glad it wasn't just me. This site can make or break some people but ultimately you are the only one who can change your success or otherwise. |
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My apologies I didn't know that was in the settings but now I know I'm sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No your not getting my point too many people on here are ignorant and got no manners that's all I was trying to say but people saying my attitude etc and leave why should I leave I have just as much right as anybody else to come on here "
It's been said before many, many times but just see a no reply as a no thank you. |
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I have done everything to try make it successful but gets me nowhere |
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"No your not getting my point too many people on here are ignorant and got no manners that's all I was trying to say but people saying my attitude etc and leave why should I leave I have just as much right as anybody else to come on here "
For crying out loud it's only you that believes it's ignorant so yes you've got the wrong attitude
Excuse me whilst I go get more sense out of banging my head against the nearest brick wall! |
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"I have done everything to try make it successful but gets me nowhere "
Well clearly you haven't as your profile is bare and boring doesn't stand out at all |
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People obviously not getting my point I said before for a long time I would accept it just after a while it does start to get on my nerves |
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Well that's cos I thought nobody bothers anyway when I changed it numerous times so thought fuck it just make it plain again |
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"I have done everything to try make it successful but gets me nowhere "
Really?
What have you done..?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done everything to try make it successful but gets me nowhere "
If you think your profile is the absolute best it can be then fine. It and any message you send has to stand out amongst probably 30 plus others, do you think it currently does that? Have you got yourself out there at social meets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No your not getting my point too many people on here are ignorant and got no manners that's all I was trying to say but people saying my attitude etc and leave why should I leave I have just as much right as anybody else to come on here
For crying out loud it's only you that believes it's ignorant so yes you've got the wrong attitude
Excuse me whilst I go get more sense out of banging my head against the nearest brick wall! "
May I keep you company?! |
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Cos it is ignorant like I said before I was brought up not to be ignorant and be polite so if you think it's not ignorant then you obviously was dragged up with no manners and you the one with the attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cos it is ignorant like I said before I was brought up not to be ignorant and be polite so if you think it's not ignorant then you obviously was dragged up with no manners and you the one with the attitude "
So you say you get ignored 99 times out of 100. Would you prefer 99 no thanks messages? Send your message then delete it from your sent inbox and forget about it, you'll either get a reply or you won't. |
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"Well that's cos I thought nobody bothers anyway when I changed it numerous times so thought fuck it just make it plain again "
And how do you realistically know that? Are you a psychic? |
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Ya know what forget it I might as well bang my head against a wall cba too many people think it's ok to be rude n ignorant no winder the world it's in the state it's in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ya know what forget it I might as well bang my head against a wall cba too many people think it's ok to be rude n ignorant no winder the world it's in the state it's in "
But the people who are commenting on this thread are successful on here so do you really think they are rude and ignorant? |
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"No your not getting my point too many people on here are ignorant and got no manners that's all I was trying to say but people saying my attitude etc and leave why should I leave I have just as much right as anybody else to come on here
For crying out loud it's only you that believes it's ignorant so yes you've got the wrong attitude
Excuse me whilst I go get more sense out of banging my head against the nearest brick wall!
May I keep you company?!"
By all means it's much more productive |
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"Ya know what forget it I might as well bang my head against a wall cba too many people think it's ok to be rude n ignorant no winder the world it's in the state it's in "
Even if everyone was as polite as you want them to be, you still end up with no meets... |
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So if people would reply just to say no thanks then fair enough I would be happy with that and I would even send one back saying no worries hope u find what you are looking for |
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"Ya know what forget it I might as well bang my head against a wall cba too many people think it's ok to be rude n ignorant no winder the world it's in the state it's in "
And again a perfect example of the poor petulant child attitude you've got
Wha wha wha mummy no one will play by my rules
You may not see your attitude as coming acros that way but I'm sorry to tell you it does |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if people would reply just to say no thanks then fair enough I would be happy with that and I would even send one back saying no worries hope u find what you are looking for "
Can't you just take their lack of reply as a reply and imagine it as a "No thank you"? |
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No need to get personal I'm getting my point across I have not once been personal against anybody on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I can't "
That's a shame. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if people would reply just to say no thanks then fair enough I would be happy with that and I would even send one back saying no worries hope u find what you are looking for
Can't you just take their lack of reply as a reply and imagine it as a "No thank you"?"
