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How to get verified?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm beginning to wonder if FabSw is a 'closed shop'...? So it seems after being on here for some time now. I've met some ladies, but its much harder [quite often too!] to get people to agree to verify...Why is that the case? Seems odd.
Any other views on this?
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"I'm beginning to wonder if FabSw is a 'closed shop'...? So it seems after being on here for some time now. I've met some ladies, but its much harder [quite often too!] to get people to agree to verify...Why is that the case? Seems odd.
Any other views on this?
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You will need to ask the ladies why they didn't verify you, no one else can give you their reasons.
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Only a guess, but if you have had a few meets, and none have verified you, then the common denominator is you. As said above, ask the ladies why they havent verified you?
You might not like the answers tho lol!
Just a thought, but did you verify them first, perhaps they are waiting to see what you said before sending you a verification? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Perhaps the reason is me, but as I've met ladies off FabSw more than once, and still do including last night! It can't be anything I'm doing - at least that's what it seems to me.
Just seems to be an odd situation. Perhaps there is a secret code???
Perhaps, it doesn't even matter.
It does puzzle me though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no code just ask them to verified you
i had ask 1 but refuse to do so there choice cant force any 1 to do it
but as you said you met them more than 1 then no harm in asking them
god luck |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Some people will verify, others won't. I met a couple at a party and they have never verified me, whereas they went on to verify others, and we have met again so dunno what they don't like about me. But this is what I say after meets:
Do you mind if I verify you, and if not, will you please verify me?
If after that they don't verify you then you are meeting strange people.  |
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"Only a guess, but if you have had a few meets, and none have verified you, then the common denominator is you. As said above, ask the ladies why they havent verified you?
You might not like the answers tho lol!
Just a thought, but did you verify them first, perhaps they are waiting to see what you said before sending you a verification?"
I don't think you can if you're not verified yourself
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some 1 tried 2 get me talking 2 a male friend of theirs
to verified me over the fone
am not interested in males only females
the user says fed up with me now an has block me should i report this?
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"some 1 tried 2 get me talking 2 a male friend of theirs
to verified me over the fone
am not interested in males only females
the user says fed up with me now an has block me should i report this?
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Report what exactly?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont talk with males only interested in females (it clearly states on my profile)
the female wanted me 2 phone her male partner to get me verified
why cant the female not talk 2 me instead
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"i dont talk with males only interested in females (it clearly states on my profile)
the female wanted me 2 phone her male partner to get me verified
why cant the female not talk 2 me instead
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Still the same question - what were you thinking of reporting?
If you had phoned him you could have verified him as a male and that you had talked to him by phone but you didn't so you can't, other people verify people by phone so is it really that wrong?
So still here |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"i did not fone him or he fone me
its really rule breaking
as it be a fake
as i said before
anyways user is reported
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How do you know he is a fake if you didn't speak to him??
You can't report people because you didn't want to phone them just because they are male, well you can as you just have but ............
Aw well, I will leave you to it ......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People are not obliged to verify. If you met these ladies via Fab, then message and ask them if they wouldnt mind verifying you. If they say no then theres nothing you can do about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i did not fone him or he fone me
its really rule breaking
as it be a fake
as i said before
anyways user is reported
How do you know he is a fake if you didn't speak to him??
You can't report people because you didn't want to phone them just because they are male, well you can as you just have but ............
Aw well, I will leave you to it ...... "
read the 1 st post
iam not interested in single men
so if i single gay on to verified me
it be class a fake
right
if not
my profile will be a lie
when I'm not interested in males
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"i did not fone him or he fone me
its really rule breaking
as it be a fake
as i said before
anyways user is reported
How do you know he is a fake if you didn't speak to him??
You can't report people because you didn't want to phone them just because they are male, well you can as you just have but ............
Aw well, I will leave you to it ...... read the 1 st post
iam not interested in single men
so if i single gay on to verified me
it be class a fake
right
if not
my profile will be a lie
when I'm not interested in males
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Thats not what it would have meant if you had written it the way you wanted to - All you had to say was you had talked to this male by phone and confirm he is a male - lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i did not fone him or he fone me
its really rule breaking
as it be a fake
as i said before
anyways user is reported
How do you know he is a fake if you didn't speak to him??
You can't report people because you didn't want to phone them just because they are male, well you can as you just have but ............
