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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hardly any text.
some might not really be interested in smoke/smoke pics/regardless of the substance
you cant accommodate, questions are usually risen about infidelity |
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Your profile pretty much says the same as every other young guys that your young and you want to meet for fun so it does nothing to stand out
Your profile also says your a non smoker but in your two most recent pics your blowing what appears to me smoke out your mouth buit of a contradiction |
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"Saying you're a non smoker but having a photo showing you blowing smoke out might be a good place to start....."
I agree, also the smoke blowing ones are not the most flattering.
You need to say more about what you are looking for, what you can offer and smile 
I suspect you can't accommodate as still live at home, but saying why will help.
At least that's my opinion.
Best of luck.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Saying you're a non smoker but having a photo showing you blowing smoke out might be a good place to start....."
I am a non smoker that's from a vapour |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile pretty much says the same as every other young guys that your young and you want to meet for fun so it does nothing to stand out
Your profile also says your a non smoker but in your two most recent pics your blowing what appears to me smoke out your mouth buit of a contradiction "
I am I non smoker it's from a vapouriser |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Saying you're a non smoker but having a photo showing you blowing smoke out might be a good place to start.....
I am a non smoker that's from a vapour
Oh, you mean an e-cig  "
Well there classed as a e-cig but mine is a full on vapour mod |
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"Saying you're a non smoker but having a photo showing you blowing smoke out might be a good place to start.....
I am a non smoker that's from a vapour
Oh, you mean an e-cig
Well there classed as a e-cig but mine is a full on vapour mod "
So why do you bother?
It would put me, and probably others, off as you will still be perceived as a smoker. |
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"the chav look don't help "
 bit rude!
Your style OP isn't to my taste, but if it's you, it's you.
Also you will find your age off-putting for a lot of people as previously mentioned.
Sell yourself- what have you got to offer?
Your hopes- what sort of lady would you like to meet? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Saying you're a non smoker but having a photo showing you blowing smoke out might be a good place to start.....
I am a non smoker that's from a vapour
Oh, you mean an e-cig
Well there classed as a e-cig but mine is a full on vapour mod
So why do you bother?
It would put me, and probably others, off as you will still be perceived as a smoker."
I was a smoker but not anymore that's why I bother with it |
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"Your profile pretty much says the same as every other young guys that your young and you want to meet for fun so it does nothing to stand out
Your profile also says your a non smoker but in your two most recent pics your blowing what appears to me smoke out your mouth buit of a contradiction
I am I non smoker it's from a vapouriser "
And hasn't the fact a few have said the same thing made you realise it's a natural assumption many will come to and it will put many off meeting you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"the chav look don't help
bit rude!
Your style OP isn't to my taste, but if it's you, it's you.
Also you will find your age off-putting for a lot of people as previously mentioned.
Sell yourself- what have you got to offer?
Your hopes- what sort of lady would you like to meet? "
That's why I put my pics like that cos I ain't going to say I am something I am not and thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile pretty much says the same as every other young guys that your young and you want to meet for fun so it does nothing to stand out
Your profile also says your a non smoker but in your two most recent pics your blowing what appears to me smoke out your mouth buit of a contradiction
I am I non smoker it's from a vapouriser
And hasn't the fact a few have said the same thing made you realise it's a natural assumption many will come to and it will put many off meeting you "
Yes but I ain't going to be something I am not so if people don't like it then I don't mind |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ah bless the poor young one only asked a simple question and now everyone is ripping him lol"
It don't bother me if people are ripping me cos I know I am been myself |
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"Ah bless the poor young one only asked a simple question and now everyone is ripping him lol
It don't bother me if people are ripping me cos I know I am been myself "
Being yourself is all you have to be. It's a waiting game. You may have to wait until you're 42 like wot I did. |
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"What can I do to make my profile better thanks for the help "
Seriously, smoking or vaping isnt everyones cup of tea, maybe put those images as private and can be sent to those that do enjoy it, there will be some I'm sure, but also sure they will also put some off, therefore reducing your fan base.
