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Any advice? Trying to improve profile and messages!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
Same as the rest, trying to get a better reaction. I appreciate this isn't the place for single men ideally. Right now, I'm just looking for regular fun, and this place seems more suited to that than others. Any advice on my profile welcome.
Should my messages just be vivid and sexy from the get go? Or are polite introductions more appreciated? The latter hasn't worked so far...
Thanks all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all,
Same as the rest, trying to get a better reaction. I appreciate this isn't the place for single men ideally. Right now, I'm just looking for regular fun, and this place seems more suited to that than others. Any advice on my profile welcome.
Should my messages just be vivid and sexy from the get go? Or are polite introductions more appreciated? The latter hasn't worked so far...
Thanks all."
There is nothing wrong with your profile as such but it wouldn't make us want to meet you. It comes across as generic with no sense of personality. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The 420 thing really puts me off, i wouldnt expect a meet to light up a joint whilst i was there"
Fair play, not how I meant it, but how it is interpreted is the important bit, thanks! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There is nothing wrong with your profile as such but it wouldn't make us want to meet you. It comes across as generic with no sense of personality."
Ok thanks, I ll work on that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The 420 thing really puts me off, i wouldnt expect a meet to light up a joint whilst i was there
Fair play, not how I meant it, but how it is interpreted is the important bit, thanks! "
I stopped giving profile advice out along time ago. I'd rather see a profile that is a reflection of who they are. Now the OP has removed the 420 reference. I'd rather know if someone was a pot head. Massive filter for me.
All giving profile advice does is make everyone sound like the perfect meet. We will end up with one big generic profile - one size fits all but satisfies no one.
Keep it real people!! Do a profile that reflects who you are. Not strangers on the Internet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I stopped giving profile advice out along time ago. I'd rather see a profile that is a reflection of who they are. Now the OP has removed the 420 reference. I'd rather know if someone was a pot head. Massive filter for me.
All giving profile advice does is make everyone sound like the perfect meet. We will end up with one big generic profile - one size fits all but satisfies no one.
Keep it real people!! Do a profile that reflects who you are. Not strangers on the Internet. "
In theory this is bang on the money. Everyone should be exactly who they are. Just like people are constantly told to in real life.
However when push comes to shove if you try to stand out as your individual self, you become a niche market that only a small section of people would be interested in. So obviously you then try to suppress that side of you and be more 'mainstream' to appeal to a wider audience. Congratulations, you now fit the same generic cookie-cutter model as the next million or so people after you... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The 420 thing really puts me off, i wouldnt expect a meet to light up a joint whilst i was there
Fair play, not how I meant it, but how it is interpreted is the important bit, thanks!
I stopped giving profile advice out along time ago. I'd rather see a profile that is a reflection of who they are. Now the OP has removed the 420 reference. I'd rather know if someone was a pot head. Massive filter for me.
All giving profile advice does is make everyone sound like the perfect meet. We will end up with one big generic profile - one size fits all but satisfies no one.
Keep it real people!! Do a profile that reflects who you are. Not strangers on the Internet. "
To be fair, after trying to be exactly myself and not getting anywhere, figured some changes were needed. And all the 420 meant was I was happy for people to smoke, I've seen the same thing re other drugs on more successful profiles? This shit gets confusing doesn't it! Haha! Well I ll keep it as is and hope for the best! Thanks again for all the input, more is welcome. |
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your unique profile which you wrote for yourself, complete with the 420 reference, would have worked given time with no changes.
If you chop and change it based on any advice given, it won't be your profile - it will be a mush mash of what other people like to see, and ultimately, won't work. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"your unique profile which you wrote for yourself, complete with the 420 reference, would have worked given time with no changes.
If you chop and change it based on any advice given, it won't be your profile - it will be a mush mash of what other people like to see, and ultimately, won't work. "
Noted, thanks for the honesty, maybe I ll reword it then... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There's no need to mention you don't like big ladies, just don't approach them. Try not to put anything negative, but rather concentrate on positive things. Good luck. |
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