Aw well, I will leave you to it ...... read the 1 st post
iam not interested in single men
so if i single gay on to verified me
it be class a fake
right
if not
my profile will be a lie
when I'm not interested in males
Thats not what it would have meant if you had written it the way you wanted to - All you had to say was you had talked to this male by phone and confirm he is a male - lol "
still class as lieing when am not interested in them |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"only going bye the rules
don't want to lie "
There is no rule that one male can't verify another male and just because you speak to another male on the phone it doesn't mean you are gay or bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"only going bye the rules
don't want to lie
There is no rule that one male can't verify another male and just because you speak to another male on the phone it doesn't mean you are gay or bi. "
u no that i no that
but as its my profile
only speak with females so i have rules set as others do |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"i dont talk with males only interested in females (it clearly states on my profile)
the female wanted me 2 phone her male partner to get me verified
why cant the female not talk 2 me instead
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Can I ask was this a single females profile or a couples? |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"only going bye the rules
don't want to lie
There is no rule that one male can't verify another male and just because you speak to another male on the phone it doesn't mean you are gay or bi. u no that i no that
but as its my profile
only speak with females so i have rules set as others do"
ok, my last word on the subject, I promise....
So he broke your rules and not the site rules... I get it now |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"only going bye the rules
don't want to lie
There is no rule that one male can't verify another male and just because you speak to another male on the phone it doesn't mean you are gay or bi. u no that i no that
but as its my profile
only speak with females so i have rules set as others do
ok, my last word on the subject, I promise....
So he broke your rules and not the site rules... I get it now "
I think some people have problems understanding how this site works. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont talk with males only interested in females (it clearly states on my profile)
the female wanted me 2 phone her male partner to get me verified
why cant the female not talk 2 me instead
Can I ask was this a single females profile or a couples?"
it was from a female profile
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"i dont talk with males only interested in females (it clearly states on my profile)
the female wanted me 2 phone her male partner to get me verified
why cant the female not talk 2 me instead
Can I ask was this a single females profile or a couples?it was from a female profile
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Then I would report it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont talk with males only interested in females (it clearly states on my profile)
the female wanted me 2 phone her male partner to get me verified
why cant the female not talk 2 me instead
Can I ask was this a single females profile or a couples?it was from a female profile
Then I would report it."
ty
i already have done
(that user in question block me)
i do go bye the rules
an yes i no some don't that's there choice |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
you still didn't get what BB was trying to say....
if a verification is there just SOLELY to prove rightly or wrongly they are genuine... they why does it matter who does it???
for example.... if i met you at a club where there were couples/singles there and you were genuine, i have no interest in playing with you, but should i not verify you as genuine then????
if i meet you at some huge social... again i have no interest in playing with you.... should i not verify you.....
that was the point being made.... and you went all "ug, me not interested, ug ug ug" |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"you still didn't get what BB was trying to say....
if a verification is there just SOLELY to prove rightly or wrongly they are genuine... they why does it matter who does it???
for example.... if i met you at a club where there were couples/singles there and you were genuine, i have no interest in playing with you, but should i not verify you as genuine then????
if i meet you at some huge social... again i have no interest in playing with you.... should i not verify you.....
that was the point being made.... and you went all "ug, me not interested, ug ug ug" "
I can understand Glasgow being wary of wanting a male to verify him.
As has been shown on the forums before now, straight men who have TV's or men in their friends list get told they can't possibly be straight.
I think the point Glasgow was trying to make and what was missed, a female profile was telling him she could get a male to verify him.
Now the offer could have been genuine, we won't know, but I can understand him being wary and why he was asking should he report. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes that is ok he wanted to phone verify you a verification is what you asked for "
erm no i didn't female ask me 2 male the guy
am not interested in males |
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So you have no friends that are male then??? You don't talk to anyone that is male either because you are not interested in males. Sorry but that is the way it comes across to me. Accept the call, have a chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you have no friends that are male then??? You don't talk to anyone that is male either because you are not interested in males. Sorry but that is the way it comes across to me. Accept the call, have a chat. "
I have no clue in what your saying;
the problem is solve, the user
has been reported
read the above comments |
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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago
Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4 |
maybe the cant be arsed
maybe they cant put into words what a great stud you are
maybe asking them puts them off and would/might do it in their own time
i never ask for a veri i just get them and respond accordingly
i dont get what your pissed about according to you your getting meets isnt that more important?????? |
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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago
glasgow |
i my self do not verify a person until i have met them BUT its is not against the rules to verify if it is a phone chat.This has been said many time befOre in this post so can the complainer please LISTEN |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I think the point the person was trying to make and what was missed, a female profile was telling him she could get a male to verify him.
Now the offer could have been genuine, we won't know, but I can understand him being wary and why he was asking should he report. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the point the person was trying to make and what was missed, a female profile was telling him she could get a male to verify him.
Now the offer could have been genuine, we won't know, but I can understand him being wary and why he was asking should he report."
An i did report it as stated above |
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