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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You thought maybe you were the first guy to hear about this site and come have a go?
Nah man...a lot have trodden the path before you I'm afraid.
It takes a little work and not just registering a profile on a website.
keep at it though...it's a great place if you go at it with the right attitude so don't be too put off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought it would be easy to get some nsa fun on here... but noooo."
The best place to start is always a good profile.
It shows an amount of effort has been put in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought it would be easy to get some nsa fun on here... but noooo."
Why on earth did you think that? Fab is a swingers website not an escort agency.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I thought everyone was adults on here... so what's with all the games and time wasting if you don't want to meet someone just say Don't arrange a meet and blow someone out just does not make no sense to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought everyone was adults on here... so what's with all the games and time wasting if you don't want to meet someone just say Don't arrange a meet and blow someone out just does not make no sense to me"
They are plenty or people on Fab who are enjoying the swing scene, and the clubs are full of them. But the trick to the on-line side of it is to avoid the time-wasters and only communicate with those who are serious.
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"I thought it would be easy to get some nsa fun on here... but noooo."
I'm part of a couple, and organising meets is hard work. you have to make an effort ,catch someone's attention, and then keep em interested..probably had at least a hundred meets fall through, usually at the last possible moment..
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
When I saw the thread title ....why did I know it was from a guy who'd been here a few days ...
All genders and demographics have it hard on here..often for very different reasons .. you have to figure out the nuances that make you appealing ... My suggestion .. lose a lot of the expectation ..  |
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I've been in scene 9 years .. rarely get any messages and am regularly asked for meets by people I know from Events but still get blownout. Friends get 100 messages a day and same scenerio. Just nature of cyber land and not unique to fabs.
There are so many fake accounts on here ( still never worked out why ) but a hot body wont cut any mustard..
It helps to be verified . To proof you COULD be real so get out to a club or event. And stick your face up xx and ps going to those doesn't guarantee free sex either .. you probably do better on the wood burning site for that lol xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would you go to a club/bar/the supermarket and expect to get laid..instantly...probably not...as for people letting you down...it's the Internet...for every genuine guy/girl/couple there are a ton of time wasters. My advice if you really want to get into the scene and not just get off/get laid as fast as possible is to look to join or at least visit and have a chat to your local swingers club. Firstly, your already there with likeminded people, you may get a "no thanks" but at least that's instant...but you can chat/meet people instantly, although like any human interaction...just because your there...doesn't mean your getting laid.
If your respectful and you seem like your a good looking bloke...id go to a club and speak to people/flirt...you never know.... |
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