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Am I really that bad looking??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can't figure out why so many women on here just point blank refuse to chat or even acknowledge me on here. Finding it a bit of a complex former lol.
Who else has this issue?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm ugly......but my previous profile had so many verifications it broke fab lol! So I had a break and started another.
Beauty or ugliness is in the eye of the beholder. I'm sure somebody will behold you soon m8. |
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"Can't figure out why so many women on here just point blank refuse to chat or even acknowledge me on here. Finding it a bit of a complex former lol.
Who else has this issue??"
I've never contacted you but I have acknowledged you. It's the gleam of silver from the edge of themselves cloud of gloom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask yourself why you're on this site 
It's for swinging.... which is a lifestyle choice 
Part of that is socialising with each other as much as it is sex.
Imagine yourself in a pub, for example. How are you going to meet women or couples in there?
It's not about flopping your cock out and saying "cum get it" 
And smiling helps too
What makes you attractive over and above the thousands of other single men |
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This is the problem with advice threads insofar as those who like cum photos now can't see them. I'm all in favour of people taking advice given but I think being a bit selective about what advice you choose to take would be of benefit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't figure out why so many women on here just point blank refuse to chat or even acknowledge me on here. Finding it a bit of a complex former lol.
Who else has this issue??"
Try a pic where your smiling it's a bit passport,a smile opens your personality so others can see it |
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"Get rid of the cum pic and write something about you.
Taken on board what you advised thanks x"
Since you are taking advice on your profile, then I'll give mine...
The pictures you have don't really give an idea of your physique and would give others good reason to skip past your profile.
A pic of your torso would be good. Don't have to be full torso. Could be separate ones of bum, back,arms,chest etc. Show off the good bits!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good start.
Now go through your photos and find a couple that show you doing something that you like doing and where you're naturally smiling. They are far more natural than passport photo style faces. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's true it does, but I thought I'd go with the banter ish option rather than the ' lets fuck now' option lol"
And when you reply to someone's comment hit the reply and quote button. Helps people know who or what you're responding to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good start.
Now go through your photos and find a couple that show you doing something that you like doing and where you're naturally smiling. They are far more natural than passport photo style faces. "
Cheers mate but to be honest the only pics I have to hand that are normal etc are with my daughter and I don't really wanna put a pic of her here. That said I will be seeking out some rugby pics now haha |
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By *jj46Man
over a year ago
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"I'm ugly......but my previous profile had so many verifications it broke fab lol! So I had a break and started another.
Beauty or ugliness is in the eye of the beholder. I'm sure somebody will behold you soon m8."
my profile on another site done work pretty well for an ugly bloke plus can't all be Brad Pitt. ,and people always look better than there pic In real life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good start.
Now go through your photos and find a couple that show you doing something that you like doing and where you're naturally smiling. They are far more natural than passport photo style faces.
Cheers mate but to be honest the only pics I have to hand that are normal etc are with my daughter and I don't really wanna put a pic of her here. That said I will be seeking out some rugby pics now haha"
Remember to crop everyone else out, obviously. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Take the picture of the celebrity down  or celebrity look alike.
Im sure the guy in question would be thrilled lol"
Hahaha oops didn't mean to put that one on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not bad looking, but I personally find low self esteem unattractive. Don't know how it is with most women."
It's not low self esteem mate believe me. It was more a ponderous question |
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"Not bad looking, but I personally find low self esteem unattractive. Don't know how it is with most women.
It's not low self esteem mate believe me. It was more a ponderous question"
It's a question lots of men ask on here. The fact is that men outnumber women and often the guys join with high expectations that are soon dashed. Persistence and patience will sometimes pay off.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's actually quite refreshing to see a thread where the OP actively listens to and takes action on the feedback provided.
Good luck fella, you're a good looking lad and loads of ladies love the rugby type so I'm sure you'll do well in here. I hope you find what you're looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I struggle to figure out why so many females rate themselves so highly when they are so average. I think it may be because so many desperate men on here give them the adulation they need they become confused. Another thing I find is certain areas / regions have high
Numbers of profiles which say no blacks / Asians which although I can understand - surely it indicates how simple minded they are. As a child I hated mushrooms but quite enjoy them now equally I used to love sambuca but can't stomach it now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I struggle to figure out why so many females rate themselves so highly when they are so average. I think it may be because so many desperate men on here give them the adulation they need they become confused. Another thing I find is certain areas / regions have high
Numbers of profiles which say no blacks / Asians which although I can understand - surely it indicates how simple minded they are. As a child I hated mushrooms but quite enjoy them now equally I used to love sambuca but can't stomach it now. "
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Usually it is someone who has been told no by a lady they think should of said yes who thinks this way..
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No, it is an indication of their preference.
I like mushrooms. But I don't like them on pizza..
