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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for your posts...
I am not from the selfie generation so maybe that needs work
And I'm guessing after being randomly attacked by another that I may have a partner that the general consensus is if you can't host your in a relationship. I'd just like to comment in good nature everybody has life events and situations that lead you to a certain path. Please don't prejudge people without considering the fact not everybody is bad  |
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"Thank you all for your posts...
I am not from the selfie generation so maybe that needs work
And I'm guessing after being randomly attacked by another that I may have a partner that the general consensus is if you can't host your in a relationship. I'd just like to comment in good nature everybody has life events and situations that lead you to a certain path. Please don't prejudge people without considering the fact not everybody is bad "
The usual advice is to explain why you can't accommodate e.g housemates, live with parents etc to avoid being thought of as a married 'single' guy.
As to how to meet couples, we only meet in clubs or at organised socials now after being let down too many times. That may be worth a try. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for posting wise words
Yes I've just learnt that lesson and subsequently updated to why. An unfortunate bout of naivety but for honest good reasons.... Let's bring the peace and love back and think goodness in each other... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you for posting wise words
Yes I've just learnt that lesson and subsequently updated to why. An unfortunate bout of naivety but for honest good reasons.... Let's bring the peace and love back and think goodness in each other... "
What are "family commitments?" |
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"Thank you all for your posts...
I am not from the selfie generation so maybe that needs work
And I'm guessing after being randomly attacked by another that I may have a partner that the general consensus is if you can't host your in a relationship. I'd just like to comment in good nature everybody has life events and situations that lead you to a certain path. Please don't prejudge people without considering the fact not everybody is bad "
Wow...
"randomly attacked"
and the last sentence seems to indicate a pretty volatile outlook to put it mildly..
People are just trying to help so there's really no need for that kind of response
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Your opinion is noted but without seeing what was sent how can you be sure that your conclousion is correct. Assumption based on your own beliefs is not always the appropriate response to situations that you have no knowledge.
Myself and concerned parties are all fine and friends now. Hence it was all sorted in private not in public
I respect your outlook is a good one |
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"Your opinion is noted but without seeing what was sent how can you be sure that your conclousion is correct. Assumption based on your own beliefs is not always the appropriate response to situations that you have no knowledge.
Myself and concerned parties are all fine and friends now. Hence it was all sorted in private not in public
I respect your outlook is a good one"
I naturally assumed you were referring to a comment made to you in this thread, where people have so far been benign and helpful |
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"Thank you all for your posts...
I am not from the selfie generation so maybe that needs work
And I'm guessing after being randomly attacked by another that I may have a partner that the general consensus is if you can't host your in a relationship. I'd just like to comment in good nature everybody has life events and situations that lead you to a certain path. Please don't prejudge people without considering the fact not everybody is bad "
Who on this post attached you? |
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"Thank you all for your posts...
I am not from the selfie generation so maybe that needs work
And I'm guessing after being randomly attacked by another that I may have a partner that the general consensus is if you can't host your in a relationship. I'd just like to comment in good nature everybody has life events and situations that lead you to a certain path. Please don't prejudge people without considering the fact not everybody is bad
Who on this post attached you? "
*attacked |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you for posting wise words
Yes I've just learnt that lesson and subsequently updated to why. An unfortunate bout of naivety but for honest good reasons.... Let's bring the peace and love back and think goodness in each other... "
hey you will learn you die by your word in forums and many don't like in their words " cheaters" I don't give a toss personally your choice but sometimes you're better not to mention it ,coz the holier than thou come out the woodwork ,good luck with fab my friend a very frustrating place for some guys  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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This is not what I wanted it to become as it was supposed to be about advice not picking at personal situations which in all honesty should not have to be discussed if the person does not want too. But I do respect people's rights to opinions and thoughts as that's what's makes u different
I apologise to any if my profile prefs are not to everybody's taste I never wanted it to be a reason to question or judge
I'm just here to have fun and walk away with a smile |
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"This is not what I wanted it to become as it was supposed to be about advice not picking at personal situations which in all honesty should not have to be discussed if the person does not want too. But I do respect people's rights to opinions and thoughts as that's what's makes u different
I apologise to any if my profile prefs are not to everybody's taste I never wanted it to be a reason to question or judge
I'm just here to have fun and walk away with a smile "
I wasn't picking at your personal situation I was merely pointing out that other won't see it as an excuse, especially if they are in a similar situation and choose conduct themselves differently |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Let's just say we all have diff things going on at diff times, one person situation may not necessarily reflect onto another's
let's chill and have fun without looking to question, at the end of the day if the person situ concerns you don't interact and move on to sum1 whose you are ok with |
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"This is not what I wanted it to become as it was supposed to be about advice not picking at personal situations which in all honesty should not have to be discussed if the person does not want too. But I do respect people's rights to opinions and thoughts as that's what's makes u different
I apologise to any if my profile prefs are not to everybody's taste I never wanted it to be a reason to question or judge
I'm just here to have fun and walk away with a smile "
Are you now referring to points made on this thread or elsewhere?...
