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How do I get more attention?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi all, I have been on the site for a week now and haven't gotten much attention or replies? What am I doing wrong? Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all, I have been on the site for a week now and haven't gotten much attention or replies? What am I doing wrong? Thanks xx"

Don't you mean 'WE'?

'I' sounds like a single person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well, single women are the least common users of this site and the most sought after, so don't expect instant results for starters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all, I have been on the site for a week now and haven't gotten much attention or replies? What am I doing wrong? Thanks xx

Don't you mean 'WE'?

'I' sounds like a single person."

Yep we thought the same,there may lie there or he/she problem

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"Hi all, I have been on the site for a week now and haven't gotten much attention or replies? What am I doing wrong? Thanks xx

Don't you mean 'WE'?

'I' sounds like a single person.

Yep we thought the same,there may lie there or he/she problem "

Thought the same thing.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple over a year ago

Leeds

"Hi all, I have been on the site for a week now and haven't gotten much attention or replies? What am I doing wrong? Thanks xx"

Are you the male or female? In a couple it is always nice to know who's posting.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The same answer as goes for single fellas who ask.

Interact with people, via the forums and chat rooms. Seek out and message people yourselves, waiting for people to come to you will prove largely pointless. You've been here 7 days so perhaps lower the expectations a tad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes I mean we but I normally post and do things on the account so my mistake

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The same answer as goes for single fellas who ask.

You're right. I've messaged a few people and widended my search options a fair bit. I'll keep trying. What forums do you recommend?x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi all, I have been on the site for a week now and haven't gotten much attention or replies? What am I doing wrong? Thanks xx

Are you the male or female? In a couple it is always nice to know who's posting.

Sally"

Hi Sally, I am the female x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A whole week and you aren't knee deep in clunge? Jeez!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yous are hot.I'm surprised yer not getting loads

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We didn't get much attention until we got out to a party/ club and received verifications.... Now there are lots x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We didn't get much attention until we got out to a party/ club and received verifications.... Now there are lots x"

Ah I see that makes sense xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A whole week and you aren't knee deep in clunge? Jeez!!"

Thanks for the help.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all, I have been on the site for a week now and haven't gotten much attention or replies? What am I doing wrong? Thanks xx

Are you the male or female? In a couple it is always nice to know who's posting.

Sally

Hi Sally, I am the female x"

Oh that proves things then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yous are hot.I'm surprised yer not getting loads "

I agree if I DE ye speke liker farrrmeerr I be well in I do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm on site with a bunch of lads working in slough from a tarmac company based in Somerset tonight could ask them if there up for it

P. 's joking x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yous are hot.I'm surprised yer not getting loads

I agree if I DE ye speke liker farrrmeerr I be well in I do "

Are you saying I speak like a farmer?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yous are hot.I'm surprised yer not getting loads

I agree if I DE ye speke liker farrrmeerr I be well in I do

Are you saying I speak like a farmer?"

No you Mellon the OP is from Somerset x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So technically speaking I'm agreeing with you, if I was up there ways I'd adleast try and get to know then and if there's a connection bobs your uncle

Cause they look hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi all, I have been on the site for a week now and haven't gotten much attention or replies? What am I doing wrong? Thanks xx

Are you the male or female? In a couple it is always nice to know who's posting.

Sally

Hi Sally, I am the female x

Oh that proves things then

What does it prove?

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By *ick1979xxMan over a year ago

hornyville

Ill meet you both

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You both look hot so surely you'll get the attention you desire in good time

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By *otrockloverMan over a year ago

Newcastle

Your profile is clear and pictures are hot. The only thing you're probably getting "wrong" is having an expectation that your first week will result in a quality meet. This site takes time. Spend it being proactive exploring the profiles and forums and connections won't be too far behind. Getting to a club, even if just socially, will also raise your visibility here. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One way of getting less attention is to post on here....asking for attention after just one week?

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By *habsMan over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Wow, a whole week and no one's chopped an arm off to meet you yet?

But in all seriousness, it took me a year for anyone to take me seriously, and that was even after I had been to a few socials. You just have to be patient.

I did notice the post sounded like the profile belonged to a single: if a guy, therein lies the problem. If a girl, could just as easily be construed as a sense of entitlement.

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By *achiavellian_adventuresCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke/Andover

You're photo verified which is good, but it's also worth getting verified by webcam on the chatroom for extra assurance for potential suitors.

Be aware that you are essentially hunting unicorns which don't come along that often. It can take weeks to build up enough trust with someone for them to meet a couple; it can be scary for them. Also, expect to be disappointed in person - often photos can be very misleading. However, sometimes you can get lucky and you end up with your own pet unicorn like our own... Yummy!

Flick xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"One way of getting less attention is to post on here....asking for attention after just one week?"

Not asking for attention. Asking for advice on how to do better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One way of getting less attention is to post on here....asking for attention after just one week?

Not asking for attention. Asking for advice on how to do better."

Read your heading " how do I get more attention "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"One way of getting less attention is to post on here....asking for attention after just one week?

Not asking for attention. Asking for advice on how to do better.

Read your heading " how do I get more attention ""

Read the post. Asking for advice on attention. Not asking for attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am literally asking for advice and people are just being rude and nit picking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your profile is clear and pictures are hot. The only thing you're probably getting "wrong" is having an expectation that your first week will result in a quality meet. This site takes time. Spend it being proactive exploring the profiles and forums and connections won't be too far behind. Getting to a club, even if just socially, will also raise your visibility here. Good luck! "