He'd obviously prefer 100 no thanks, not my type messages. God, how demoralising! |
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"So if people would reply just to say no thanks then fair enough I would be happy with that and I would even send one back saying no worries hope u find what you are looking for
Can't you just take their lack of reply as a reply and imagine it as a "No thank you"?"
Obviously he can't |
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I prefer honesty not ignorance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cos it is ignorant like I said before I was brought up not to be ignorant and be polite so if you think it's not ignorant then you obviously was dragged up with no manners and you the one with the attitude "
Theres nothing like getting personal to make yourself attractive to others 
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"No need to get personal I'm getting my point across I have not once been personal against anybody on here "
Believe it or not I'm not getting personal I'm trying to help you out by showing you how your comments are being perceived by others and trust me it's not just me reading them that way
And if we're discussing being rude you owe the OP an apology for hi jacking his thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer honesty not ignorance "
Do you reply to everything that is put through your letterbox at home? |
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"I prefer honesty not ignorance "
So what is dishonest about not replying? |
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Originally I wasn't hijacking it I was only replying to what somebody said about having patience that was it but everybody started jumping on my back then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer honesty not ignorance "
Your profile is crap and your negative attitude displayed in this thread is probably the reasoon you're struggling. Honest enough for you bud ? |
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"I prefer honesty not ignorance "
It's ironic but you've been quite ignorant yourself on this thread |
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I already explained that one before not explaining it again |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
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I'm not convinced he knows the meaning of ignorance. He keeps saying it but not sure in the prpper context. I have been on here for 2 years and only had 2 meets. I know my profile is probably shit and is a big factor on why i dont get many meets but i havent put any real effort into it either. I think this is a good site and have made several non-sexual friends. I can't imagine the number of messages single females get on a daily basis when you look at the number of single males on here thinking that all they have to do is sign up for a swinger site and pussy will rain from the sky. Don't take it so personal. |
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Another one giving it my attitude etc god give me strength |
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"I prefer honesty not ignorance
Do you reply to everything that is put through your letterbox at home?"
He's already said that it's not rude to ignore junk mail
He hasn't quite realised that a message from someone with a crap profile is an actually junk mail on fab |
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Forget it I can't win too many people against me |
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"How have I been ignorant "
If you can't figure that out for yourself there's no help you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would anyone want a long drawn out conversation on why they do not want you?
Her |
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"Another one giving it my attitude etc god give me strength "
So you "respect" honesty but can't handle it? interesting |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"I prefer honesty not ignorance
Your profile is crap and your negative attitude displayed in this thread is probably the reasoon you're struggling. Honest enough for you bud ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forget it I can't win too many people against me "
People were actually trying to help explain why people ignore you but if you can't help yourself its fruitless. |
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Look I didn't come on this forum for abuse I'm not giving anybody else abuse so why are people giving me it |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"Another one giving it my attitude etc god give me strength
So you "respect" honesty but can't handle it? interesting "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look I didn't come on this forum for abuse I'm not giving anybody else abuse so why are people giving me it "
I can't see anyone giving you abuse, quite the opposite, they're trying to hep you but you're so negative you're taking it all the wrong way. |
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"Look I didn't come on this forum for abuse I'm not giving anybody else abuse so why are people giving me it "
Calling all those who don't reply to messages ignorant may be regarded as abuse...and that includes several ladies in this thread. |
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That's not abuse it is ignorant |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"Look I didn't come on this forum for abuse I'm not giving anybody else abuse so why are people giving me it
Calling all those who don't reply to messages ignorant may be regarded as abuse...and that includes several ladies in this thread."
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"That's not abuse it is ignorant "
Errr....I repeat.... Calling people ignorant IS abuse... |
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Err no its not if people are being ignorant it's not abuse |
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"That's not abuse it is ignorant
Errr....I repeat.... Calling people ignorant IS abuse..."
