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Standing out in a sausage fest

By *hil J OP Man over a year ago

Hoylake

Blimey, this site is seeming hard work. Ha ha. Trying to write the perfect profile, the perfect first message with the perfect subject title and have the perfect photos, just to get talking to someone.

I'm not complaining, as such, it's just so male dominated it's ridiculous.

I think I need to get involved in some socials to meet people and prove that I'm not a weirdo and am genuine. Any suggestions in merseyside?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ironically, you're part of the problem then.....

Just go to a social - it's a good idea.

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By *hil J OP Man over a year ago

Hoylake

I'm not sure how I'm part of the problem, ironically or not. Think the problem is guys that go on here when they have no intention of meeting in the first place, who enjoy the chase and the interactions, but once 'satisfied' bugger off until the next time they have the 'urge'. I'm pretty sure I'm coming across as genuine, but provenance is pretty difficult. Anyway...to the socials! Ha ha

I hope o haven't come across as defensive, mate, it's just a bit frustrating.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

However hard you try, you'll never be perfect for everyone, although reading profiles will help you write a better message.

However there is a good club not far from you called Townhouse, and they do have special times for single men new to the scene etc to get to know the club. I do believe there is a Liverpool social post around the forums too.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You're not coming over as defensive - I meant you're also a single guy so adding to the number.

You're coming over as erudite and intelligent and I'm sure you'll get a shag soon.

Ps. I don't fancy you at all.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

So far all looks good, apart from the cock pic. A torso pic would be better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So far all looks good, apart from the cock pic. A torso pic would be better

Going to clubs and socials would be better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi Phil, and welcome. Joining in thr forums here is a good start as your face will start to get recognised. Socials are great as a pp has said. I like your profile, its a lot me engaging than most, I think you'll do well once you start getting out there.

Check the meets forum for socials and the lounge and swingers chat for fun and chat