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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
Been on fab now a couple of months and although I'm no Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt,I don't think I'm that bad looking....so why can't I get any meets?
I try to be sincere & funny in my messages...I'm always honest.
I've seen a lot of the males on this site while chatting in the cam rooms and I honestly think I'm better looking than 75% of them.
So where am I going wrong?
I've been single for over 12 months now and it's getting to me not having female interaction.  |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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9 weeks, there are guys on here who have waited 9 months or longer you just have to be patient and keep trying. Just because it is a swinging site does not mean people are just going to queue up to shag you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your status doesn't help. ..you can't accommodate, which is fair enough but an explanation why you can't because lots will think you're cheating. ..and more of a profile |
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There appears to be a sense of entitlement and your aggressive status isn't going to attract anyone.
Your tattoo is awesome, you're smiling which is good - perhaps more variety of photos would be good.
Your profile is mainly a wish list of what you want - nothing about what's in it for a lady.
Go to a social or club and make connections. I had myself recommended around a few couples once I got going so don't give up. |
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"Your profile sounds a bit cold to me
Hi.....care to explain your reply and I'll try to rectify it."
To be a successful swinger, you could try looking at it from a potential sex partners point of view. Pretend you're a lady and read your profile out loud. Come back and tell us if you think it sounds really inviting.....or not. |
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Only an opionion.. appreciate we sometimes put a wishlist on our profiles.. how ever yours does come across slightly 'redgimentented' and it could put ladies off wanting to meet you as you already got a long list of wishes... my humble advice.. and its only an opnion...remove the wish list
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your in the 25% of the market that I'm not better looking at. "
Your getting it all wrong if your looking at it like that...just think, there's someone for everyone rather than competing with what's out there.
The 25% prob get knocked back for various reasons just as much as this so called 75% you refer too.
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"Your in the 25% of the market that I'm not better looking at.
Your getting it all wrong if your looking at it like that...just think, there's someone for everyone rather than competing with what's out there.
The 25% prob get knocked back for various reasons just as much as this so called 75% you refer too.
Expect less & be pleasantly surprised "
The gentleman is correct, that is just entitled nonsense. Attraction is in the eye of the beholder, and that attitude is very off-putting. Personally I don't find your profile appealing as there's no humour or sense of personality, and physically you're not what I'm attracted to.
Have a look at some successful guys profiles, and tailor yours accordingly.
Good luck
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Good luck OP. Your profile doesn't appeal at all to me, and any message would be a no thanks and good luck.
Its too much of a list of demands, and makes you sound like any meet would be a tick things off the list rather than any mutual fun. |
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I think u should have a big clean out n don't put all those thing u want to do . I think that would scare off a lot of ladies just a bit about urself n not what u want to do . When u meet people then u can discuss what u want to do n it should happen naturally not telling people what u want to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you tried tinder, me and my partner met or tinder (just looking for fun profiles) he had about 8 women he was seeing for just no strings sex, before I deleted his accounts and he is 40, with a few extra pounds
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't matter if you think you're better looking than the guys who get attention.
1. Not everyone focuses on looks.
2. Not everyone will agree with you. |
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"Doesn't matter if you think you're better looking than the guys who get attention.
1. Not everyone focuses on looks.
2. Not everyone will agree with you."
3. not everybody are looking for a single man. |
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