Good luck in your journey |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ah bless the poor young one only asked a simple question and now everyone is ripping him lol
It don't bother me if people are ripping me cos I know I am been myself
Being yourself is all you have to be. It's a waiting game. You may have to wait until you're 42 like wot I did. "
I wunt be on this site for that long lol |
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"Your profile pretty much says the same as every other young guys that your young and you want to meet for fun so it does nothing to stand out
Your profile also says your a non smoker but in your two most recent pics your blowing what appears to me smoke out your mouth buit of a contradiction
I am I non smoker it's from a vapouriser
And hasn't the fact a few have said the same thing made you realise it's a natural assumption many will come to and it will put many off meeting you
Yes but I ain't going to be something I am not so if people don't like it then I don't mind "
That's fair enough but you asked for help and advice, you've been given the same advice from several sources I would say the improvements you need to make are obvious. Of course they are suggestions and you can chose to do as you have, to ignore them, when you could even compromise by putting a simple line in the profile to say "I class myself as a non-smoker because I only vape and that's what my photos represent" and it would clarify it for the more casual observer making the smoker assumptions |
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"Your profile pretty much says the same as every other young guys that your young and you want to meet for fun so it does nothing to stand out
Your profile also says your a non smoker but in your two most recent pics your blowing what appears to me smoke out your mouth buit of a contradiction
I am I non smoker it's from a vapouriser
And hasn't the fact a few have said the same thing made you realise it's a natural assumption many will come to and it will put many off meeting you
Yes but I ain't going to be something I am not so if people don't like it then I don't mind
That's fair enough but you asked for help and advice, you've been given the same advice from several sources I would say the improvements you need to make are obvious. Of course they are suggestions and you can chose to do as you have, to ignore them, when you could even compromise by putting a simple line in the profile to say "I class myself as a non-smoker because I only vape and that's what my photos represent" and it would clarify it for the more casual observer making the smoker assumptions "
It's funny because personally I put his username and his photos together. I'm surprised others didn't tbh. |
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"Your profile pretty much says the same as every other young guys that your young and you want to meet for fun so it does nothing to stand out
Your profile also says your a non smoker but in your two most recent pics your blowing what appears to me smoke out your mouth buit of a contradiction
I am I non smoker it's from a vapouriser
And hasn't the fact a few have said the same thing made you realise it's a natural assumption many will come to and it will put many off meeting you
Yes but I ain't going to be something I am not so if people don't like it then I don't mind
That's fair enough but you asked for help and advice, you've been given the same advice from several sources I would say the improvements you need to make are obvious. Of course they are suggestions and you can chose to do as you have, to ignore them, when you could even compromise by putting a simple line in the profile to say "I class myself as a non-smoker because I only vape and that's what my photos represent" and it would clarify it for the more casual observer making the smoker assumptions
It's funny because personally I put his username and his photos together. I'm surprised others didn't tbh."
I know many that smoke/vape the "smoke" coming from his mouth doesn't resemble that of cigarettes or vaping but does resemble the cloud of smoke that bellows out after using Hookha or as it's generally more commonly known shisha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wunt be on this site for that long lol
You're looking for a relationship then? Not to enjoy the swinging lifestyle?"
No I am not looking for a relationships I just wunt me on this site for that long |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile pretty much says the same as every other young guys that your young and you want to meet for fun so it does nothing to stand out
Your profile also says your a non smoker but in your two most recent pics your blowing what appears to me smoke out your mouth buit of a contradiction
I am I non smoker it's from a vapouriser
And hasn't the fact a few have said the same thing made you realise it's a natural assumption many will come to and it will put many off meeting you
Yes but I ain't going to be something I am not so if people don't like it then I don't mind
That's fair enough but you asked for help and advice, you've been given the same advice from several sources I would say the improvements you need to make are obvious. Of course they are suggestions and you can chose to do as you have, to ignore them, when you could even compromise by putting a simple line in the profile to say "I class myself as a non-smoker because I only vape and that's what my photos represent" and it would clarify it for the more casual observer making the smoker assumptions
It's funny because personally I put his username and his photos together. I'm surprised others didn't tbh."
That is why I have got my name like that but looks like most people ain't a smart as your |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Vaping and alcohol is not a good look ...
Shouldnt you be out playing on your skateboard"
I don't drink so I don't know where you got the alcohol from |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your profile pretty much says the same as every other young guys that your young and you want to meet for fun so it does nothing to stand out
Your profile also says your a non smoker but in your two most recent pics your blowing what appears to me smoke out your mouth buit of a contradiction
I am I non smoker it's from a vapouriser
And hasn't the fact a few have said the same thing made you realise it's a natural assumption many will come to and it will put many off meeting you
Yes but I ain't going to be something I am not so if people don't like it then I don't mind
That's fair enough but you asked for help and advice, you've been given the same advice from several sources I would say the improvements you need to make are obvious. Of course they are suggestions and you can chose to do as you have, to ignore them, when you could even compromise by putting a simple line in the profile to say "I class myself as a non-smoker because I only vape and that's what my photos represent" and it would clarify it for the more casual observer making the smoker assumptions
It's funny because personally I put his username and his photos together. I'm surprised others didn't tbh.
I know many that smoke/vape the "smoke" coming from his mouth doesn't resemble that of cigarettes or vaping but does resemble the cloud of smoke that bellows out after using Hookha or as it's generally more commonly known shisha "
The smoke coming out my mouth is from a vapeing it's call having a good vapouriser the the cloud chasers |
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"Your profile pretty much says the same as every other young guys that your young and you want to meet for fun so it does nothing to stand out
Your profile also says your a non smoker but in your two most recent pics your blowing what appears to me smoke out your mouth buit of a contradiction
I am I non smoker it's from a vapouriser
And hasn't the fact a few have said the same thing made you realise it's a natural assumption many will come to and it will put many off meeting you
Yes but I ain't going to be something I am not so if people don't like it then I don't mind
That's fair enough but you asked for help and advice, you've been given the same advice from several sources I would say the improvements you need to make are obvious. Of course they are suggestions and you can chose to do as you have, to ignore them, when you could even compromise by putting a simple line in the profile to say "I class myself as a non-smoker because I only vape and that's what my photos represent" and it would clarify it for the more casual observer making the smoker assumptions
It's funny because personally I put his username and his photos together. I'm surprised others didn't tbh.