Yes and you not being able to understand that is ignorance |
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Nah I no I'm right if I call people ignorant cos they are being ignorant it's not abuse if I called people ignorant and they wasn't being ignorant then it would be abuse |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
Is almost comical how you are "ignorant" to the fact that all these people were trying to help you but you were to busy throwing your own pity party to see it. |
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Who rattled your cage and threw u a banana |
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"Nah I no I'm right if I call people ignorant cos they are being ignorant it's not abuse if I called people ignorant and they wasn't being ignorant then it would be abuse "
The point people are trying to make is if the woman hasn't specifically asked you to mail her, then you doing so is essentially junk mail if she's not interested so by deleting it she is not being ignorant, so you then calling her ignorant is then abusive and a poor show of attitude
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fucking hell, so you didn't get a reply, its not like someone died, build a fucking bridge and get over it, give them a reason to reply instead of wallowing in your own self pity. |
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"Is almost comical how you are "ignorant" to the fact that all these people were trying to help you but you were to busy throwing your own pity party to see it. "
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
Hey man. It's a public forum. If you don't want people butting in then don't post on a public forum |
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No not attitude at all its people being ignorant |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"Fucking hell, so you didn't get a reply, its not like someone died, build a fucking bridge and get over it, give them a reason to reply instead of wallowing in your own self pity. "
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Well people too quick to comment who don't even no me yeah I'm having a rant cos I'm sick of wasting my time sending messages only to be ignored but then I get told I've got an attitude and I'm being rude and leave etc |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
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"No not attitude at all its people being ignorant "
do yourself a favor and look up the meaning of ignorance and see if it means what you think it does.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well people too quick to comment who don't even no me yeah I'm having a rant cos I'm sick of wasting my time sending messages only to be ignored but then I get told I've got an attitude and I'm being rude and leave etc "
And you are labelling people you don't know as ignorant. Oh the irony. |
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It means people being ignorant |
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"Well people too quick to comment who don't even no me yeah I'm having a rant cos I'm sick of wasting my time sending messages only to be ignored but then I get told I've got an attitude and I'm being rude and leave etc "
No no. You stay and carry on sending messages.... |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"Well people too quick to comment who don't even no me yeah I'm having a rant cos I'm sick of wasting my time sending messages only to be ignored but then I get told I've got an attitude and I'm being rude and leave etc
And you are labelling people you don't know as ignorant. Oh the irony."
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I didn't come on here for an argument I just said one comment then everyone gives me a hard time jesus christ |
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"It means people being ignorant "
Taken from the Oxford English Dictionary;
Definition of ignorance in English:
noun
[MASS NOUN]
Lack of knowledge or information:
he acted in ignorance of basic procedures |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"Who rattled your cage and threw u a banana "
oh and for as for thus comment. It's all the girls not messaging you back rattling my cage and it's me giving then the bananas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't come on here for an argument I just said one comment then everyone gives me a hard time jesus christ "
Jesus Christ, people were trying to help and offering advice. Carry on doing what you're doing, nothing will change. |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"It means people being ignorant
Taken from the Oxford English Dictionary;
Definition of ignorance in English:
noun
[MASS NOUN]
Lack of knowledge or information:
he acted in ignorance of basic procedures"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who rattled your cage and threw u a banana oh and for as for thus comment. It's all the girls not messaging you back rattling my cage and it's me giving then the bananas. "
Is there custard with those bananas
Her |
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Oh you really are a stud muffin ain't ya hmm |
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Oh you can read as well blimey what's the world Coming to |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"Who rattled your cage and threw u a banana oh and for as for thus comment. It's all the girls not messaging you back rattling my cage and it's me giving then the bananas. Is there custard with those bananas
Her"
always lol |
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Everyone e so funny yeah all ganging up on someone who is struggling on here |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"Oh you really are a stud muffin ain't ya hmm "
all I know is apparently I'm doing better than you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh you can read as well blimey what's the world Coming to "
You do realise you're being very rude to people who are trying to help you  |
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"Everyone e so funny yeah all ganging up on someone who is struggling on here "
FFS your not being ganged up on we were all trying to make you see sense and you can't because your blinded by your own negativity and self pity
Seriously for your own sanity just walk away from the thread now |
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He not trying to help me he trying to take the piss out of me to make himself look big n clever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone e so funny yeah all ganging up on someone who is struggling on here "
They were offering advice and trying to help but you've taken offence to it and your increasingly negative attitude towards the help just displays why you may be struggling on here. You can take the advice, act on it and try everything you can to improve your experience on here or you can carry on as you are, it doesn't affect us or our success. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"Everyone e so funny yeah all ganging up on someone who is struggling on here
FFS your not being ganged up on we were all trying to make you see sense and you can't because your blinded by your own negativity and self pity
Seriously for your own sanity just walk away from the thread now "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cos it is ignorant like I said before I was brought up not to be ignorant and be polite so if you think it's not ignorant then you obviously was dragged up with no manners and you the one with the attitude "
This is an example of you abusing most of the people in the thread!