I like JD.. But I can't drink it on its own..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's true it does, but I thought I'd go with the banter ish option rather than the ' lets fuck now' option lol"
I get told mine looks like a dating site one too, I like the fact yours is not a fancy a fuck or I am a x year old looking to meet xyz. Yours has some personality in it and I like it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take it you changed your profile cos it is rather good although you look quite scary in your profile pic. ...I prefer the other pic when you are smiling but you are far from ugly I think you are quite handsome and love the beard. Mrs A x |
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"I struggle to figure out why so many females rate themselves so highly when they are so average. I think it may be because so many desperate men on here give them the adulation they need they become confused. Another thing I find is certain areas / regions have high
Numbers of profiles which say no blacks / Asians which although I can understand - surely it indicates how simple minded they are. As a child I hated mushrooms but quite enjoy them now equally I used to love sambuca but can't stomach it now. "
I rate myself highly it's got nothing to do with what anyone on here has said to me, it's known as self worth. I'm very clear thinking and not confused at all except when it comes to quantum mechanics and the offside rule.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I take it you changed your profile cos it is rather good although you look quite scary in your profile pic. ...I prefer the other pic when you are smiling but you are far from ugly I think you are quite handsome and love the beard. Mrs A x"
Why thank you for that. Sorry for delay x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's true it does, but I thought I'd go with the banter ish option rather than the ' lets fuck now' option lol
I get told mine looks like a dating site one too, I like the fact yours is not a fancy a fuck or I am a x year old looking to meet xyz. Yours has some personality in it and I like it "
Thanks for the feedback. Loving your profile too xx |
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"I struggle to figure out why so many females rate themselves so highly when they are so average. I think it may be because so many desperate men on here give them the adulation they need they become confused. Another thing I find is certain areas / regions have high
Numbers of profiles which say no blacks / Asians which although I can understand - surely it indicates how simple minded they are. As a child I hated mushrooms but quite enjoy them now equally I used to love sambuca but can't stomach it now.
I rate myself highly it's got nothing to do with what anyone on here has said to me, it's known as self worth. I'm very clear thinking and not confused at all except when it comes to quantum mechanics and the offside rule. "
How dare you rate yourself highly. You are female. You must not refuse to chat, have preferences or have a positive body image and cracking self esteem.
Know your place female, know your place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't listen to women when they call you ugly mate, it's harder for us guys, we have to show our true selves it's not like we can wear make up and hide what we really look like  |
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"Don't listen to women when they call you ugly mate, it's harder for us guys, we have to show our true selves it's not like we can wear make up and hide what we really look like
Cheers pal "
When I have to verify people after events there's 2 main things I notice
1. Guys are generally much hotter and nicer than their basic pictures /profiles .unless they are model type ones and then you can be disappointed
So you need to get out in the scene .for the REAL you to be known
2.females always ask for a face pic /body shot. Not a Cock pic
And.most people on fabs that Sit behind a screen and hope a profile will get them amazing sex will be sadly disappointment .
Cyber will never beat real life chemistry x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't figure out why so many women on here just point blank refuse to chat or even acknowledge me on here. Finding it a bit of a complex former lol.
Who else has this issue??"
I have the same issue, but I have an avatar and a couple of pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi
Looks like you've had some good advice already. although the dating profile description indicates what you're like in the public domain it doesn't tell anyone what you like in sex. I've found that our sexual desires can be the complete opposite of how we are in the public eye - it's the quiet ones that are the worse
This is a sexual site so people generally want to know what excites you, what you might give in pleasure to them. The FS interests are too black and white, your profile is where you can add colour and nuance. It also shows how much imagination you might have. I've found that the mind can be as stimulating as physical touch.
Also perseverance. Not everyone will be your cup of tea. But the more you try then it'll be easier to spot the ones who are more likely to respond and have a good time with... can't believe I've just added an analogy with tea
And when you do get a knock back. accept it like a gentleman, say thanks for their honesty and move on.
Have you also tried adding an advert under meets? This will raise your profile. create an enticing title like ex Marine looking for a frolic in the countryside...Maybe you're free one Saturday afternoon and looking for a mischievous person to meet for a coffee, check there's a mutual attraction and then go for a naughty stroll in the countryside
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"Can't figure out why so many women on here just point blank refuse to chat or even acknowledge me on here. Finding it a bit of a complex former lol.
Who else has this issue??"
Hi man and your not a bad looking guy at all you will do find as it's been said just be your self and it will happen when I go to clubs I treat it as a pub or bar go for a drink a laugh if I get anything then yey if not still a good night anyway good luck
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"Can't figure out why so many women on here just point blank refuse to chat or even acknowledge me on here. Finding it a bit of a complex former lol.
Who else has this issue?? Hi man and your not a bad looking guy at all you will do find as it's been said just be your self and it will happen when I go to clubs I treat it as a pub or bar go for a drink a laugh if I get anything then yey if not still a good night anyway good luck
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"Get anything" ! |
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