I know many that smoke/vape the "smoke" coming from his mouth doesn't resemble that of cigarettes or vaping but does resemble the cloud of smoke that bellows out after using Hookha or as it's generally more commonly known shisha
The smoke coming out my mouth is from a vapeing it's call having a good vapouriser the the cloud chasers "
newer studies show there's not really a "good vape" they have long term side effects. Most of the ones that give the strong smoke effect yours does were actually recalled and users were advised to desist using them |
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Putting aside the vaping issue,
You've had advice and it's been two days and the profiles not changed in anyway
What kind of person do you find attractive?
What's on your bucket list?
What can you offer them?
What drew you to a swingers site?
Etc
In regards to pics they all in some way promote a negative image so you will continue to be passed over for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's hard on fab for males because there is so many males on here, and a lot pretend they are couples, also a lot are married and just looking for a quick fuck, others are time wasters, so the genuine guys miss out most of the time, and you sound very in mature, that's why I like going to the clubs you can chat to a couple face to face, and I hade some fantastic times and met lots of new friends |
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"It's hard on fab for males because there is so many males on here, and a lot pretend they are couples, also a lot are married and just looking for a quick fuck, others are time wasters, so the genuine guys miss out most of the time, and you sound very in mature, that's why I like going to the clubs you can chat to a couple face to face, and I hade some fantastic times and met lots of new friends"
Actually the "bad guys" you mention make the good ones stand out more to most people, if you're not successful it's got frig all to do with anyone else it's all on you! |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"It's hard on fab for males because there is so many males on here, and a lot pretend they are couples, also a lot are married and just looking for a quick fuck, others are time wasters, so the genuine guys miss out most of the time, and you sound very in mature, that's why I like going to the clubs you can chat to a couple face to face, and I hade some fantastic times and met lots of new friends
Actually the "bad guys" you mention make the good ones stand out more to most people, if you're not successful it's got frig all to do with anyone else it's all on you! "
Agreed. I know some guys who do very well on here. They regularly get messages off women saying how great it was to see a nice profile, or how it was lovely to get a nice message for once. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"Putting aside the vaping issue,
You've had advice and it's been two days and the profiles not changed in anyway
What kind of person do you find attractive?
What's on your bucket list?
What can you offer them?
What drew you to a swingers site?
Etc
In regards to pics they all in some way promote a negative image so you will continue to be passed over for them "
I don't think your photos are too bad. I would explain about the smoke ones to clarify what the smoke is. You also need to add more text to your profile. If you send people a message, the first thing they do is check your profile......so it needs to be good. Interesting. Stand out from the rest of the guys.
You have received lots of advise, so act on it and see how things go. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your profile pretty much says the same as every other young guys that your young and you want to meet for fun so it does nothing to stand out
Your profile also says your a non smoker but in your two most recent pics your blowing what appears to me smoke out your mouth buit of a contradiction
I am I non smoker it's from a vapouriser
And hasn't the fact a few have said the same thing made you realise it's a natural assumption many will come to and it will put many off meeting you
Yes but I ain't going to be something I am not so if people don't like it then I don't mind
That's fair enough but you asked for help and advice, you've been given the same advice from several sources I would say the improvements you need to make are obvious. Of course they are suggestions and you can chose to do as you have, to ignore them, when you could even compromise by putting a simple line in the profile to say "I class myself as a non-smoker because I only vape and that's what my photos represent" and it would clarify it for the more casual observer making the smoker assumptions
It's funny because personally I put his username and his photos together. I'm surprised others didn't tbh.
I know many that smoke/vape the "smoke" coming from his mouth doesn't resemble that of cigarettes or vaping but does resemble the cloud of smoke that bellows out after using Hookha or as it's generally more commonly known shisha
The smoke coming out my mouth is from a vapeing it's call having a good vapouriser the the cloud chasers
newer studies show there's not really a "good vape" they have long term side effects. Most of the ones that give the strong smoke effect yours does were actually recalled and users were advised to desist using them"
Well if they was all recalled and advised to desist using them then why do they still sell them cos it's a load of shit |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Or the ring on his ring finger says he can't accomadate 
It's a mirror picture though so that would be his right hand "
Finally someone are click on to that it's on my right hand even tho I did say it lol |
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"There you go guys I have edited the text abit is that any better "
Other than the odd grammatical error (and some will be sticklers for that) it's an improvement, you could maybe discuss the interests you've ticked to say what about them you enjoy and which you've done or want to do to give people an idea of your experience without going into too much graphic sexual detail |
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