I'll never reply to people I have no intention of meeting. I have neither the time nor desire. Read the site FAQ if you can't get your head around this. |
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Ok I'm listening what can I do to make my time on here a success |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stop moaning is a key.
Her |
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Look I have just said I'm listening therefore not ranting now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Err no its not if people are being ignorant it's not abuse "
In what way are they being ignorant? It seems to be a word you like using... |
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Look forget the ignorant thing I'm asking for help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I'm listening what can I do to make my time on here a success"
You really think people will want to help you now |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"Ok I'm listening what can I do to make my time on here a success"
I know I've pissed you off by poking fun but seriously. Look in the introduction forum and read the treads of other guys asking for help. There are tons of them asking the same questions you are with tons of advice from people. That's where I would start |
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"Ok I'm listening what can I do to make my time on here a success"
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As we've already been trying to tell you open your mind and adjust your attitude to your approach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look I have just said I'm listening therefore not ranting now "
You profile is a little crude and says nothing about you, what you can offer, why you're here and what you're looking for plus your status is very negative. |
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This is the introduction forum lol |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"This is the introduction forum lol "
Lol I forgot. But don't look at my profile for help like I said before it's shit. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is the introduction forum lol "
He means do a search of profile advice on here, there's loads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's up to them not you "
If you use the 'reply+quote' button people will know who you're talking to |
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Lol ok sorry for giving you abuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just wants to know how come it's near impossible to talk to any women on here. It's not like I'm a weirdo just want to have a chat and that and if we connect them see from there but nothing I say gets a response :s |
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I apologise to all who I have ranted at and called them ignorant and I apologise to the person who started this thread I just want to be successful as others and have some fun nothing wrong with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wants to know how come it's near impossible to talk to any women on here. It's not like I'm a weirdo just want to have a chat and that and if we connect them see from there but nothing I say gets a response :s"
Women don't want their pussy eaten all night, its boring! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wants to know how come it's near impossible to talk to any women on here. It's not like I'm a weirdo just want to have a chat and that and if we connect them see from there but nothing I say gets a response :s
Women don't want their pussy eaten all night, its boring!"
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"Just wants to know how come it's near impossible to talk to any women on here. It's not like I'm a weirdo just want to have a chat and that and if we connect them see from there but nothing I say gets a response :s"
I've been there buddy, and all I can say is there are way more men on here than women and they get bombarded with so many messages sometimes that if there isn't something in the title that catches their eye they just delete them. Biggest mistake you can make is just putting "hello" in the title line. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow and I thought I had issues hahah thanks for having your own little issue on my thread though, love the emails |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And btw thanks to everyone who actually helped ME lool all taken on board and been instantly more successful, maybe you should chill bro and take a leaf outta these guys books |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And btw thanks to everyone who actually helped ME lool all taken on board and been instantly more successful, maybe you should chill bro and take a leaf outta these guys books "
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I just changed my profile have a look people let me know what you think hope it's good enough |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"I just changed my profile have a look people let me know what you think hope it's good enough "
Looks better to me (of course that's not saying much). Just stay positive and keep your head up. Hopefully the ladies will give you some good advice instead of my useless nonsense lol |
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Lol I can't see if anyone checked profile lol damn u stealth mode |
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By *SEguyMan
over a year ago
Cuba |
"Lol I can't see if anyone checked profile lol damn u stealth mode "
That made me laugh lol |
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Lol I changed mine to stealth mode |
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Need the lady's to give me their verdict lol |
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