From what I can see you've had nothing but help and advice on this thread, no judgement or criticism...
but perhaps you're referring to remarks made to you in private...who knows? |
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"Let's just say we all have diff things going on at diff times, one person situation may not necessarily reflect onto another's
let's chill and have fun without looking to question, at the end of the day if the person situ concerns you don't interact and move on to sum1 whose you are ok with "
As I said I wasn't questioning I was trying to make a point one that clearly gone over your head |
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Hi op, well your profile ..its all very generic and your two penis photo would put me off, try a search in the forums loads and loads of advise to choose from then tell us a bit about yourself and try to add a funny..good luck on fab ..connie x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need about 15 cock pics allways seem to work for other males hehe "
But these must be accompanied by the universal measure of size & prowess, a can of Lynx or a sky remote! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Recent loss"
Personally, we prefer married people but many here see that as cheating and will be put off by a vague explanation. Good luck to you, all the same. No one can force you to discuss what you perceive as a private matter. In our opinion (for what it is worth), it is likely to affect your success rate here. |
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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago
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"You need about 15 cock pics allways seem to work for other males hehe
But these must be accompanied by the universal measure of size & prowess, a can of Lynx or a sky remote! "
hehe deffo |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"I'm sure I'm not the only one on here but I am averaging zero interest nightly with couples.. What's the magic needed?"
First rule of couples meets club... You don't talk about.....
I always suggest the same wise words and sage advice..
There are countless threads offering generic advice in the archives, happy reading. |
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"You need about 15 cock pics allways seem to work for other males hehe
But these must be accompanied by the universal measure of size & prowess, a can of Lynx or a sky remote! "
Don't forget the can of fosters as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get to a club and socialise. Get yourself known as an outgoing friendly chap. You're not likely to get meets off here by just a profile. Put yourself out there by showing you are serious about meeting people for socials and the rest will follow.
Now imagine a couple that need a man to join them, are they going to spend time browsing profiles or are they going to say let's invite so and so that we met last month? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok, here is some advice...
-The fact that you can't accommodate will hurt you a bit. Lots of couples don't accommodate for various reason so it leaves the question of where to meet.
-When you message a couple, speak to them both, not just the man or the woman. This will make couples feel more comfortable with you as you are meeting both of them.
-The fact that you are bi curious will put some straight couples off (because they don't like playing with bi guys) and will put some bi couples off (because many would prefer bi guys over bi curious). People can be strange about this with men so the fact that you are a bit on the fence may make it difficult for you.
-Lots of couples only meet at clubs. That can get expensive for a single guy so you have to consider your options. Socials may be a cheaper way to go.
-Other than that I would say the same advice I'd give to any guy. Don't write generic messages, only contact those couples where you meet what they are looking for, read profiles, etc.
Good luck and have fun.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok, here is some advice...
-The fact that you can't accommodate will hurt you a bit. Lots of couples don't accommodate for various reason so it leaves the question of where to meet.
-When you message a couple, speak to them both, not just the man or the woman. This will make couples feel more comfortable with you as you are meeting both of them.
-The fact that you are bi curious will put some straight couples off (because they don't like playing with bi guys) and will put some bi couples off (because many would prefer bi guys over bi curious). People can be strange about this with men so the fact that you are a bit on the fence may make it difficult for you.
-Lots of couples only meet at clubs. That can get expensive for a single guy so you have to consider your options. Socials may be a cheaper way to go.
-Other than that I would say the same advice I'd give to any guy. Don't write generic messages, only contact those couples where you meet what they are looking for, read profiles, etc.
Good luck and have fun.
-Courtney "
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's just say we all have diff things going on at diff times, one person situation may not necessarily reflect onto another's
let's chill and have fun without looking to question, at the end of the day if the person situ concerns you don't interact and move on to sum1 whose you are ok with "
asking for advice on here ,which is a common everyday thing turns into a personal disection of your written character with assumptions being made about your integrity as a person ,their are many married people playing away here people who say they love their husbands and wives but who put that at risk being here ,their are even couples that meet together but one or the other of them cheat with people they meet and its an immoral world is swinging but still you are open to criticism hehe just get out of the site what you want |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's just say we all have diff things going on at diff times, one person situation may not necessarily reflect onto another's
let's chill and have fun without looking to question, at the end of the day if the person situ concerns you don't interact and move on to sum1 whose you are ok with asking for advice on here ,which is a common everyday thing turns into a personal disection of your written character with assumptions being made about your integrity as a person ,their are many married people playing away here people who say they love their husbands and wives but who put that at risk being here ,their are even couples that meet together but one or the other of them cheat with people they meet and its an immoral world is swinging but still you are open to criticism hehe just get out of the site what you want "
Well, obviously asking for a criticism of a profile will result in analysis of the text. That is in line with the request.
I am not sure why you say that swinging is immoral, though, unless you are taking a religious view. |
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